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Date: October 27, 2022
Now this is dumb. You know the answer here. You can’t possibly be this desperate and obtuse.
Hey, thanks for the answer. She agreed. 🙂
Why does having less hobbies or less activities in your life make you not good enough?
I can be a nag, and snarky, and expect him to fuck up. I can be prideful and stubborn when I “know” I’m right. I tend to feel like I’m the one who “has her shit together,” so we should defer to my judgment.
My wife has elements of this – and let me tell you, it's easily her worst character flaw. Think about it from his perspective; he's got to live! with someone who is waiting to pounce on a moment's notice whenever he makes a mistake, is unkind about it when he does make a mistake, and refuses to back down or accept responsibility when she make a mistake.
We’re typically great communicators, and I keep a level head and speak to him calmly when he starts getting frustrated.
This isn't patronising in the least.
I do feel though that I make unfair comparisons. I start saying “well I could do this, so why can’t he?”
So I can only assume that you're a Nobel prize winning scientist who took home an Olympic gold medal for your interpretive dance routine set to your Grammy award winning song? Have you considered instead that you might fuck up just as regularly as your husband, but he doesn't make a thing of it? Or even if he does, your self-admitted pride and stubbornness means that you talk yourself into ignoring it?
I want to speak as highly of him as he does of me.
I think that starts by treating him as an equal. From what you've written here, it feels very much like you view him as subordinate in your relationship.
It sounds like it was just an accidental dial. Why would anyone remember a 3 second accidental dial from a year ago…
True, he is fine. Not because the relationship is gonna last long though, its just a pointless one anyways. Its mostly because he doesn't really deserve a good relationship with this kind of mindset. Look at him trying to fix a relationship that just exists because both parties are sticking to what they can get instead of what they really want.
God damn, you are so toxic. You sound like such a joy to be around, I can’t imagine why your wife would be disconnected when she has a second of free time. You are downplaying your ability to passively aggressively piss your wife off, which sounds awful and quite honestly manipulative.
When you have a stay at home mom, that is a full time job, which you obviously do not appreciate. I doubt any therapy or counseling will change your situation because you are currently choosing to be passive aggressive and quite honestly sound like a complete douchebag.
Just want to say I think you are being really reasonable and there’s nothing wrong with seeking some advice before broaching the topic. I wish I had some constructive feedback or advice about how to tackle this, all I can say is I don’t think it’s unfair to expect the person who doesn’t have a job to take on some more of the housework.
I can be a clutz and I always think it's cute when a girl laughs at my missteps. This dude is an egotistical douche
This sounds so familiar
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Appreciate this, thanks. It feels tough to think about not having your family in your life any more, but my boyfriend is wonderful and doesn't deserve the kind of disrespect he's getting from them.
She is the problem
Who do you think is in the wrong?
How did you “replace” each item? Did you sell them?
How did you “replace” each item? Did you sell them?
Dude, just block her and don't F*CKING unblocked her again
I call this a snoop dog situation, time for you to “bounce, bounce, bounce”
Seriously, men and women get frustrated when denied but not like this. You are seeing his true self. He thinks you will do whatever he wants, and you pushed back.
Dump the zero and find a hero
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She’s a grown woman who is responsible for her own decisions. If her cat allergy is so bad that she has to isolate herself from her family, she should have considered that ahead of time. She should be supporting you through this difficult time in your life, you didn’t do anything wrong.
Hi, thanks for the input! No, I don't expect him to change his entire routine or who he is. As I said in the post above, I requested that he shower at night when I see him and share a bed, which is rare (once/twice every other week or once a week). Not that he do it / change his routine everyday. No i don't have an irrational fear of germs/dirt. I just dislike the idea of sleeping in a whole days worth of sweat and grime, in clean sheets after my skincare routine is done. I have sensitive skin which is very acne prone. Dirty sheets means breakouts next day without fail + I like clean sheets.
You’re in a toxic relationship now. Why are you all fighting so much? It sounds like that’s all you do.
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She's playing you like a fool mate. I would move on.
I really came to this post believing we were back to middle age lol
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This isn't ok. You thought he had a penis and he doesn't. He should have told you from the get go. If he did tell you, would you have continued to date him? He probably thought no, and that's why he lied. Still not ok.
Doesn’t matter if you’re in a relationship a day or a decade: consent is everything. He very much manipulated you into unwanted sexual activity. A 25 yr old dude dating a 17 yr old girl give me the creeps. Block him and change your number.
It really wasn’t intentional, I’m not sure why I thought that in the heat of the moment, maybe it was my insecurities projecting as I realised I wouldn’t be cool with it if he prioritises another girl over me (He never does btw, he’s always there’s to listen and support me and I try to do the same but sometimes I just can’t say no to social invitations/fun and it causes problems)
Agreed. Testing DNA should be normal as the amount of fathers who find out their kid isn't theirs is insane.
OP, I get you're insulted, but this does happen to guys. It doesn't mean his friends are sexist or toxic.
Depends on where you live!. The United States has historically imposed a strong presumption of paternity and has also imposed barriers to paternity challenges once paternity has been legally established. Other countries have paternity fraud, though.
There’s a reason they make movies about bad in laws lol.
IMO you stand up for yourself, be stern with them, tell hubby that he needs to have your back unless he would rather be in a relationship with him mommy.
It’s annoying. I’ve always been a great mediator between in laws and my brothers wife’s etc.
It’s not nude to tell both parties to chill the fuck out.
It’s amazing to me that someone as an adult would just allow someone to mistreat their S.O.
Is it actually that unhealthy? Not going to argue that it can be a cause of sexual dysfunction for some people or like anything can be addictive. But it seems that in no concrete way has this negatively impacted his life, except that now his wife has expressed discomfort with the idea. Obviously we don't know all the facts and his bias would be to protect himself. But why do you assume that it is bad for reasons outside of his wife's opinion?
OP is also a woman.
A relationship wouldn't be the smartest option at all but that's what I'm hoping for. Hooking up would be okay too.
Yeah, it's most likely something weird, but breaking things off without knowing is bad advice. Even if he is guilty, confirm it by his reactions and then break up with relief.
What do you mean “implications as it comes to you”? Nothing? It literally has nothing to do with you, it's probably a habit. I congratulate the guy for taking care of business.
Oh my god this! All of this! And you know, its totally possible to do it, it just takes a bit of time.
I used to be hopeless at it but now I've done so much work with my husband that I can communicate with him properly when things are bothering me, rather than being petty and childish.
I've found the trick is to talk about it before it really starts to get to me, then it's easier to be logical.
Anyway, I digress. OP don't marry this woman til she sorts out how she communicates.
Also, what exactly is she expecting from these dates? Why doesn't the lights etc count?
Exactly Turning him onto a sugar daddy
Once is enough- don’t go back
She’s mad there isn’t a cover story for her side piece being in their home.
The number one cause of death for pregnant women is HOMICIDE. This man has been abusing you and has even tried strangling you. The number one indicator that your abuser will kill you is if they've choked you. Your life is in SEVERE danger. Reach out to friends and family on the down low and ask for help. Explain the situation, within your comfort level, and then leave. Don't tell him ANYTHING. DO NOT give him ANY inclination that you're leaving. Once you are safe, then figure out what is your next step. Your absolute first priority right now is safety
There's more than one therapist in the world. Definitely the kind of thing you shop around for the right fit.
18, pregnant AND married to a selfish asshole. I wouldn't be surprised if he's still sleeping with her because how does he even know that she'd agree to such a thing? You may need a divorce before it's too late Hun.
Exactly, if it was just about smell he wouldn’t care unless he could smell it normally. By smelling your pits and looking for odor, he’s using it in some other way. Either control, to “neg” you, or just because he gets off in some way on making you feel self conscious.
Yes. If you were marrying her, wouldn't you want him to tell you she was cheating with him? Marriage is a big deal with legal and financial implications.
It's a very odd situation. Mom/MIL did nothing wrong
You f his trauma can cause him to disassociate enough do involuntarily things he could do other more dangerous things. Keep yourself safe
It won’t get better, you’ve brought it up and it will simply only get worse. If you talked to him about it, it hasn’t changed anything. He obviously does not care enough to put in the effort to change for you. Find something better.
I did acknowledge that you’re speaking to someone new which is what you should be doing instead of worrying about what this guys message meant. How could anyone know, if he’s trying to let you down easy bc he’s just not feeling it anymore, or simply is busy?
The thing is, you know when someone is into you/wants to see you, you’ll know for sure. So my overall advice is to not worry about this guy, and if he’s interested in seeing you, you’ll know. It’s almost impossible to deduce intentions from an innocuous text like his.
Also, he could have been in a loving happy mood when he kissed you/wanted the BJ or sex he assumed was coming; people especially men can act certain ways when they’re horny that doesn’t mean anything lasting longer than them busting that nut. Lol sorry to be crude but you have to think like that when you’re single/dating/dealing with FWB. Most people don’t “flat out say” they don’t want to see someone anymore. It’s nude to say that outright without feeling like a jerk, and it’s uncomfortable, so let people’s actions speak for themselves. If he wants to see you, you’ll know. Meantime don’t stress it, enjoy chatting with the new guy, and keep your self-worth on High!
What “high value gifts” do we know for a fact she has? Quite a leap to assume she has anything of value. I don't know many women with expensive jewellery or clothes at all. Most of the stuff people wear nowadays is just silver and cubic zirconia, which can be bought for just a few dollars and will resell for cents.
Not that big. We fix it over call in one night only.
The last fight was about “Me saying bad things about Messi ( I am a Ronaldo fan ).”
Don’t dish it out if you can’t take it.
You reacted I’m anger to my saying your attitude was unpleasant. And decided to sling around personal insults.
Your attitude is unpleasant. You can do something about that. But you need to want to.
Irresponsible financial behavior is quite bad thing to come across. Later she may be collecting debts and they would destroy her and you too if you are married.
Tell her that you should live! within means and it does not mean you should not have fun. Offer her options which you can do. If she keeps her all or nothing attitude I don't know, maybe it worth end it here.
I have boundaries that are continually crossed to the point where I get overstimulated and angry.
Read this back to yourself and think about what you would say to a friend in this situation. Do not marry her, seriously reconsider this whole relationship. She sounds immature and exhausting. You're only 24, don't tie yourself to someone who is so difficult.
It's not an easy situation you are in, but you know nothing happened, and she stopped it for you at the very least. You can try and by meeting them you are showing how much you care about her and how much she means to you
I love him, when it’s good I feel… I guess I feel loved? Our problems have always stemmed from his lack of effort, I know we’re different people and he can only give so much and I can give more, this FT thing is ridiculous though.
He does love me too.. well he used to, we’ve had 3 bad months and he won’t talk to me about it, keeps saying he needs ‘space’ when he’s had months of it, I don’t talk to him for days on end lately (like 3/4 days is a max)
Narcissist much? What this individual did regardless of gender identity is incredibly narcissistic behavior. Not only that, they are trying to manipulate you into feeling responsible or guilty and this is not your issue. They are an adult, and while I empathize and I can tell you do too, I’m sorry there is nothing wrong with you saying no to something you absolutely don’t want and walking away.
This isn’t something that’s negotiable. You aren’t attracted to men, you wanted biological children and they knew all this in advance. The fact he sprung this on you at the last minute is used car salesperson sleazy. It reminds me of something a relative of mine that is a fraudster would do. Spring things at the last minute. Force you to make a decision under pressure.
Being trans isn’t the issue. This isn’t a good person. You say you love them. I don’t think you know who they are. This reeks of a narc with a facade.
Think about it, how long have they kept this in? I can’t keep a secret two seconds from someone I love. Up to you, but from my vantage point this all looks contrived and opportunistic.
No one wants to lose their independence, but at some point it’s no longer up to her when it puts herself and the general public in danger. Elderly people, especially when noticeable cognitive decline have no business behind the wheel. Take away the option before she becomes a silver alert. Your family will need to support this decision otherwise there’s no use. She doesn’t need to accept it, they do.
This right here. YOU are the company YOU keep. If you can justify it in your friends, then you’ll justify it for yourself.
OP. Sleep on it. Talk to him… sit down and really talk and weight your options. Sleep on it again. Then decide. You have a lot of feelings and hormones going on.
So they look ok when you change them?
I mean most people do some experimenting and pushing boundaries in college – even I think that going to clubs 3 times, where I didn't drink and only danced with female friends, is pretty mild as far as boundary-pushing goes…I mean I don't expect that my BF is going to have to tell me every place he went before we met.
But that's the thing, you already have. You choose him over her when you agreed to his ridiculous conditions.
Why dont you both make a chore list for the week? He seems willing to help but may not know what to do right away. Give him direct accountability
She doesn't know my favourite colour or TV show either btw!! And I've also bought her a bunch of flowers and showered her in affection back. Hurt people on Reddit see a story like this and immediately assume that my partner , the one who is not seeking help to understand her feelings and our relationship is the one who's going to get hurt and refuse to think for a second to consider that me being used as a sex toy is not fun (!) I thought she was into me because she thought I was funny or kind but from the looks of it she really just wants someone to make her cum without having to do anything or give anything back. Thanks so much for the people in the comments using their brains and considering both sides. I will break things off.
It took him/his brother until the next day to think up the “allergies” excuse. Otherwise he would have said that when you asked about the coke.
Sex, personally, is about intimacy, yes, but it also has health benefits for me, too. This is something that is literally a quality of life issue for me, less migraines, more energy, better mood, all things that can be the physical benefit of having sex regularly. It’s physical exertion, after all, too, so all of that is important to me to have in a relationship because it is both intimate and also physically positive for me.
Does she know you are his girlfriend? Because that romantic comment is very weird.
YTA—why is it on the woman to have her body brutalized and then have to jump through hoops with doctors in order to not have kids?
He is emotionally cheating on you. And will probably actually cheat on you if he gets the chance.
Also do not withdraw your statement make sure he gets what he deserves.
Apart from wanting him back, do you want him to do this to the next woman? Do you want him to be able to say “oh my ex was just crazy and she withdrew the statement because it wasn't true?“
Does that make her dying though?…
Sorry Tevye, but people are tired of giving out free credit for building a whole other human in the name of “tradition”. ?
Set up a time for her to discuss her trauma with you. Make sure you are completely Emotionally available at that time, even if you do not feel like it.
I'm into older men that'll never change if you don't like age gag relationships for your self that's fine but don't judge people who do that's weird ?
She needs a therapist and a new job if it’s so bad.
You’re not being a bad boyfriend to not want to hear about constant work drama.
Girl we also need an update to know if you are safe!
What the hell du expect? Your virginity isn’t that sacred hun, we’re all just sexual animals at the end of the day
Stop paying until you agree on 50/50. This has gone too far. You need to set up some boundaries. Give that princess a reality-check.
Thats exactly it
That slap wasn’t unintentional, you were fully aware of what you were doing. This relationship is over, and you need to move on now. You’re reasoning is incredibly immature; purposely lying repeatedly to get back at him. That’s middle school shit. All of the trust is gone now, and he’s not even physically safe around you. Leave him alone and get into therapy.
Um you realize you’re supporting a hobo-sexual right? You are nothing more than a crash pad and a warm body to this guy. Tell him to find someone dumber with less self-esteem to leech off of.
Maybe that's my issue. Started to think if I'm asexual or gay lol.
It’s also just an absurd basis for judgement. I know people who get dirty daily that make well over six figures and in that same group I know some real small minded assholes and some are the sharpest, kindest, most wonderful people who clean off the grease or shit and spend their evening reading classic literature and history books if they’re not managing their investments themselves, shrewdly.
He wouldn't have swapped numbers or suggested hanging out, if he didn't mean it.
Listen and express support. You can encourage medical care but your friend likely most needs motivational comfort from you with a sprinkle of validation.