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Model from: us
Languages: en
Birth Date: 1984-11-21
Body Type: bodyTypeThin
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorBlonde
Eyes color: eyeColorBrown
Subculture: subcultureHousewives
Date: October 27, 2022
Set the clock for the night she hooks up after work at the bar ⏰
He quit his job 🙁 he was there 6 years & his mental health got bad and he quit
Her behavior is that of someone who may not be actually enjoying the sex as much as you.
Do she even get off?
Or does has she just been letting you use her body to get off all this time?
Oh yeah for both people it’s disgusting, side note, apparently they did a study and women’s farts smell worse than men’s on average ? don’t know how they measured that ?
If you’re in the US call your state’s elder care services and report suspected elder abuse. They will be compelled to do a home evaluation.
When you add on that most people in western countries have 2 incomes and the woman is still doing 70-80%+ of home duties. It makes no sense to be in a situation with a man that earns the same as you. It’s exploitative. A good way to compensate for mens already ingrained belief that you will do most of the cooking, cleaning etc is to require them to be able to pay to outsource it. I’m not sacrificing my career to cook and clean and prepare Christmas while you sit and have a beer only paying 50% of bills.
Terrible advice. The best way to talk about these things with your partner is through a compliment sandwich i.e. “You’re amazing I love you, I think there is this one thing we can do better together, btw you’re amazing”.
Have you ever been to relationship counseling 101?
I already talk with her daily about this and she knows my current hesitations.
It’s obvious I can’t find useful advice here and that’s OK.
Why do you care so much about maintaining a relationship a woman complicit in the affair and with the man who cheated on your mother and destroyed her in unimaginable ways? Who broke up your family?
If my father did that to my mother, he would be out of my life.
INFO: who is she saving the lingerie for? You wear it to share it. Who is she wearing it for, if she's not showing it to her monogamous partner?
You're allowing her to keep this secret because you know it's divorce/dump worthy that she kept the gift. It sounds she sounds like she wants to fuck them. There is no other reason I'd keep lingerie from an outside couple and also keep it to myself. You'd be the only reason I wear lingerie.
A good friend gives me a great bra? You'd have seen the shit right away because it's supportive. Sexy ruffles and lace? Um, it would have been politely returned or regifted. And you'd have seen it because I'm distressed about getting it.
Her behavior is one of someone on the verge of cheating.
Exactly. His response to this will be a good indicator of what type of partner he'll be going forward.
It’s your decision to marry whoever you want it’s their decision to not like it
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I’m so happy for you both. I hope you continue down this path. Life is going to be so much more amazing for you. Best wishes!
I think you need to be too busy to attend this evening.
It’s no one’s business but your own. You don’t have to ever speak of it if you do not want to.
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That’s his fault. Demanding his ex-spouse be at a wedding to watch him marry the woman he left her for? And he thinks YOU are the one causing the problem? That’s impressive narcissism right there!
He has a reason, he just doesn't want to tell you. Could be he prefers a work/home separation. Could be he doesn't want to be around you all day. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
The man prefers to go into the office and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that, don't create a problem that doesn't exist.
Look, I have a lot of hang ups about being emotional, full stop. I don't cry in private and I definitely don't cry in front of people. But if I did, and my SO said something like men don't cry, I'd tell her to GTFO and go find the man of her dreams.
Real men aren't afraid of being vulnerable and real relationships require real vulnerabilities. If you can't cry in front of your SO, then find a better SO.
It IS way too soon. Tell her living together isn’t just about finances & you can revisit it in a year and a half.
It’s different for everyone.
I took about 18 mos off after filing for my divorce (cheating on me with a man in fact).
When I was ready to date again, I got on tinder. I had a 2 day chat policy then planned a coffee or drink meet up for like 30 min. You can know pretty fast if there’s a connection.
In two months I went on about 25 first dates (coffee or drinks) 10 second dates (dinner or similar) and one 3rd date that was basically all day at an air show I wanted to go to and weather was horrible. 3rd date guy is my partner of 5 years now.
Take time to heal. Take time to reconnect with yourself and get happy alone so a relationship is icing on the cake, not the cake itself.
You can do this. I was 39 when I was doing my divorce. It sucked of course but it didn’t ruin me.
I'm happy to see that you're cutting him loose. You deserve better than that.
Lol be like “did you get hacked? You prob don’t want that shit all horny on main if you’re trying to get a job”
I hope your right. He doesn't hang out with her “alone”? I'm sorry, if one of my male work friends had done what she did, that would be it. I would never be around someone that would make my husband question me.
I find this entire relationship with her inappropriate. You tell him and he says, “ok, I won't be alone with her but we're still hanging out”. And I find his putting you and your mum at risk (death) unforgivable.
Maybe you should be talking to a counselor. Someone who's equipped to navigate this, as I readily admit I'd have been gone by now. If it looks like a duck, and walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it's probably a duck. I'm sorry, but I think your husband may have a girlfriend. I hope I'm wrong and overreacting but honestly have you never been suspicious that they were more than friends?
Ooooooof
She is going to be blindsided and hurt. Theres no way to lessen that.
You dated for three years and moved in together recently. She is 34 and wants children. Was it a complete surprise to you that she started talking about having a baby, once you and she were living together?
Saying this to her will hurt her badly:
While I would also like to have kids eventually, I don't think I should have it with her
Do not say this to her, either:
I feel it would be easier for us to find partners more similar to us, than trying to change/adapt for each other
You may believe I it will be easier for you to find a better partner, but please don't tell her You are breaking up with her because you are thinking of her happiness.
Definitely do not say this:
I care about her a lot, and want the best for her
Because the unspoken part of that sentiment is “But I don't care about her enough to stay with her, and I want the best for her only if I don't have to play any part in making her happy.” She will be able to complete that sentence. DON'T tell her you want the best for her.
Make arrangements to live! somewhere else. Be honest and straightforward with her. Tell her something like,
I made a serious mistake agreeing to live together. I dont want to be with you any longer, and I'm ending our relationship I am moving out immediately. I'm sorry for the pain this causes you. I'm sorry I thought I was capable of this when I am not.”
Do not drag it out. Do not try to be a source of comfort to her. Dont negotiate or explain or argue.
Tell her and leave.
Try to make the financial hit less painful by taking on a greater share of the expense of this breakup that you wanted, and she must accept.
I seriously don't think he meant that seriously for $160.
It's a bad joke but shouldn't be taken seriously
I even started pole dancing lol which is literally so embarrassing….I feel like I’ve tried really nude to be sexy and fun and it’s just not enough. Idk what I was expecting to hear. I’ve heard the “it’s not the porn that is the issue” so many times and I think that is why I’ve stayed so long. And I’ve tried to be cool with it, I have. But choosing porn over having sex with your girlfriend is just crazy to me.
And then you became friends with her??
Coming from a white partner to a Mexican partner, it’s a red flag. This is probably the tip of the iceberg when it comes to ignorant bullshit he will never even bother to recognize, let alone fix
He’s negging you.
i’m sure her and her therapist will come up with a solution. She is very rational in that sense.
Do u think they will break up?
Did you mind wipe her when she was dating you? Why was it not a problem then but not it’s an issue?
This is as good as your relationship will ever get from this point forward. She doesn't understand why you might have a very legitimate issue with thus and is just choosing to bulldoze your feelings around it. So if you want to stay in an on-again-off-again relationship with this chick where she totally won't be screwing her “ex” then you could try and make it work. Or you could leave and look for something healthier.
You don’t get extra points for staying where you’re unhappy.
You guys could do a wedding or marriage ceremony but just don't become legally married
This man is trash. I'm so sorry.
Do you have friends or family that you can reach out to right now?
I'd contact a lawyer and see if it'd be viable to pursue child support. If he's going to walk out on yalls' kids, he can help pay for the childcare to replace him.
What happened at softball was an accident. You did nothing wrong. This wasn't your fault.
JFC, just get a gd lawyer.
I completely agree, boundaries are healthy and needed but why she cant respect the same boundary that she sets on me?
Absolutely part, if not all of my frustration. I’m so damn angry that the ex faked me out, and I feel like I wasted so much love and time on who turned out to not give a shit about me.
His red flag ? can give him nude time in jail.
Tell him to stop watching P*orn and that they NEVER go how they are planned.