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He is in therapy now and has been since before I met him. I’m not sure I’ve seen any change. (Also on meds) I get the feeling that he is perhaps not doing any of the exercises he is being asked to do by his therapist.
How would feel if he was that touchy with other women? He’s said he’s uncomfortable, he’s asked for a boundary with regards to your physical affection. At the end of day of you can’t agree to it, then the relationship won’t go anywhere. Do your guy friends have girlfriends and if so, do you behave like this in front of them? Just curious as I can’t imagine they’d be comfortable with it.
Grow up and learn to read yourself. He didn’t cheat ffs.
I agree that you need to go low contact. I wish you luck finding a job. Maybe write a letter expressing how frustrating the preferential treatment has been, especially considering your mother’s history with her brothers. A paragraph or two, edit until it’s factual, then consider sending it. You’re still young, so I do believe there is hope for a much better relationship given time and space… If she’s willing to work on herself and put in the effort of doing better by you.
Yes you do. You know exactly what to do. It’s been a long time coming.
That’s not an open relationship. That’s polyamory.
Strip clubs are literally sexual in nature babes. The only reason to go is to see women dance on poles and show their tits. That’s literally the only reason someone would go ?
Doubt that. You’ll probably be on this page again talking about how your next girlfriend is an emotional mess and you had to hit her to get her to calm down
Please post an update AFTER you install the nanny cam- it’s WEIRD AS FUCK
I beat my grandfather only 2 times and he let me win. I still remember the matches when i was 6 and 11 when he let me win. I'm sad that he died before i could beat him on my own merits. He was the local master here in the 50s-60s. He started to teach me chess when i was ~4ish. I lost every game and i knew even then that he let me win. I still cherish the skill he gave me. After he died i was given his chess pieces and board.
So many thoughts.
He should not be having breakdowns or tantrums or whatever you want to call Tunney because you don't have enough tattoos. Like holy hell, this man has too much time on his hands if such a petty complaint is causing him distress.
I don't know the likelihood of his cheating on you. Probably depends on factors like if an opportunity presents itself (because he's passive) and whether he thinks he'll get caught. I also have to wonder his motivation for telling you. Was this a confession or a threat to keep you scared and compliant?
What I do know is that he can't unring that bell. The fear will basically always be there. Every time you go out of town, every time he goes out alone, any time a woman flirts with him, you'll be wondering. That's a hot way to live!.
It was not, in fact, a healthy sexual relationship.
Don't have sex with the friends you want to keep.
So you want to be a non producing partner? What benefits will he get? How do you plan on selling this to him?
This would be a hot line for me. Both me and my wife work we both make enough that one of us could stay home with the KIDS, but we don't our equal partnership lead us to try and make more and get ourselves in great shape for when the kids need post secondary schooling.
You should want to be equals not a cut above or they will start to resent you, it may happen slowly but it'll happen.
Also your kind of entitled, I want spa days two trips a year and not to work. Lady we all do.
Thanks for the reply and sharing these feelings.
I am maintaining my friend groups but as stated a lot of them are friends that we know mutually/ had relations with before things started to turn sour. So it almost brings a layer of guilt into the situation, but I try to look past that with the hope that this will turn around.
She has a close group that seems to support her no matter what and any time I try to make a counterpoint their only offering to the situation is “break up with him”
That being said I think others are also aware of what’s going on and I’m sure if the ripcord gets pulled I’ll manage to ride it out. I’ve got a good career, supporting family, and I have hobbies that help me maintain my mental clarity. It’s just unfortunate to feel like such a large part of my life, especially a part where I really got to know myself, is seemingly getting torn apart.
And child support payments most likely
I'm sure any decent partner would want you to take the number and stay safe as long as you are honest about it.
I think you need to put this in perspective.
You two invited a discussion where, frankly, it went shallow and judgey.
You then started rating each other- instead of just assuming that what you were to your partner was more than adequate, never mind the number used.
You were told you are not perfect and are reeling from that because in your mind, if he loves you, he sees you as perfect.
That is not true. When you are love, you love despite the other person not being perfect.
Sure, he could have been more tactful and not been pedantically honest, but that is not a strong suit for many people.
As long as he isn't negging you- I would reaffirm that self esteem comes from within, and don't play rating or judging games where you turn it inward. These conversations rarely are productive and just highlight your insecurity.
Don't wear the sunglasses. That will look really bad in a nice restaurant. Tactfully tell the truth that their daughter got a bit anxious in her sleep and accidentally caught you. If they know their daughter then they'll know that about her and probably get a giggle out of it. No need to stress. You've got a very valid and non dodgy reason for that shiner.
He doesn't want to take care of his kids. Too bad, go on your trip anyway.
This is a huge red flag. He smashed your things. Not a good look.
So, y'all had achild when you were teenagers, got married right away, and now that the dust is settling and the reality of being adults is hitting you, everyone has new/different ideas of where they want to go in life.
I dont have a solution for ya, but I'm not surprised that you both learn to value different connections in your life as you mature. Not saying either of you is wrong or at fault here.
You’re absolutely right .
I agree with most of this comment, but i want to point out one thing: counseling is not recommended for people in abusive or manipulative relationships, and this is exactly that.
Thats her admitting wrong in a nutshell without admitting guilt to you. By her saying she wont hang out with the new friend, thats her essentially saying yeah I crossed the line and I wont put myself in that position again. But I tend to believe that this friend will be around again.
I've been through the same thing, except it was my ex-wife that put in >30%…
I second this. I don’t see how people don’t see it as sexist.