We're both on the lease but my dad was paying rent and having me pay utilities, energy and Internet while I was going to school. Starting when the lease is meant to renew (March) we'll be responsible for everything, which is part of why I'm wanting to move now before I'm crushed by even more bills.
I'm aware of that, this is likely the biggest challenge they have faced together. I'm stating my case because many people are painting this as a binary Keep the baby or Lose your fiancé scenario. There is a very real and likely third option that we will be devastated and grieve, but won't resent her for it.
I agree that it's a conversation every couple should have. I don't think it's fair for either of them to make assumptions though. Yes she could have had this discussion with him, but he could have broached it himself too.
Oh thank god, you’re a troll.
We're both on the lease but my dad was paying rent and having me pay utilities, energy and Internet while I was going to school. Starting when the lease is meant to renew (March) we'll be responsible for everything, which is part of why I'm wanting to move now before I'm crushed by even more bills.
I'm aware of that, this is likely the biggest challenge they have faced together. I'm stating my case because many people are painting this as a binary Keep the baby or Lose your fiancé scenario. There is a very real and likely third option that we will be devastated and grieve, but won't resent her for it.
I agree that it's a conversation every couple should have. I don't think it's fair for either of them to make assumptions though. Yes she could have had this discussion with him, but he could have broached it himself too.
He didn't delete them, he unsent them. Which I am not an apple user but I assume this means the recipient couldn't read them either.