The downside on this plan is that you’ll be putting your relationships on hold waiting for him. With a strong possibility he might not return. Odds are he won’t.
Also if you do end up together again, how secure would you feel that he didn’t value you strongly enough before …
Recipe for disaster. Just find yourself another guy who doesn’t have that wanderlust.
When I VC her she took a lot of time(though her phone was in her hand since we were on the audio call) and all her lights were off and she said she wants to sleep because of the headache which she didn’t mention on the audio call.
Yeah, when I drink I have fun but with him it goes good then it gets shit when too much is involved. Is it also insecurity??? He has shown insecurities throughout our relationship
I had the same issue with an ex. Towards the end, he would not reply to a text for a day or two and it irritated me. We had discussions and sometimes it improved but after a bit, it would happen again.
At Christmas, he didn't even bother to text me merry Christmas. I waited another day and silence. Finally, I sent him a wtf text two days after Christmas.
Fwiw, we were ldr opposite ends of the world. Jackass said, he figured we texted on his Christmas and he was “waiting” to hear back from me. I imploded and the coward was able to weasel out of the relationship without officially breaking up.
My bad for staying as long as I did. As for him, he had an avoidant attachment and he didn't even care and that's why to him, it didn't matter if he replied in a timely manner.
And next it will be something along the lines of how they were still FWB when you were still at the talking stage and then that he was someone who was important to her and that she still wants around as a friend to talk to etc etc.
Truth of the matter is her behaviour was shitty and she’s broke your trust leaving the relationship in limbo. You need to sit her down, explain how HER actions and subsequent trickle truthing has shattered your trust in her and you are having second thoughts on whether you can trust her again. Theonly one who can rebuild that is her. At the very least she should be offering total honesty and to cut the guy off and block him. Anything less is walk away time.
Why are you trying to change her?
I really can't get over that
How's his relationship with his mom?
Bro she expected you to be cool , all he got was sex you were getting the best bit , the talking.
Yeah nice move though….
You can be rational now. Don’t stay because it’s “too late”
The downside on this plan is that you’ll be putting your relationships on hold waiting for him. With a strong possibility he might not return. Odds are he won’t.
Also if you do end up together again, how secure would you feel that he didn’t value you strongly enough before …
Recipe for disaster. Just find yourself another guy who doesn’t have that wanderlust.
Also an important life lesson about ringing the door bell!
She’s always been a bit petty but never this far before. And never for no reason.
If you aren't married always use rubbers , no matter what the tests say
I mean….. For a somewhat attractive woman, finding that many is easy.
And she is in the prime age for a midlife crisis in women.
So it's not entirely impossible.
When I VC her she took a lot of time(though her phone was in her hand since we were on the audio call) and all her lights were off and she said she wants to sleep because of the headache which she didn’t mention on the audio call.
Thats the day it turned physical
All the time you waste with this shitbrick is preventing you from meeting someone else
Yeah, when I drink I have fun but with him it goes good then it gets shit when too much is involved. Is it also insecurity??? He has shown insecurities throughout our relationship
I had the same issue with an ex. Towards the end, he would not reply to a text for a day or two and it irritated me. We had discussions and sometimes it improved but after a bit, it would happen again.
At Christmas, he didn't even bother to text me merry Christmas. I waited another day and silence. Finally, I sent him a wtf text two days after Christmas.
Fwiw, we were ldr opposite ends of the world. Jackass said, he figured we texted on his Christmas and he was “waiting” to hear back from me. I imploded and the coward was able to weasel out of the relationship without officially breaking up.
My bad for staying as long as I did. As for him, he had an avoidant attachment and he didn't even care and that's why to him, it didn't matter if he replied in a timely manner.
And next it will be something along the lines of how they were still FWB when you were still at the talking stage and then that he was someone who was important to her and that she still wants around as a friend to talk to etc etc.
Truth of the matter is her behaviour was shitty and she’s broke your trust leaving the relationship in limbo. You need to sit her down, explain how HER actions and subsequent trickle truthing has shattered your trust in her and you are having second thoughts on whether you can trust her again. Theonly one who can rebuild that is her. At the very least she should be offering total honesty and to cut the guy off and block him. Anything less is walk away time.