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Date: October 30, 2022
You don’t know anything unless you ask.
When someone is -already lying- to you, what do you expect the resultant to be?
I may get downvoted for this,
But maybe he is an idiot and was asking you to come to the gym with him because if he works out that often he clearly likes it aton
So maybe he is trynna incorporate you into one of his hobbies but did it in a dumb assery fuckery way?
That’s just a different perspective
Oye vey. Next time I want to get the dull folks out of the woodwork I know what to ask.
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This is a relationship, not a police investigation. What the fuck is wrong with you people? He made ONE strange purchase. He’s not obligated to tell her what he does 24/7, if he wanted some privacy he’s allowed to have it. I think the fact that his wife felt the need to run out and search the car is pretty telling. I wouldn’t be suspicious if it took my partner 2 hours to buy bread, nor would I care what they were doing. I’d just assume they took a walk or went to another store, or whatever. Also, she said he bought groceries, not just bread. So 2 hours isn’t really as long as she’s making it seem, especially with likes this close to Christmas being as long as they are. So she’s already overly suspicious and controlling, and searching the car and checking bank statements is doubling down on being overly suspicious and controlling.
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She’s asking to see their TikToks and Tinder matches because it’s important to them. She is connecting with what they are putting on the table. What’s important to you? If it’s not relationships- that’s A-ok. Some of my very favorite people are single. Being single isn’t a red flag. In fact, this very subreddit is full of people who would be Better Off Single. Talk to your grandmother about what you’re excited about. Schoolwork. Sports. Video games. Woodworking. Climate change. Whatever- let her get to know YOU. That’s all she wants.
I thought the consensus was that trans people shouldn’t have to disclose that information to potential sex partners. Or is that only applicable when its the other way around? Because to me this sounds like abuse and entitlement
He got defensive because he's up to no good. He cut her off because he didn't want her communicating to him in a tone which would give away the level of they're relationship to you. He go quite when asked about the works dinner because he's already going with her and you're not invited. He got defensive because you caught him off guard with the phone call / questions. Also don't feel sorry for this bitch she's taking your man…….
Because she’s a broken woman who has made her misery her entire identity. It’s sad. And it’s not her sons fault. Poor OP.
That's a great show, Peacemaker. Ah man. I may have to rewatch. I try so very hot to get my husband to watch it and tell him how funny it is, but he kept falling asleep while watching.
Anyway, your gf is nuttier than a squirrel's turd.
It is not on you if there is nudity on adult (well-not childre-oriented) or R rated or Mature TV shows/movies. Not your fault. So what if you see a pair of breasts or two. Unless, you gawk at the TV start drooling at the scene…then she doesn't have a leg to stand on with her being mad at you.
I remember once feeling jealous with my crush when I was watching the movie Ghost with my childhood crush. Demi Moore was so hot there that I thought he's going to like her more than he could ever like me.
This was when I was 10.
I've grown up enough to know that you can't stop people from seeing other people. You can't get mad and punish your partner because there's nudity on screen. The hecc, she's 29, not 10.
What do you mean not a “wear for the rest of your life” ring?
In plenty of places , engagement rings aren't as important as in Anglophone countries, and it's not necessarily custom to wear the engagement ring with the wedding ring together.
What a curiously odd way to try to build and healthy and trustworthy romantic relationship.
I swear to goodness, men like this can truly be so pathetic. It grossed me out to watch someone judge from such a high horse while being so immature and disgusting. I can’t wait to find the update of this post as “I broke up with the love of my life a few years ago and can’t find anyone else/can’t move one wah wah wah”
Because while he was hospitalized, treated, medicated and on the road to recovery in a window of less than 3 months, she found a new boyfriend.
I think at some point in those three months she would have known he was sick, even if she couldn’t tell her husband was losing touch with reality prior to that.
I appreciate your honesty 🙂
I feel like I need to come to terms with the fact that I'm stuck between a rock and a very hot place. Either I just accept it and continue to be disappointed and feel like I don't matter to him, or I leave him.
Ignoring the issue as I have been is also a choice… and I know eventually I'll need to choose.
Thank you for being so kind though 🙂
I don't know anyone who would put up with a decade of this shit who doesn't accept the term doormat.
Congrats! You're a doormat and in denial. When she finally meets someone else you'll also be without a daughter, domicile, but get to tack on a divorce.
Have you tried giving her some treats?
Exactly if it's not open from the start of a relationship it can be a problem. And if on partner already was in those type of relationship other hasn't can be a issue. And end the relationship quick fast and in a hurry. And for wowlmen it's easier for women to find sex partners then for men for the most part.
I regretted all of it.
My ex loved it.
too bad man. u should just be grateful she’s still with you
You are miserable with her. You know you need to leave.
DO NOT MARRY HER.
It sounds like you've come to the same conclusion, she is using you for a stable relationship but she sounds like she's just not attracted to you. I'm sorry.
Get out now.
So you’re wasting your life on a woman who has no trust or faith in you, is argumentative and masculine and even when faced with success still wants to bitch and moan and attack you
Congrats on the success, don’t let it go to your head and understand you’ve attached yourself to a boat anchor that is trying to drag you down because she’s so insecure and afraid of you leaving that she’s trying to beat you into submission
You’re a moron to stay with this person
Why are your ages different in each post?
Contacting his exes is not going to make ops life less stressful or dramatic.
OP, every single one of your replies tells me this is a lost cause. I’m not sure what you’re looking for here.
Are you going to end things with ABC? because you should.
And then one day years and years from now you’ll find it. And you’ll be like “oh shit! I forgot about that crazy asshole.”
And then you can throw it away
Buddy I fought the same battle you are, but for nearly 10 years. I thought it could change, that she was the best I could get, that she'll grow to be more respectful.
It resulted in me losing my confidence slowly and becoming much more reserved. That made her emasculate me even more. Eventually she wanted a “real man”, someone who takes charge. I find this out after discovering she had been seeing someone else for months. We ended it and she stayed with him. He ended up being an abuser and she regretted it, but of course there was no way I was coming back. Then of course it turned out she had cheated several times in the past decade of our relationship. She never respected me, and I let her be that way because she wouldn't have it any other way. So I compromised myself.
What you are talking about with your situation is one of the(very few, to me at the time) red flags I ignored about this woman, because I was in love and she was the one.
If she is looking down on you when you are vulnerable, she is not the one.
So you picked out a partner purely based on the notion that you thought you could mold her into something you would find attractive?
Look, you didn't find her attractive when you first met her, so no, you don't actually like her for who she is, you're hung up on the potential you thought you could give her. Now that she “can't cut it” you're not physically attracted to her anymore. Please don't waste anymore of her time at this point and just let it go. Your partner shouldn't be a job or a project you need to complete.
Wow so once everyone in vancouver reaches the age of 27 they stop enjoying music. North Americans are a weird bunch
Why can't u just get a babysitter and actually spend time with ur wife?
Jesus ur behavior would break my heart if u were my husband. My husband has female friends i have no issue with but it's because HIS FAMILY is his priority!!
We come first. He makes sure we spend time together even if its just a movie night and showing actual affection. U are putting more effort into ur flirtationship with a coworker than ur marriage and wonder why ur wife is upset.
You will single handedly be the cause of ur family falling apart. And ur gonna have to answer that to ur kids oneday!
If she still has feelings and you know it, you really should keep a more respectful distance, so she can think about dating someone else.
Oh wow that makes a lot of sense , I’m gonna look into it … thanks
He's creep. Expose him and block him.
ok so let me get this straight .
you think when she goes out she’s trying to cheat . you think her revealing clothes attract the wrong attention ? she text her ex ? she could really do anything and you would be insecure and jealous ??
why can’t you go to therapy with an open mind ? with insecurity and jealous there’s a lot of trauma experiences behind it .
Yeah youre right well im a bit of a drunk regardless if shes going out or not but when she goes out i get depressed drunk and cant help but think shes talkint ti other guys. Her friends are married and shit and still go out and dance w other guys. So makes me feel like thats what all girls do and if my girl did that id consider it cheating and want to break up. So yeah im crazy sorry but i want to be better i really love her and ik im fucked
Troll bur no .find someone else.
Thank you for your comment, and for reminding me I have a choice. Things like this can get forgotten if you’re overwhelmed!
Lol okay thanks but you are wrong. Maybe others posted about the same situation because this is a recurring situation for more people than just me? Appreciate your helpfulness though.
But she can start working on the weight now, while they try and get answers for her other medical problems.
She is working on it, read the most recent edit. She's tracking every calorie and working with her doctors to try to get the weight off, and it's not shifting. The fact that she was having health problems prior, then the sudden extreme weight gain (which probably caused the knee injury) and now the difficulty in losing it even on a low calorie diet, makes me think that there must be something medically that's fucking with her metabolism or something.
Therapy. Now.
You think you’re fooling her but you’re not. Are you still going to be doing this when your baby is old enough to start catching your vibe?
You need to actually deal with your emotions instead of just plastering over them.
Sounds like your phone might suddenly break or get lost for a day or ten
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We need more details OP. My sibling had Batman cufflinks on for their wedding. There is a big difference between a costume and superhero themed formal wear
I read the first sentence and my answer is no. Research shows definitively that it takes a minimum of two years (usually closer to 3) for the love goggles to fall away and for a couple to start really being able to figure out if they are right for each other.
Yes, I know, I'm throwing science at you on a post about love. But think. It makes sense in general. Love itself is not something that should be rushed, let alone marriage. If you're right for each other, trust that you can take it slower.
As someone who is also pretty independent, and likes my space, I get it.
I am assuming that getting a 2 bedroom place will be out of the question, so you are probably going to have to come up with a new “space”, and maybe set some limits. You will absolutely need to talk to your BF about this though, to make sure that whatever you come up with is reasonable & not unfair on him. Unfortunately, when you online with someone else, you aren't going to be able to keep them out of the bedroom or the house indefinitely, and everything will be shared, so that is an adjustment that you will have to make.
Perhaps one night a week, you are allowed to close the door to the bedroom, for no more than a couple of hours. Or maybe get a place that has a bathtub & you are not to be disturbed while you bath.
You may even find that the fact it is a shared space won't bother you, so you may feel less of a need for space in the way that you are used to. I no longer feel the need to disappear into my room and I think it comes down to the fact that even though I share it with my BF, it is “our” space, I have chosen my relationship with him, I have chosen to live! with him, and we have created a home together. You may find the same.
Being abused yourself doesn’t get you off the hook.
Lmao a lot of men want nothing to do with you with that attitude. I would rather watch you drown that even pay you a cent.
thanks pal.
Maybe you two should do some counselling before the wedding to ensure you are on the same page and have the same expectations of marriage.
I wouldn’t be comfortable in a relationship where one person contributes everything financially and the other “helps” when, and if, they feel like it… ask yourself if this is what you want the rest of your life to look like and go to couple’s counselling.
I mean. Most people have a very hot line when it comes to anyone, let alone a loved one, hitting them and spitting on them.
While you’re at it, text him it’s over.
I remember seeing a comment about how “guys say women are emotional, but tell a man no and see what happens” lmao it’s crazy out here babes. Be safe ❤️
Motion is a good lotion. When I stopped being active for a while my hip started hurting and my shoulder started locking up again from an auto injury. Try going for walks with him then work it up to do fun stuff. Depression isn't always expressed outwardly as well. At least that could be one explanation
So, we had ended the relationship four days before she left for a holiday. two days before she leaves we decide to meet up, and after spending that time we hypothesized trying a LDR.
In my mind it was never actually concluded, however I still feel hurt she would do that without atleast making herself clear.
But I guess she showed me through the actions?
He’s already friendzoned u after date 2
I would cut it after the point of asking why he lied about it. Just present the straight facts and ask him to explain it. Don’t jump to conclusions just yet (although I do agree it looks bad) so you can see how will explain it. If you say the rest, he’ll focus in on getting defensive over that and switch it to “I can’t believe you would accuse me of trying to cheat on you”
At worst, he tried to cheat. At best, he got overly excited because he thought he made a new friend and really wanted to make it work. Doesn’t explain the lie, but maybe if he’s kind of delusional about seeing the friendship as a real thing, then maybe he just FELT from his perspective that she’s being friendlier than she actually is. My mom is kind of that way, someone can send a thumbs up to something and then she’ll go on and on about how they loved it. If he often sees “the best” in people to a kind of ridiculous degree when it’s kind of just neutral, this is probably the case.
Also, sometimes people can be extremely blind to unrequited friendships, maybe even moreso than unrequited love because they just don’t know what to look for. He also could be lying to himself in the sense of reassuring himself that she does want to be friends too, or just lying to save face about it if he’s embarrassed that he can tell she doesn’t want to be friends
Confront.
Tell him if he’s that worried about baby trapping, a vasectomy might be a great idea.
Look, your parents are going to judge your decisions in life because your choices they feel directly reflect with how they raised you.
Tough, thats life.
There’s a part of you that will always want to online outside their box. So try to take none of it too personally and learn to enjoy your mistakes. Just own them afterwards
so you just don't want him to go clubbing at all but disguised it as “waiting for you”… okay
Wow. You should break up with her because you be doing her a big favor
You are incorrect, you absolutely can leave her. You absolutely need to do DNA tests on your children. She is obsessed with her ex. If he divorced his wife she would definitely leave you for him, regardless of what she says, as she is using you to put a roof over her head.
12 years of being her second choice. You are looking forward to being her second choice for the rest of your life. Why on earth would you put up with this? A wife obsessed with another man – daily phone calls. She is borderline stalker.
She is actively trying to get you invested in an ex? You understand that that's not only NOT normal, but she wants to be guilt free.
Please for love of all that's holy, divorce her. You deserve a partner who loves you first, not as their poor second choice. You and your children will be happier.
You might also want to consider letting him read the comments on this thread.
It all depends on the agreement they had in the beginning. I was in a similar situation and he knew and agreed I could stay for free because my house was being remodeled. It doesn't mean the person is horrible. Sitting down and trying to find out why they want to move might answer many questions and solve most problems . Communication is key.
No not yet, my sister is coming back soon and i thought about telling her first.
That's pretty pathetic really, that he thinks standing near some makeup will make him less of man! He language of “beta” yells me he is listening to certain people on YouTube and drinking the KOOL aid. I'm going to guess he likes “traditional” gender roles which means if you move in together you WILL be doing every single thing around the house, because if he vacuums his penis will fall off (/s) This isn't normal behaviour of a 39 year old, maybe a 6 year old who thinks girls are werid but not a grown adult.