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Fair point.
How old are you? It’s girlfriends joking around. Let it go.
In addition to what almost every single person wrote, I also want to add, that if your sex sessions are long or physically exhausting doing that a few times a week can seem like a chore.
Quality over quantity.
My husband and I have been together for about 10 years. It used to be, mainly vanilla sex but at minimum once every other day and maybe 15 minutes. As we've gotten more open and experimental (and older – we're in our 40s), it's gone down to once every 1-1.5 weeks but it also is a constant high intensity for 30-45 minutes straight and sometimes 2-3 sessions one after another.
I'd rather have what I have now than daily sex that's good but not a constant out of this world. Haha.
I was thankfully able to transfer my job.
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Please understand, I consider your stories valid and truthful, I don't think you did anything wrong, and I'm sorry about your run of poor luck.
Sadly there are risks involved when speaking ill an ex, no matter how richly they deserve it. You may be talking to someone with a past experience with someone who wore the mantle of victimhood, and used it to justify episodes of moody or toxic behavior. Or you may be revealing things about your ex which the person you're talking to has an expectation of privacy.
TBH I don't think these risks should silence you. If your idea of a healthy relationship involves openness and sharing – or if old wounds sometimes need a little TLC – then I wouldn't let this episode deny you those satisfactions with a future partner.
Smells like Alan rickman buying that tart from the office an expensive gold necklace and screwing over emma Thompson kind of vibe
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Once the trust is gone, it's hard to get It back. Let it just sit for a while, and see how it develops. Things may never be the same.
Dude, don’t be a fucking clown. ”I wanna date you, but only after I go fuck a bunch of people. That’s cool, right?”
Have some goddamn self respect and at least acknowledge you have some value.
It is cheating.
I've never cheated, but for perspective I met my husband through live gaming after years of friendship, it developed and we eventually met. This isn't nothing.
I’ve been with my wife for nearly twenty years, and I don’t think we have each other’s friend’s numbers.
Had a friend like this once. Admittedly he was a good looking guy and could have anyone he wanted. He tested this mantra daily… He was dating the most beautiful gal – both inside and out – but still had to put his p3nis into everything and everyone else including the woman he knew I was into, all the while gaslighting me into not thinking about her because he knew if I found out who she was now dating, his betrayal would come to light.
Eventually it all blew up in his face when the ladies all attended the same work function (they all worked at different branches of the same retail chain where we all worked).
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It's the fact that he wasn't single at the time, even if the other person was asking for them, that makes him a creep, IMO.
Sorry, English is not my first language. I changed it.
Ah, ok, so if you’ve been a bit timid, this sounds like maybe the issue is that you’re a bit of a people pleaser. What that means is that you put other first sometimes at your expense. But that can sometimes lead to things becoming even more frustrating, which leads to resentment and explosions of frustration. So for this situation take some ownership that you might not have been as clear about how much it affects you and that can lessen the anger you feel directed at her. Then tell her how much the cats are affecting your sleep and ask to discuss other options that you both can be comfortable with.
get over it, or idk. have a conversation with your gf?
The easy answer is move the cats food bowl maybe?
Your boundary isn't “dumb.” How would he feel if you went to a bar and the men there had their dicks hanging out? He sounds disrespectful and childish and he should be considerate if your boundaries.
He could be getting it from someone else or has a porn addiction. But I think that would be a deal breaker for me if my significant other felt powerful saying no to me BUT I HAD to always give it. I think you should find someone closer to your age or someone that's just compatible with you.
Yeah animals can take Benadryl safely but at low fucking doses mate, < 6 mg.
If a cat ingested a regular adult 25 mg pill it will cause some serious side effects and could prove fatal.
His ex treated me like shit, we were suppose to hang out one day they ghosted. They constantly said they wanted a relationship with me but never put any effort into doing so for months. So, it’s not the facts it’s his ex, it’s the person.
Don't stay. He basically said “things could work if YOU change but I would never make the EXACT SAME CHANGE and go against my beliefs/parents beliefs to be with you”
Like he could be worth it for you but you couldn't be worth it for him. This is not the kinda person you grow old with?
Also: PLEASE break things into paragraphs (literally anywhere is better than no breaks at all) when you write things! It's really hard to not lose my place when everything is one big blob! Thanks?
Thank you, this is great advice.
If I dont impress women how can I attract them? No ones notices me, ever.
I want to stay myself but if I stay myself no woman gets interested. Its always rejection rejection rejection. Whatever I say about myself or how I try to introduce myself. I want to change this but anything I do just doesnt make it better. Maybe Im not physically attractive? Idk, im looking for answers.
I agree with you that I shouldnt take things personally, but after countless times thoughts have slowly been creeping into my mind telling me I am not good enough and it IS personal, because my friends and family do manage to attract women. But not me. Im the only one. This is why I am thinking it is personal despite I dont want to think it.
Respect, thanks for your perspective. I’m willing to take accountability for all of my behaviors.
Thank you
Would it be best to give him space and maybe text/call him next week?
Maybe leave him alone? Your domineering drunken attitude probably gave him major ick.
Write him a letter and tell him how you feel. I think it would be helpful to explain briefly your PTSD if he is not already aware so that he knows it's not because of something he did.
Unfortunately, he needs therapy or medication to overcome his anger. It is excessive and damaging your relationship. If he refuses therapy/medication (most do), divorce is your only option, because there is a 99% chance that he won't change.
His lack of effort towards sharing household duties is separate from his anger, but it could be related to his inability (?) to find a job.
In either case (anger / depression / laziness / etc) I personally would recommend that you separate from him and seek divorce.
He's a “semi famous” guy which suggests he probably has money to pay for a second room.
He's inviting a friend, a young female university student, to a networking event involving alcohol, and offering to pay for everything except on one condition – she must sleep in his hotel room. If she refuses that, then she can't go. That's pushy.
I wonder if she offered to pay for her own room if he'd be OK with that or would he suddenly revoke the offer to cover her other costs of transport and attendance.
You have to say something.
First, this is a health issue. It needs to be addressed. Something is causing this sudden change.
Second, ignoring all the people who will call me shallow for this, you can't date somebody you're not attracted to. It's a recipe for disaster. So if you don't say something, the only option is to break up. It would be a shame to jump straight to that.
Try to broach the subject gently. She clearly knows it's happening, but maybe she is in denial and needs to confront it.
Good chance she flips out and calls you shallow, and the relationship blows up. Such is the risk we run when doing the right thing.
Good luck.
He was upfront and offered alternatives. OP should just get their own room since their into going to that event.
Then ask the more reason for you not to pursue her. You should not be in a relationship with anyone with kids.
I was left crying on the floor. This is not the first time he has been emotionally unavailable. He has also made a habit of calling me offensive names, especially after drinking.
End the relationship. He’s showing you who he is. It’s not going to get better.
A year with no big love moment. Drats!
It’s definitely time.
I start to feel that love things in like 2-3 months most of the time. I just know if someone is special to me.
I’m usually hold off for at least 5-6 months though.
It’s kinda like an engagement, you never want to do it before you know for sure it’s going to go over well.
After a year you should DEFINITELY know.
So idk maybe have a special night. Make dinner, wine, candles, set the mood. And drop the bomb if you feel he is ready to hear it. It will definitely take y’all to the next level. And I think it’s time for sure.
If he can’t say it after a year, that’s kinda scary and honestly a little red flag.
Wait, how did you think this was going to be ok? Did you have an agreement that it was ok to make out with others? (Never mind the sister bit for now) I’m really curious. You kissed and she snapchatted it- which seems difficult if you’re kissing someone and must be a really long kiss.
So please please tell us what made you think this was going to be ok?
The thing with guys that go after much younger women is there is no developing attraction that you're speaking of. Monkey brain sees a pair of perky college girl boobs and they throw out the fact that they have nothing in common and are in completely separate phases of life.
Guys going after younger women either don't care about the actual relationship aspect much and just want sex with a hard young girl, or they have so many red flags that the only people they can get to overlook them are naive teenagers
This!! My when I first started dating my boyfriend, he was still friends with his ex. They would hook up on and off while they were single but not while they were in relationships. I was the only relationship he's had after her. When we started seeing each other, he told me that he told her and she was happy for us. We were all from the same high-school so me and the ex had each other on social media. She started posting things about me, things about him and our relationship. She would try and add the rest of my social media accounts and stalk the ones she could. She did NOT seem to approve. Whenever I would talk to him, he would tell me that I was being crazy and they were just friends and she was happy for us.
I was actually going to end the relationship because I felt like I was going crazy. I felt like she was trying to bully me into leaving and seeming like the crazy one so he wouldn't be mad at her. I still think he's refusing to acknowledge her intentions, but they don't talk anymore at least.
I'd bite his hand.
Block her and move on. Stop wasting your own time.
You are the asshole here. He will watch porn. He will watch other girls ass.
You can make him promise not to do it but he will. You can accept it or you can find the 1 in 10 million who is not watching this.
OK, so troll post. You only want to flex here. Just F*ck him and move on. You'll both figure it out.
My thinking comes from alot of people stress and make it known eventually that their together for the kids, the way she speaks about him in this there is very Little love still there and growing resentment probably on both sides. The only option I could truly see Saving their marriage is separating their finances(outside of shared expenses) and just maybe couples counseling.
He wants to live frugal without appearing frugal She doesn't want expensive if she's not going to make sure needed things are there first.
My example is him getting mad over cheap clothes and makeup and sometimes groceries as she states. 2 of which are needed in a home, but a happy parent does wonders to their parenting often times unhappy parents take it out on their kids in subtle ways that the kid notices and the adult does not.
I know this isn’t what you want to hear, but it just takes time. It’s hard to force yourself to be around other people when all you want is to be alone/be with her, but hanging out with friends or family helps get your mind off of her. It will take time, but you’ll find yourself thinking of her less and less. You don’t need to rush into a relationship to forget about her, as rebounds don’t usually work out, but don’t be closed off to the idea of seeing someone else if a good opportunity presents itself (ie a girl you find pretty/you like wants to spend time with you).
I think your GF is not considering your feelings here at all and surely your feelings should be paramount since you’re the one having the therapy? I’d say keep the therapist and cut the gf loose.
Then maybe you should have paid for her to go to school instead of your drop out son
I like getting sucked in. Like a scary movie. You know it but you just go along and set reality aside.
That is where my concern lies. She believes she’s capable of not having any emotional connection… however, we both agree that this is not long term and it’s just a sexual experience.
I would see this being an absolute “NO” if I’m looking for a romantic relationship with her… but it’s not anything other than sex.
If it’s someone of the same age, and it’s just sex, then it’s okay… why isn’t it ok with two consenting adults?
But your questioning the feeling part is very valid.
It's not worth it. Work romance rarely works and could damage your reputation. Put some distance and always have someone around when he is around. Also talk to your bf about going on dates together.
Exactly this. U stop it before it even starts.
The fact this dude didn't even feel like he needed to apologize and instead tried to make u feel like ur the reason he's an ignorant immature prat that can't behave like an adult is laughable. He's an AH. He feels he has nothing to say sorry for. So that's a whole parade of red flags all in it's own
Please don't deal with this shit any further he is gonna do it again and weigh ur self esteem down. Make it very clear u are not the one that will take that.
Ur wanting to date a man not a 10yo child. If he can't see where he went wrong dump him!
So he's looking got a sex/cleaning robot that dispenses money?
What is he bringing to the relationship? Traditional or otherwise?
Please run and stop wasting your time on this guy.
That's true I'll put that in mind. I don't think it'll cost our relationship but it'll be rough for a while
Wondering if he read something about pheromones, there are a bunch of people on the InTeRwEbS who believe that you shouldn't shower too much bc it sTrIpS yOuR mAnLiNeSs.
OP, you really need to ask him. Something like, “hey, love, what's going on? I noticed you're not showering as much, is there a reason for that? Because I really love touching clean hair, I find it a turn on…”
Yeah she is. I did said it to her, dw I'll make her see reason
“if women actually want you they'll do it a lot”
He has some growing up to do, and on multiple levels. What I take from this is that he doesn't see you as an individual with your own distinct wants and needs and desires, but rather as a monolithic “woman” chiselled from the same homogenous rock as every other woman.
Then he’s just visited therapists and never actually been in therapy. He should try it again and this time go in there with the intent to make changes, which means he’s going to have to disclose.
No, I haven’t because you haven’t shared them. Just like you don’t share details with your fuck buddy. She’s only asking stuff because she wants something from you? That sounds paranoid. If that’s the vibe you’re getting then why hang with her at all? Point blank, you are the one playing games with her.