First and foremost his mother is WRONG and took advantage of you…understand that. On the other hand….Space. Give him space. I would be so upset if my partner did this to me, especially if I never gave them a clue about wanting my mother in my life. His reasons may be a lot deeper than you know and seeing her could’ve opened up a really bad wound. People don’t usually cut their mother off straight to college unless some pretty bad things happened. Again, give him lots of space and don’t push trying to make up, give him time.
If you don’t respond she’ll never know if you got it and will have to move on
First and foremost his mother is WRONG and took advantage of you…understand that. On the other hand….Space. Give him space. I would be so upset if my partner did this to me, especially if I never gave them a clue about wanting my mother in my life. His reasons may be a lot deeper than you know and seeing her could’ve opened up a really bad wound. People don’t usually cut their mother off straight to college unless some pretty bad things happened. Again, give him lots of space and don’t push trying to make up, give him time.