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Date: October 27, 2022
Is it possible for you to find a new job?? Bc your story has so many red flags, that I would urge you to get out. You deserve better ????
Nope, I saw her on campus pretty much everyday, doing the same she always does. No change, we just kinda ignored each other Just for context in case you didn't read my other post, she stopped texting after she told me she only liked me as a friend and I told her I didn't want the same as her and I would further explain my feelings when we met again, I never got the chance, she started texting me last week after she said she might stay for another semester, I never asked her, she told me out of the blue and now she did this
Hum getting hit in the balls was an act of God. He deserved it. Get legal representation and sell the house. Live your best life without him holding you back.
yes, i agree and i do understand this. and we are working and growing together, but lately it feels like we are growing apart. at least for me i feel like i am starting to truly see her for how she is (not in a bad way) but we recently moved in together and we are around each other 24/7. i work from home so i am home all the time unless i am walking my cats or at the gym (with her). sometimes i feel like it would be best for me to be alone i never cared for commitment and i told her this from the very beginning. thank you for your advice 🙂
I agree. I just sort of adopted the mentality of it’s good to be “selfish” in certain things like this. My mom called me selfish for years for not wanting to have kids, the only thing that got her to stop was telling her that I’m allowed to be selfish with my body and my life. It’s naked for me to communicate that sentiment in advice to others though lol. But no, you’re completely right.
That makes sense coming from another perspective like his. Now that I think about it, he shouldn’t be inflicting his insecurities onto me. I’ll have to talk to him about this for sure
People who make fun of how other people look reveal their insecurities. It isn’t nice. No one should be shamed for how they look.
Don’t repeat your upbringing by choosing someone just like your mother.
Dump this guy and get some therapy. Your mother was abusive and you chose an abuser because you thought it was normal, but you’re not stuck. Break the cycle. Get out, and get some therapy !
You are enough, just how you are, and don’t let anyone convince you otherwise !!!
If neither of you want children then getting married doesn’t matter. If I’d been with someone for 10 years and wanted to get married I wouldn’t consider having children with them without that. I’d expect that to be the breaking point and for her to move on.
When I thought she was having sex with a woman in an open relationship, she received a video that showed her sucking a dick and getting fingered. She thought that video would've been automatically backed up to my server like phone photos/videos. It wouldn't have been uploaded, but she didn't know that. So she made up a story about how her “psycho boyfriend” came home and how they made her suck his dick. Then they sent her the video to blackmail her into coming back. That was her story. What really happened is she was fucking a guy all along, and he sent her that video to send to other women, hoping to entice them into joining them for a threesome.
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Dude, the fact that you felt comfortable enough to call her mommy is naked. If she's not into it then find someone else who is. Rock your kink if that's what your into. Sex is about playing with what makes you feel emotionally safe and comfortable. If that means yelling “mommy” then go for it.
Yeah this is not a relationship you want to be in.
He's actively choosing to cheat on you, repeatedly, and he's being verbally abusive and pressuring you into sex when you're literally weeping.
Please leave – good luck
In general, when someone date someone that is half their age (or close to that) it is very rarely for good reason and/or good intents
Also, he keeps saying he wants to take things slow, but he also keep planning a whole life with you.
The last thing I wanna point out is that he keep doing these incredibly weird stuff and confuse the hell out of you, only to tell you that you overanalyze it when you're legitimately confused : At best it shows that he doesn't realize at all what he's doing, and at worst he is gaslighting you because he has a specific plan in mind.
Your ex insists.
He’s an ex. He has no power to insist you do anything.
Do not ignore your guy feeling! Move on. You came to the decision for a reason. You’ll be fine and she will have her emotionally reliant guy bff.
The one question I have. Where’s his girlfriend? Exactly!
You fell for the oldest line in the book. Why would you even want a guy that is so great at lying to the people he supposedly loved for over a decade?
Dump 50 and be single for a while. Get some therapy and figure out why you stayed with him for so long. If things are “meant to be” with 42, he'd wait while you got your head in straight.
Just shows me that he doesn't care for anyone else or their well being. As long as he gets what he wants
Dental work is like thousands of dollars! Brush and floss one or twice a day.
Of course you need to end this but please be careful. His controlling behavior is very concerning.
he literally said that I can’t do that and that I have no choice in the matter.
This is scary. Don’t be alone with him. Break up via phone. TELL YOUR PARENTS! You need help with this situation.
Please realize that this guy is potentially dangerous.
Good luck!
I didn’t say it was accidental I said it was a mistake. I didn’t see where it said she didn’t feel bad about it?
I could see it being a memory thing like storing it on a flash drive. Either way the amount is excessive and not a soul is going through all of those. Very weird
You leave dude. That’s how you deal with it.
You’ve made your position clear… and she’s made clear that she doesn’t give a shit. Leave and find someone who has respect for your relationship.
She’d been dating multiple men. She told that “she likes to meet people through sex”.
She wanted to meet me. She came over, we had fun, had sex and talked. She told me that she wanted to get back with me.
Soon she will tell you she is pregnant and 8 month (or less) after you had sex “your” kid will be born.
YES.
You need to clarify some stuff. Are you and your fiancé poly? Is her friend and his wife poly? If your not in an open relationship with your fiance, then what is happening is cheating. If you are in an open relationship, you just feel sad and betrayed that she wasn’t honest to you about the nature of her relationship with W. Which is 100% understandable. But technically it’s not cheating.
Ouch… I wouldn’t know how to process this. The baby thing, the switching places thing… it’s a bit much.
Yeah, you don’t sound compatible, and I don’t think you really like who she is anymore. I’d end it.
If you're a regular there, just start to talk to her. Say hi, ask her about her job, how long she's been there, ask about her. It doesn't have to be an interrogation, just a conversation, so use her verbal/physical cues, what she's comfortable sharing.
GO. TO. THE. POLICE.
I can't really tell if you want to stay with him or not. Frankly, you gave him a second chance already imo. If you do want to stay, confront him and tell him to call her on speakerphone in front of you immediately or you'll go scorched earth. You will tell EVERYONE, including his family, your family, friends, and her husband. Make sure you send yourself copies of their texts. Tbh, she might not be in an abusive marriage. She just might be bored and knows that your husband has a soft spot for her. Who knows? Not your husbands job to be her hero. If he lies or refuses, get a lawyer. If he admits it and agrees, then he goes NC and gets into ic to see if he can create tools and boundaries so that he stops being a pos. I'd be done, but if you really want him, then be quick and brutal with your demands. I'm sorry this is happening again OP. You sound like a good person. Good luck. ?
It's because he has you trapped now. He knows that with a house at stake—an investment of hundreds of thousands and years—leaving him becomes a much more difficult proposition. There's a reason abuse doesn't usually start until heavy commitments in the relationship: marriage, having a kid, moving across country away from your family, etc.
Remember, OP, sometimes the best way to pay for something is with money. If push comes to shove, don't be afraid to put that house in the market, take the best offer and get out.
Whatever you do, don’t get the dog.
Thank you!