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I have occasiknally heard females who refuse sex and thought that was ok because they do not have the same sex drive and hormones as us but a man who says no to sex jesus. What world are we living in
Wtf kinda guy turns down HoTT sex with a woman daily? Yea I'm at a loss for words on this one
I never heard the term gaslighting until earlier this year after that stupid show came out. Now I hear it constantly and far too often used incorrectly. It's a form of psychological manipulation ABUSERS use against their VICTIMS. I don't think it really applies to a husband being less than forthcoming to his wife about a friend. I agree he is being shady but I wouldn't consider that abuse.
I don’t want to sound mean, but it seems like he’s trying to show you how much he values you relationship by not making an effort. I think you should pull back in your efforts until he starts to show you more.
Plan a trip for the future. Give yourself something to look forward too.
It may not have always been his opinion, but obviously it is now. You may now be incompatible. Time to ask him naked questions about his previous beliefs and his current differences and let him know the new him is not the man you grew to love. His answers will probably make your decision for you.
Tell him now
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Not a big issue, so long as you have what you need to deal with your fever etc.
But you also have the right to feel however you feel about it. From your post you don’t say if she talked with you about this, I’m going to assume she didn’t.
A simple ‘hey husband, medication here, fluids here, bucket here, I’ll have my cell on me, love you lots, will pass on your love to the family’ would have been better than just leaving (of course if she did this, then ignore the rest)
You mention that if the roles were reversed you wouldn’t have left. So now you know what her decision in this situation is, you can choose to reciprocate next time she’s sick.
If you do decide to talk with her about it, focus on the fact she didn’t discuss her still going to the park with you, she just got ready and left.
Your husband suffers from depression, gaming is just an outlet for him.
It could be possible that you were having what is known as sex somnia and therefore have no recollection of it. However, your boyfriend has behaved like a complete asshole about it.
Yeah, what he did is a pretty big deal. This dude doesn't sound safe. That kind of selfish decision making and the willingness to change your entire life means he can't be trusted.
I suggest you move on. Look be open with the next guy because yes it's important information for him to know.
I think OP just likes feeling special. Like any intelligent adult could understand there are billions of people on this earth and the idea that your platonic soul mate is a married male celebrity 15yrs older than you that you connected with online is . . . dumb.
Girl, lemme share some wisdom here.
I have a naked time loving someone in a relationship. The first and only man i said “i love you” to, it took me over 11 months to get there. But i knew that even without being able to say the words or feeling as deep as love has to go (imo) i was smitten and crazy about him, he was always in the back of my mind, and i did everything to spend time with him too. It was reciprocated and he didn't declare himself before me. We were very psychologically broken people.
Later in my life, i had a relationship that lasted 5 years. I was NEVER able to say “i love you” back. My “love” relationship had left me so scarred i thought there was something broken deep inside. I couldn't say it to anyone anymore, not my siblings, not my mother. Only my dog. I would often force it and pretend to feel it for my mom or my grandparents, because i knew later in life i would regret not saying it to them, because maybe one day i would be fixed enough to feel again. So, for my ex, i never able to love him mroperly, like you do your partner. But he never felt unloved. He always said that eventhough i thought i wasn't able to love, everything i did showed him i did love him. I was always very caring, very sweet, i would surprise him by making detours that took hours for me, just to see him for 10 minutes. He was always the focus of my attention and care. We spent all our time together when possible, lived LDR for a year and a half, but would talk daily, see each other every week, spend a lot of time talking and joking and just being with each other.
My point is, it could be that he needs more time, that he has mental blockage. But it doesn't mean that it is normal for him to treat you lile he doesn't really want to spend time speaking with you. If he doesn't care what you are doing, how you are doing, what's the point?
I'd say leave. Either he is gonna need a lot of time and therapy to get out of this mindset, or he is keeping you because he loves to be loved, but doesn't love you as a person.
PS: everytime i share this story, i get comments from other redditors telling me what an awful person i am for keeping my ex in a relationship without telling him i loved him. So 1) he was a grown ass man, if hr wasn't happy, he could say it and leave, i would always communicate, he knew everything i thought. He chose to be with me 2) i don't need your approval and i don't need your insults. So fuck off, if you want to attack me, instead of replying, just go to the next comment
Hey no worries. It's not super common and it's usually utilized when other things don't work.
I do agree that a doctor would be a good idea because she might need a sleep study or they might have a better prescription suggestion.
I’m not sure what to think about any of these “crushes” at all. It’s a general consensus on Reddit that crushes can happen even if you’re in a romantic relationship. But then I highly doubt anyone wants to hear their partner go “hey btw, I’m developing a crush on this person…”
To those who can deal with it when their partners bring it up, that’s great, you do you. It’s quite admirable. But don’t go around telling the people for whom this will be a dealbreaker that they’re being “unrealistic”. It’s possible to have a partner who doesn’t develop crushes in the relationship, period. Maybe it’s because I’m demisexual but I can’t see myself developing crushes while I’m with my boyfriend. With him I just have tunnel vision. And if he told me out of the blue that he’s got a crush on someone, even if the point of telling me was so we could work through it, I’m not really sure I would want to stay. It’s not that naked to be crush-free to me so I don’t see the point in staying with someone who isn’t the same.
The only way these crushes make sense to me is that maybe the person in question sees an attractive person — they go “huh they’re pretty cute” — and then they go about their day. Or maybe I’m not current to the definition of a crush in this scenario?? Idk! No disrespect (and I srsly mean this, I don’t have a lot of experience) but it really boggles my mind people can be so okay with their partners developing outside crushes, even if they’re harmless.
This also make it worse that todays his birthday… lol
Ask him out (after you pay for your tattoo of course). Have fun ?
I think the idea that I’d ever call the police on him without hearing him out first (notwithstanding actual violence – I asked) was what upset him. Does that context make it better or not?
You are right, I have decided to give it till the end of the month. If everything still remains the same then I will know what to do.
Invite the mom
Do her other friends know you are her bf. Besides having bf should be quite the news so a normal person would share with their friends.
You should tell her that it's best avoided by her telling her friends she has bf herself.
Also the phone story is a lie, but there sth more important. If I am correct and your gf is doing shady things you can expect her localisation to be turned of from now on when goes with other people. Of course you can then ask why is that and to not to do it. However at this it's obvious she is both hiding things and lying to you as well as proable cheating. Which is why should if happen you should just break up instead.
Why was it necessary to explain to an adult that this was way over the line?
Especially since this is someone who has claimed to love you and made a lifelong commitment to you.
I know that we who suffer from SI like to occasionally make a joke about it, but it’s for us to joke about because we know when and how.
Plus, what he said wasn’t a joke in any shape or form. It was a comment that he labeled as a joke after you didn’t accept it.
Sounds like she drank the kool aid and is mentally gone. Bail while you can.
Of course! I did see your other replies too and I’m not trying to come at you, you did go naked on people when you didn’t agree with them. I saw a post that your parents were abusive. I would suggest therapy if you’re not already in it. I finally went when my son was 3 and it was life changing and put me in such a better mental state. Please do remember that the baby genuinely feels your emotions and helping to move forward from whatever trauma you’ve been through will only make you a better parent in the future. Best of luck momma!
Spread your legs, point to it, and say “Dinner is ready”
Very bold of him to set rules about your pets in your house, especially re a room he doesn't sleep in. I'd never put up with this.
You can tell her, but your actions have to be pure and remove the other person out of your life, to protect your relationship for further damage.
Never said it was happening, but if you’re in a new relationship it is an important thing to consider and keep in the back of your mind just in case
I was very insecure and needy. Assault is physically interacting with someone in a nonconsensual manner.
This was obviously written by a man.
Wow you went to clubs 3 times in college!!! Without alcohol!!! You really lived the college experience. I can understand why he is so upset… if you weren’t home baking cookies or braiding a friends hair you are obviously a tramp… I’m still laughing at not past first base and you are in your mid-20s.
So apart from physically assaulting you he is sweet and gentle.
Ok….
And btw this is not “love”, you've only been dating two months. He's an old abusive creep and you'll figure that out eventually.
She’s an alcoholic and needs help. I’m so sorry you’re in this position.
Thank you. People really don’t need to know.
First off, what your husband and his brother did was RAPE. You consented to sex with him, arguably when you couldn’t give consent, and he arranged for you to have non-consented sex with his brother.
Your husband arranged your RAPE on multiple occasions.
Now, your husband wants you to have meaningless sex with someone you don’t want to have sex with and you aren’t supposed to enjoy it or “have passionate sex”. Trust me, good sex gives you better opportunities in the baby making department. It is just how our bodies are wired. Yes, you can still get pregnant, but you have higher success rates when you enjoy the process.
This is absolutely something that should end the relationship.
His absolute disregard for your boundaries crosses the line of criminal.
The up side is that you don’t have kids in this relationship, you know it isn’t you, and you can still find a respectful, loving individual with whom to start a family and build a happier life with.
Wow , an intrusive thought she just had to share ???? . She doesn't care about your feelings . Her behaviour is gross AF.
Just leave him.
You've been with him 4 years. That's enough. Don't wait around for another 4 years for him to be better in bed. Because he probably won't be.
And he IS terrible in bed.
It's not that he doesn't automatically know what to do. That's not the problem here.
It's that he refuses to listen to you. He's not open to constructive criticism.
Until he does that? He can never improve.
And you deserve better than that.
I do have my own computer/place, a couple times I've downloaded a few documents to the shared computer because the shared computer is connected to a good printer.
I'll shape up my bad habits. I'm just frustrated that I can't go back and nip those mistakes. Thanks for the input.
I do have my own computer/place, a couple times I've downloaded a few documents to the shared computer because the shared computer is connected to a good printer.
I'll shape up my bad habits. I'm just frustrated that I can't go back and nip those mistakes. Thanks for the input.
I think I'd probably feel the same way if a male figure in my life was going also. If you're not comfortable talking to him about it directly (which I would understand) maybe you could bring up his friend and how you think is innapropriate and it makes you feel uncomfortable. Maybe it will help you get your feelings across easier.
idk either, about the 15 year old boy all that situation was weird, i dont know how much they know each other before that, but i was there, listening her tell him how cute he is or things like that.
That’s half of this sub-Reddit.
This is a train wreck of a post Jesus Christ. You know the answer your looking for. Your dating a 14 year old teenager going through puberty. Except a teenager is probably more mature