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I'm sure you might already know this, but I want to make you aware of something. As the father of two young men I can tell you that even at his age, being a parent is all about the time you spend with him.
As for him wanting to call you “dad”, that is pretty fcking awesome. Biology is one thing, being a positive influence in your child's life is entirely another, and it sounds as if you are working daily toward that goal. Congratulations! If you've been on Reddit for any length of time at all, you've certainly read horror stories and that kids and adults tell about their horrible excuses for parents.
Remember, too, that nobody is perfect, as adults we should know that very well by now, especially about ourselves. But children need to understand it too, and they need to understand that you're not perfect, and neither are they. Don't expect any more of him than he can handle, but raise him to be the best person he can be.
I imagine that it has been quite difficult for you, because you aren't starting with a baby, you're starting with a preteen, and you don't know how he was raised prior to this. If you feel comfortable talking with him, then do it. Just remember to do it on his level. If writing is your thing, do that. I know that sometimes I'm able to verbalize what I want to say to my young men, but other times I want them to have it in writing, so that they can refer back to it at any given time…so that they have written proof that their father would drop everything for them.
I don't know how it'll end up with you, but I want you to know, in all seriousness, that being a dad is by far the most fun, and most rewarding thing I've ever done.
I wish you both nothing but the absolute best.
Break the fuck up and dump her sorry ass
You absolutely can ?
Good luck!
I think in the situation one of the hardest things you’re having to deal with accepting is that you did everything in your power to create a stable and happy home life, and it just didn’t pan out the way you had hoped. You’re upset because you had a ten step plan to happiness and when your wife wasn’t feeling it, she didn’t offer or give you a chance to come up with step 11 and you feel like all your effort was wasted.
you’re justified in how you feel, but right now I would probably just focus on your personal mental health and stability to ensure kiddo is affected as less as possible.
Very welcome! Wishing you both the best and happier days ahead.
I mean, you pretty much have an accurate understanding of why you're probably doing it (not enough self confidence and self belief, needing external confirmation). Tbh if you work on that and respecting yourself more, your sex life will also get even better as a side effect!
In the meantime, why did you ask him to stop doing something in his private time with his own body? Since you understand the request was caused by insecurity rather than something positive or healthy, what good do you think could come of this even if he stopped masturbating so as to appease your insecurity about yourself? That's maybe a reasonable request if you're actively working on yourself and want him to stop doing it for a limited period of time to avoid triggering the insecurity in you, and even then I'd say few partners would be willing to submit their body to your fear's will (rightly so). Get some help by talking to friends or a therapist who can help you stay grounded and give yourself the confirmation you need so you don't try to control others because you feel afraid.
He’s a sucker and a fool. Why pay all that money for something fake when he has you for free? Sadly this is very common and is how cam girls make most of their money (and sex workers, in general, make money).
I would drop this dumbass and let him waste his money on something fake as you deserve a lot better than this clown.
He probably thinks one of the girls “loves” him and that’s why he does this.
So?
He should never have got married if he can’t control his behaviour.
Bully and abuse plain and simple. You can continue to keep taking it or make changes. He is a bully
Have you told him how your feeling, asked him if he's okay (maybe he's depressed?)? Y'all need to have an open, honest, and vulnerable conversation with eachother or else you won't figure it out.
I'm no psychologist, so take this with a grain of salt, but your fiance sounds like a classic narcissist to me. Again, this is based on no qualifications.
Even if that's not her diagnosis, why would you want to be with this person? She sounds awful. And that's in your words, which are probably as “benefit of the doubt” filled as possible.
Did coke & assaulted someone
we were joking around about something random i forgot the exact words that were exchanged but it wasnt a serious conversation
Man, you are so bloody dense it's mind boggling. I'm wondering how you even got a gf in the first place. Get over yourself and grow up.
I think his concerns are valid; buying a housr with someone youve only known for two years and dont seem to be married to is a pretty huge deal that can have a lot of negative ramifications down the line.
that said, i get where youre coming from too even though I’m very similar your boyfriend when it comes to this sort of thing. It’s really, really nude to come to the realization that youre in a different emotional place than your partner and sometimes waiting for them to catch up just causes a lot of heartache. If this is the biggest issue in your relationship though, I think you can come back from it if you both really want to. The fact that he’s getting cold feet about buying a house doesnt mean he doesnt see a future with you; he just might see a longer timeline for major financial/life decisions like homeownership.
Since this happened I moved abroad. Life among other things keep us on opposite schedules
Yeesh. Either he actually thinks that, or he is someone who says mean things as a way to demean you so you feel “lucky” to be with him. Are either of those options ok to you? Because I don’t think either are ok personally.
What are you doing dating someone 12 years older than you? Stick with your age group, you're no where near capable of realizing that you were being manipulated the entire time.
There is a difference between forgetting someone and taking out someone from the heart. If your wife says she still has feelings for her ex, she still misses him and wants to know if he is ok and keep a contact with him. Secondly 12 years are enough to know someone. Thirdly, it is not like she does not love me; she does but I feel her love is conditional because we are bound to love each other because of kids and marriage and like I said, for all the practical reasons like she is well settled financially with me and gets what she wants and of course societal pressure, she wont leave me. Her ex once gifted something to her and I have gifted better things to her but she still misses the gift he got from him – this is once example. For me, I cant leave her otherwise I would not have been seeking advice here. I want this relationship to work. Leaving is not an option as I am madly in love with her and I know if I do, I ll hurt myself more and as of now I have chosen this but what I really wanted is somehow she loves me more than her ex