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Well, first, you need to admit to yourself that you don't actually mean it when you say he's free to date whomever he wants.
You're talking out of both sides of your mouth here. On one side, you're telling him these issues you have with this woman are irrelevant to him and he's free to date whomever he pleases. On the other side, you keep bringing up the issues you have with her even though you said they have nothing to do with him and are upset that he's not immediately casting her aside and declaring his undying loyalty you.
What you actually mean is you don't want to be the bad guy and actually want him of his own accord to pick sides, and specifically your side.
It seems like you aren't coping well with this. While simply cutting this woman out of your life worked in the short term to relieve whatever mental anguish you had concerning the situation, it's also clear that you haven't otherwise worked through the underlying issues to make peace with it (note: making peace with it doesn't necessarily mean that you let her back in your life, but that you've released the negative emotions such that the mere mention of her no longer causes you hurt and anger). Perhaps talking with it out with a neutral third party like a counselor/therapist would help and also give you some coping mechanisms for dealing with incidental crossing of paths with her. Because cutting someone out of our lives can be a necessary measure, but it's a one-sided action that you can't always control – as you're now seeing she's managed to make it back into your periphery. So sometimes it can't be the only measure we rely upon.
But if you're truly unable to move past this, then yes, sometimes it's necessary to step back from relationships when they cause more harm than good. Relationships ebb and flow and not all relationships last a lifetime – sometimes people come into our lives for a short period and circumstances don't allow that to continue and that's ok.