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Fairy Yuki, 28 y.o.
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Date: October 26, 2022
Fairy Yuki, 28 y.o.
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Communication is a HUGE thing in the lifestyle. Are you in the wrong? Both yes and no. It's he in the wrong yes, and again kinda not.
Communication is what's lacking in most relationships, but it is so very important in the swinging and bdsm lifestyle.
I use the ol Bugs Bunny analogy. If no one tells you to turn left at Albuquerque, you certainly won't turn left at Albuquerque.
You didn't know the limits because the limits he didn't tell you the limits, but you didn't ask either. On the flip side of that coin, he most certainly should have brought up that limit.
Now is the time to BOTH acknowledge the mistake of not communicating, and make that promise to EACH OTHER that you'll communicate every detail, no matter how minor it may seem.
You'll find an entire new level of respect and closeness you've never experienced.
Feel free to shoot a message and I'll try answer any questions you have
It’s been a few months of her bitching and neglecting the puppy. What the hell? Rehome the poor thing. This is totally messed up.
Are you serious? You sound horrible, immature, and petty. It's embarrassing that you even think you are right.
You should break up and go home to mommy and daddy. Don't date again until you are an adult.
In fact don't date. That isn't fair to the guys you prey on.
People have pasts. That is life. You are being petty and exhausting.
I did not ask for his money he's the one who spends it on me and my family never gets any money from him
Oh gosh. Okay. Well, I am envisioning telling him in the presence of whichever lawyer I find after I’ve worked with them to prepare everything on my end. But if that’s not in their purview then I’ll do as suggested.
So is Date night for you a night sitting at home in front of the TV with your gf? That may be time with your partner but would you honestly call that a date? If you were asking someone out on a date would that mean a night in front of the TV.
As I said, why are you here if you won't help?
Maybe she is tired from cleaning up after you all the time, sho when you have to “work to earn it” it actually helps her get in the mood because she is not spending all her energy cleaning up after you and being your maid.
Also, do you do anything intimate that does not include sex, or do you just come home and expect her to jump on you? Do you do any foreplay or do you just whip it out?
Most Woman need to feel loved to give sex. You need to find out what her love language is and make her feel loved.
I wonder what her reaction was right after it happened…
So uhhhhhhh I’m going to try to be helpful. I’m going to suggest you do a minimum amount of talking and just listen to what your son has to say. Don’t react just fully take in what he’s saying, process it, and don’t make excuses. Don’t try to justify your actions because in the end you betrayed him in a very big way and the fact that after only four years he’s willing to go from no contact to at least meeting is quite generous.
I think a question you will need to expect is why his friend of all people and why did you prioritize his friend over him(missing soccer games and his 18th birthday). I would take the next day or so to do some soul searching and figure out the answer to these questions because “well it just happened” and “i was lonely” are not going to cut it. Please keep us updated on how this goes because ooooof
I usually feel like I have to keep my mind busy on something but will definitely not fidget with her and look at getting some fidget toys. Thank you
I mean when you wake up at 9am each morning and get home at 5-6 it feels like a full time job
Give yourself time. You'll get over it and forgive yourself. Dude has probably just done a number on your self esteem so you don't know what's what . You didn't do anything wrong
Dude, seriously. About a year ago my husband was struggling through some intense mental health stuff, like daily panic attacks for a while. He kept feeling guilty that he was “hogging all our emotional energy”, and I kept reassuring him the pendulum swings back around and right now he needs support. He got the help he needed and then, like, 5 seconds later my mom was hospitalized with terminal cancer and I spent many months “hogging all our emotional energy”. Over the years together, it balances out.
I don't really see the point in being in a relationship so transactional. Where is the love?
You have two choices. Keep the baby and be fully prepared to lose your boyfriend and raise it on your own. Or have the abortion, keep your boyfriend, and possibly resent him for his coercion. His view on having kids is a solid one and regardless of whether you feel he should feel different because of the loving sex you guys had it won't change his mind. People can be completely anti kids and yet have amazing, mindblowing, soul syncing sex. At this point in time it's really about how you feel about the matter. But honestly if you're not going to be financially capable of taking care of this kid on your own then it wouldn't be fair on the kid to keep it. You shouldn't be forgetting that there's a little person who is going to be brought into the situation.
@CEPIV I guarantee this is what happened. If so, that's crazy jealous and you might want to think about whether you want to sign up for more of this.