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No offense but she kinda sounds like a cunt. WD40 on the door and flush in the morning
If him watching something makes you uncomfortable and he will not change his behavior despite your repeated requests, maybe you should just move on.
Best advice here.
They’re both not safe at all . They both lack good judgment. She can’t trust him due to these events and her past traumatic experience. If she’s passed them I think she could probably communicate with him and it could just be a misunderstanding to learn that sometimes we aren’t as in tune as we like to think lesson. His experience with intimacy with his wife is very tainted unfortunately because I don’t think he intentionally did rape her I think it just was assumed consent from marriage and a initiation on her part which made him think green light instead of thinking of the medication part of it for the after effects. If she was medicated to be incoherent
Yes, be there for him. Put yourself second behind what he needs
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Lying about what?
This is totally your insecurity . There’s no doubt about that.
Your whole post is about you. “ She seems to think …..” And you are totally playing the blame game.
Do you think you have retrospective rights to a persons life ?
You have a responsibility to deal with this in your mind and if you can’t to walk. Already your response is doing damage .
It means he has a thesaurus and plans to get his money's worth.
It sounds like he made an exception before and didn’t feel pressured to break his boundaries again because he’s comfortable with you. This isn’t going backwards, it’s him feeling comfortable in the limits he’s clearly communicated to you. If you want a midnight kiss then take him away from your family. It’s a very easy compromise where you could have gotten your kiss and he didn’t need to be made uncomfortable.
NO MAN IS WORTH THAT MANY TEARS!! Stop this toxic and hurtful merry-go-round and end this cycle and get out. Move on. Forget about this guy. He's not into you.
She played with fire and let it get the best of her. Any responsible adult knows right from wrong and knows where to draw the line.
I don't know about your relationship beyond this, like how much you have invested so I can't really suggest anything to you.
Personally, it would be a done deal for me because I would've lost all trust in her but that's me.
No matter what you decide, exercise patience and calmness in yourself. Don't let the situation get the best of you where you do something you regret.
Good luck
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No.
Вот так, пришла за советом а на меня со всех сторон обзаваются.
By “can't make you come,” what do you mean? Do you mean that he refuses to do foreplay (tongue, fingers), that he doesn't want you to bring a toy into the bedroom to use during PIV (or before, or after), that he just wants to stick it in and refuses to do any aftercare in which he uses his finger or his tongue or your toy to help you out? Life is way, way too short for a bad sex life if sex is important to you. It only gets worse, except that soon you might have a house you bought together, or kids or pets & it will be harder & seem more trivial to break up over “only” sex.
>>I also understand and accept I’m not going to orgasm EVERY time we have sex.
Why? If I don't or can't orgasm during PIV with my partner, he finishes me off after he's come.
But is what he’s asking reasonable?
No. No it is NOT AT ALL reasonable.
He's testing your boundaries and what you are willing to tolerate. If you give in to this idea he knows he can control you because he can then say, “I don't like you seeing your family that often.” And you will start to break away because you've taken on his idea that it's “disrespectful” to not do what he wants and you don't want to “disrespect” him so you start to comply.
Then it's “I don't like that friend” or “I don't want you talking to men at work” and then maybe X, Y, or Z…. it starts to escalate.
He's not a safe person, OP.
Right, almost like that’s why it’s a stupid thing to do in a relationship.
Also, what does being pansexual have to do with needing a deep connection with people before having sex?
If he shows up dressed as a clown, don’t let him in. It’s as simple as that. Kick him, and whoever lets him in, out. If he can’t respect your wedding, and those who encourage him can’t respect you and your wedding, they don’t deserve to be there
Have you both been officially tested or is it just an approximation?
Also, I'd recommend just slowing down and actually taking time to explain things. It might take a while but do it. My friend has above average IQ and their partner has an IQ of 85. They've been together for 6 years and sometimes we all hang out. The lower IQ individual understands everything if we don't take their understanding for granted and explain everything in ways they can understand.
Thanks for the insight. This is exactly what I don't want to think. I kind of have everything at stake here. He is my only family, and we share all of our friends. My brother is also in our social circle. The only thing I look forward to is spending time with them every day.
The ending of this relationship will literally drain all the happiness I have in the world. I hate my job and don't even talk to my coworkers. I don't want to get in to my family issues but it's all really bad and I can't say I love any of them. Except maybe my cousin.
I've tried not to think so very hot about us not being able to reconcile because I know I would quit life if you know what I'm saying. This isn't a dumb teenage relationship that I'll happily forget, at this stage it has been like we are married, for a while.
Don't really know what I'm trying to say.
How about where you go from here is realize that what you want is an extremely outdated and sexist bs and you’re putting your pride over your family. The fact that you’re willing to destroy your family over this is pathetic and maybe you should because they deserve better. What a little boy.
So you’re assuming the dad is lying. Why? Why not assume his GF is lying?
To add: just saw on AITA where a woman shredded hard pics she found of her husbands ex and he asked her right away. He noticed.
I do feel resentful often but I’m sure he probably does too in his own ways. I’d like to work it out, I don’t want to throw 2 years down the drain. Plus we have two cats together that we treat like our babies lol. A broken home is the last thing I want. I’ve been spending my life trying to make up for the broken home in my childhood lool.
Thank your for your advice! I know it's something I need to fix and It's in my own head. I've always been a people-pleaser (to a fault) and that intrusive thought enters my head that I'm not doing my best to be good enough.
It's not something I directly share with him because I know he will feel bad that I'm upset and I don't want to bring my own lack of confidence into the relationship!
Just stay in your marriage if you love your wife. Fucking different women everyday (which will not happen btw, grass is not greener) does not worth your children growing up without a father.
What does the smell, smell like? Does it smell like sweat, shit, eggs, or a mix of rotten things?
There could be something wrong going on, and he absolutely needs medical help if that’s going on
If you really care about her, you will do the difficult but right thing and pull the plug. Sounds like she is experiencing a trauma bond with you because of your prior treatment of her, so she's struggling to let go even though staying connected to you is bad for her mental health. You have a chance to actually be the good guy after all you've put her through and set her free.
Unfortunately, you can't always undo the damage you've done. You have done enough damage here, so the only thing to do now that isn't selfish is to tell her that you think it's best for both of you to let go so you can both heal and move on.
How do I move on in a good way if I was going to?
I understand. It’s actually really nice to hear! Like that if I truly love him and enjoy the relationship I won’t have regrets ☺️ and I really do! I guess sometimes I let fear control me and that’s no good. Thank you for ur input it makes me feel more confident and clear headed
I used to hate our Greek cultural tradition of naming after a grandparent. It meant having a bunch of cousins and aunts and uncles with the same name lol. Now I see the benefit bc it is easy peasy and no one can ‘claim’ the name.