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Date: November 6, 2022
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That is probably fair and something I have quietly been suspicious of but never have said because he has so adamantly insisted they've been good to him his whole life and with how he's acted when I make observations that do not support that, I really have never told him I don't think this is healthy or normal. I did tell him I don't think these things just come on very suddenly like he thinks it did and there were probably traces of it that were detectable prior to me being in the picture and that got shut down fast so I didn't even try to go further down that psychological rabbit hole. The problem is that I don't actually know what a normal family looks like. I never had one, I've never seen one, and he knows that. I've learned a lot in therapy though and I have done A LOT of work on myself and a LOT of work with my autism trying to understand the ins and outs of what all interpersonal relationships should look like. But when I try to tell him these things are not healthy, he gets extremely defensive and its basically a conversation about how I wouldn't really know what's healthy and I just don't understand this because with where I am at on the spectrum I tend to be emotionally detached from people. I feel that puts me in an optimal position to observe them without my emotions getting in the way. He feels that makes it so I wouldn't understand what a normal family attachment should look like and firmly believes that's what he has. I really don't though. I have felt for a long time that when his parents say jump he says how high and he never confronts them when they are frustrating them. And I think that points to a very controlling dynamic but I guess I just wouldn't know.
Honestly, the fact that he is divorced and has children doesn’t bother me. Bold of you to assume I don’t have my own baggage ?lol. Agree that those things come with additional considerations, but which is why I’m looking for advice specifically on communicating about money.