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He could've continuously pushed her boundaries and not respected when she did indicate in real time that she did not want contact. After 3 years it might've been her breaking point and she felt she had to establish verbal boundaries because he was so inept. He even admitted in a comment as much. It's really not that complicated.
Sorry, it's been very confusing for me as well. They are not divorcing but always threaten each other with it. I understand it's none of my concern who she talk to, but it has interfered with me since she hasn't been faithful to my father and has pulled me into keeping it a secret.
They are still together. My issue is my mother has put me in a situation where I need to keep her secrets of inappropriately speaking to other men coworkers and being in love with either someone else or the idea.
You seriously need therapy. I just read your post history, and it is all over the place.
One day ago you said you were in love with a guy you’ve been seeing for 4 months after ending your “toxic 7 year relationship.” Also one day ago your boyfriend of 7 years wants you to quit talking to your friends?
How old are you? I’m sorry, but I’d be shocked if you were over the age of 16. You and your relationships seem incredibly immature.
Leave, do not tie yourself to a gaslighting liar.
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You got what you deserved. You just wanted to sleep around but keep your husband. Lemme guess, you already had someone in mind when you wanted to open the relationship?
Ultimately he is the one making the choice even if she’s making it difficult for him, maybe he would rather be single so he can devote his efforts to his sister rather than married with the inconvenience of paying attention to and caring about your spouse and her needs and feelings.
That is terrible for you . Please do not waste your life in a sexless , loveless marriage . Look up the TED talk on sexless marriages. Is he still jacking himself off to porn? If so, that’s likely THE problem!
You are both naive and delusional but continue clinging to an unavailable married man because that’s what you will do. Good luck.
In rare cases with children who are severely immunocompromised, so no not really If we are talking about otherwise healthy children.
“Honey, I really appreciate what you're doing for me, I really, really do – it's just that I came home hungry and out of energy from work, so I'm far away from being horny. Do you mind letting me eat first and recharge for a bit, and then I'll see if I have the energy. Please? Thanks baby ?”
Or shorter version: “I came home hungry, not horny. I appreciate it, but I'm too hungry and I'm physically spent from work. Maybe later tonight? No promises, I'm basically at 5% of my health bar right now.”
“I'm sorry I hurt your feelings honey, it really isn't anything personal against you. It's just that I already spent a lot of physical energy earlier today and just don't have the energy. At work, I was (insert info on what you did at work). I hope you understand that, but I'm still open to cuddling and kissing, would that be ok?”
The incredibly low standards are actually painful to read. Not everyone in the world is like this. Trust me when I say, you will be much better off alone than with a bf like this. You can meet someone better, someone you can actually trust, I’m sure of it.
Throw the whole guy out.
So assuming yo have the full story (and I have to ask why are you sure you do?) at least she confessed and stopped it. I don't know, if you read my post I am very down on cheating but I also understand that work in today's world is not a normal condition. You are forced to work intensely with someone and that can cause people to bond even without wanting to. People catch feelings. It's also OK for you to be pissed about it.
I actually think the way you are dealing with it is contributing to your anger. It puts you in a very week position because it seems like you are rewarding bad behavior. That would piss me off too. Personally if it were me, I would make her chase me, not be trying to compete with this other guy by doing date stuff.
I might text her one day and say I need some time and then just go and get a hotel room for a few days, just not come home. Not tell her where I was just text to say I am OK every day. Don't respond if she tried to text you except to say. I said I needed time please respect my feelings here. Stop contact. Give her a taste of what her life would be like without you. To me that works much better, it's also more honest to what you are feeling and to help you sort out what you want to do.
You have only been married for 3 years and you are still repetitively young so if you want to move in you should be fine.
It depends. Some men who work full time think that equates to the stay at home partner being literally on the job of home and kids 24 hours a day. This is unfair.
Do you have children?
If you have children then while you are at work, she is at work too, on the childcare and house, for the same number of hours that you are in your work. When you come home of an evening, that's the time of day when you guys reasonably split the childcare and household stuff between you.
If you're coming home after a days work and expecting dinner on the table and for your stay at home partner to continue the childcare and household routine even after you have clicked off from your day job, then yes, she probably deserves a lot better.
If you dont have children.
What is the agreement, have you agreed to fund her in exchange for her taking on all of the household responsibilities? Have you agreed an exact financial arrangement? Have you properly discussed just how much laundry, cooking etc is fone in exchange for her not working? These things dont just sort themselves out, you must discuss between you.
If you dont have kids, and she's working
Are you splitting the chores evenly?
Your post is missing do much info that its impossible to give a proper opinion.
The post sounds argumentative, it sounds like you are offended, but without knowing what your arrangements are, we have no idea if she is out of order, or if you are a giant child.
Maybe couples counseling could help?
You’re a good guy work it out for your girlfriend is there a take her away from her for a romantic getaway or do something extra special and make it a celebrated birthday time. If she’s upset and doesn’t wanna do that take her out and do it anyway just don’t call it birthday
Go to your doctor. Your feet shouldn’t stink. And if it’s recent then it maybe a small thing that’s quickly able to be fixed. Like with just an antifungal cream. And get antifungal powder and deodorant for both of you to put in your shoes, then wash all your socks on 60C with non-bio washing stuff.
I genuinely don't know how to be supportive for her; she also lost her grandpa 3 days ago, she “invited me” to go to the funeral with her (weird phrasing I know); but I just don't know how to be supportive coz she really doesn't want to talk about it; and I know she's grieving, but I think maybe she doesn't want me to know for some reason. I'm lost, concerned, and confused
Well, she held her hand and kissed her because she felt like it, what about when she feels like fucking her after a night out?
Are you ever going to be comfortable with them going out together?
It sounds to me like she doesn’t want to be I. A relationship, and if she does she sucks at it. This is going to sound cliche, but you’re too young to deal with this shit, especially for your first relationship.
No. If she says no, it was an invitation for coffee. That’s only awkwardly if you allow it to be. She won’t be offended because it’s a compliment.
What is it that you want to “make work”? Being friends with someone who has romantic feelings towards you (while having a fiancee) and who wants to “run away with [you] to another country”? That does not seem possible to me. Does it seem possible to you, given this history? That you and he could be platonic casual friends?
Despite all the jokes about men thinking with their dicks, they actually have very little control over the state of it.
You accept your wife for who she is. She is still dealing with trauma and you would be a huge ah for even mentioning her weight, unless her physical health is being affected.
I have seen men fired for porn addiction- looking at stuff on their computer, nowadays their phone or even a supervisor suspecting their numerous trips to the bathroom are masturbation. It sounds like you live! together? Hopefully not but all you need is for this sticky fingered monkey to get fired and be at home all day. Jacking off.
Sweetheart, a good therapist can help you through this. You never deserved to be treated that way. You deserve a soft life full of love and a partner who contributes meaningfully to that. You are worthy.
Hey I saw at show with this exact scenario! And the men were cheating, got drunk & the robbed.
i wouldn’t feel really comfortable with this either. Why didn’t one sleep on the couch. Very very strange. Your friend and boyfriend sharing a room and part of the time a bed ???? Wearing his clothes ?? All that is too much.
The only real posts here are the ones from people upset about their boyfriend looking at Instagram
You’re worried about him developing an eating disorder when it’s apparent he already has one..
Imagine working 40 hours a month and make 2 grands lol
Seems like he’s using you for sex and servitude…. Why put up with this shit? Find someone who likes you for you
Does he need to be hard for you to both have a good time? You both might enjoy fingering/using toys/etc. It would satisfy your drive without putting pressure on him to have a physiological response.
Not really the same thing. Three hours? That's just a class. That's much more reasonable. A whole weekend a month every month? Three hours a week adds up to half the time and given the division into short, once a week blocks is barely noticable (of course arrangements had to be made) and it is reasonable that you have SOME time to yourself.
If OP went to a park every week to read and relax for three hours, I doubt we would even be here talking about this.
Run
She could find out what meds hes on
I’d figure out what he means… I’m a nurse and if I could turn back time and get into nursing at your age I would have. No matter what happens you should go to nursing school. The right guy will come around, but you do you first!
Are they still going through the divorce? Are they in the same house? I’m not fully understanding the overlap here.
Sometimes when you’re stuck living with crazy, you develop the defense of appeasing it by saying whatever thing it wants right now to make it through the day.
There’s not enough context here, but if it’s bothering you, you should talk about it.
Found the boyfriend
Yes. I too have spent 2000 fixing my 2000 Honda covic and then had something else go wrong so I put another 1500 into it. Then the transmission goes out. Well I just put 3500 into it. It’s still a 2000 Honda Civic.
Honestly a woman who didn't want it to get out wouldn't have said anything at all… Wives tell their husbands all the dirty secrets that their friends tell… If you want a secret to stay a secret, you don't tell people
Set boundaries. Ex can't be there when you, girlfriend, and baby are there. If they invite ex to family events, you aren't going. For now, just focus on how they treat your girlfriend. If they're blatantly favoring ex, I would distance myself.
NC, they are dysfunctional and your therapist should not be giving you directions….YOu will be sorry in a few years you did this….Go no contact….
Why aren’t you working on expanding your social circle beyond him?
When do you decide to take action on that?
Oh, ew. Good point.
I think I will make sure to talk to him about it tomorrow when I'm home I do need to know what he is and isn't cool with.
I don't smoke an insane amount this makes it sound like a smoke a lot but i only smoke on Friday nights, because I'm still a highschool student and it messes with my grades and sport if I smoke more than that.
Then he should hold his tongue EVEN MORE SO
Sheesh
Girl what is you doing
be there for her
It's totally understandable that you're feeling a bit confused and anxious in the situation. It's hard to tell what's going on in someone's head, but it's important to remember that everyone moves at their own pace. It's possible that he's still processing his feelings and needs some time to figure out what he wants. It's also possible that he's just not as interested as you are. My advice would be to have an honest conversation with him about your feelings and expectations, and to be open to whatever his response may be. Good luck!
Two problems with this
She’s probably signed a contract that says she won’t do this…so she could lose her job is they find out
The agency you work though has insured and bonded their staff. Paying her directly as a cash customer…you lose that, and she’s already stolen from you. If you find too late that she’s just a thief, you’ll have to claim on your home insurance
I thought that he maybe was already done with her.
As she said she sent the picture when communication got draggy.
His kickback reply sounds like he was about to leave anyhow.
Shows, that “knowing people for X years” often doesn't mean a thing. Because one stays on the surface.
But things get weird, one sees the underwarter parties of the iceberg.