My brother is in this situation and his ex won’t let him see his kid ever again. Just sending videos and pictures to torture him. Absolutely hate people like this
This is something we don't talk about enough – sometimes depression and anxiety are chemical or hormonal disorders. And sometimes they're natural responses to living in a shit show. Even OP says she's spent years trying to temper expectations that life isn't a Disney movie?
That is not true for everyone. It’s pretty common to cool off friendships when there’s a one-sided pursuit. You’re being bold assuming this boyfriend established any boundaries at all, given his hyperbolic reaction to his girlfriend asking what his intentions are.
So, I have a fiancé and there is NO man I speak to on the daily or hide message alerts from. Knowing that, it sounds like he's probably hiding his texts with your gf from his fiancee. They were only friends for two months almost a decade ago? What on Earth would possibly prompt them to kindle this sort of “friendship” right now?? Would you behave this way if you found an engaged former friend from HS?
No matter what you decide to do, you must never leave your child alone with your mother. Your mother enabled your abuser, she will enable your child's abuser as well, if given the opportunity.
Tell your husband. The two of you need to be united in your decision. He will support you. If he doesn't, your relationship has bigger issues.
She says in her country a lot of women hide their being abused in the past and move on with life – she urges me to forget, hide it and move on.
It's 20-fucking-23. Just because shit happened in the past, doesn't mean we put up with it today. We know now that bottling up trauma only facilitates further trauma. This only helps the perpetrators, never the victims.
If you haven't spoken to a professional about your past, you really ought to.
He doesn’t have to say or feel the way you do. You can’t force these things. And 3 months…that’s not a long time.
A few months? You know thats actually a long time, especially for a puppy, right?
Please call that 8th therapist in the morning
She also shares a room with their kid, while Mr. Perfect over there gets his own room.
I feel like we’re missing info here but on the surface your mother is in ICU.
If there isn’t more to this then she needs to chill dude and I’d be reevaluating things personally.
My brother is in this situation and his ex won’t let him see his kid ever again. Just sending videos and pictures to torture him. Absolutely hate people like this
This is something we don't talk about enough – sometimes depression and anxiety are chemical or hormonal disorders. And sometimes they're natural responses to living in a shit show. Even OP says she's spent years trying to temper expectations that life isn't a Disney movie?
That is not true for everyone. It’s pretty common to cool off friendships when there’s a one-sided pursuit. You’re being bold assuming this boyfriend established any boundaries at all, given his hyperbolic reaction to his girlfriend asking what his intentions are.
this is a full non-issue, 3rd cousins are very far removed from mattering, I assure you.
Truuuuue
So, I have a fiancé and there is NO man I speak to on the daily or hide message alerts from. Knowing that, it sounds like he's probably hiding his texts with your gf from his fiancee. They were only friends for two months almost a decade ago? What on Earth would possibly prompt them to kindle this sort of “friendship” right now?? Would you behave this way if you found an engaged former friend from HS?
How did you win when she's living rent-free in your head?
Also, what a shit way to think of another woman. Women should support and uplift other women. Not cheer for their misfortunes over social media.
Silicone ear plugs
No matter what you decide to do, you must never leave your child alone with your mother. Your mother enabled your abuser, she will enable your child's abuser as well, if given the opportunity.
Tell your husband. The two of you need to be united in your decision. He will support you. If he doesn't, your relationship has bigger issues.
She says in her country a lot of women hide their being abused in the past and move on with life – she urges me to forget, hide it and move on.
It's 20-fucking-23. Just because shit happened in the past, doesn't mean we put up with it today. We know now that bottling up trauma only facilitates further trauma. This only helps the perpetrators, never the victims.
If you haven't spoken to a professional about your past, you really ought to.