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Oh wow. Your boyfriend literally meets the definition of an alcoholic. I am pro-weed, but when you use any substance out of control and/or as a crutch, it is problematic. So two problems there.
Another problem is grabbing you… just know that that type of behavior will likely escalate and is very scary. It might not seem like a big deal now, and this might not mean much coming from a stranger but I wish I could sit you down and look you in the eye to tell you it is a problem. A big problem.
He’s also emotionally manipulating you at best, verbally abusive at worst. I think it’s abusive but when you’re in it and don’t know what verbal/emotional abuse really looks like that can be a naked pill to swallow. Just know what he’s doing is very wrong and you don’t deserve it.
I know your first reaction to these following words will be defensive and denial but I urge you to sit with that discomfort and really question it with the utmost kindness to yourself: your relationship isn’t amazing; it’s toxic and holding you back. He’s sabotaging your success and dragging you down into whatever pit of despair he’s trying to avoid through numbing himself with weed and alcohol. He’s scared of being alone in that pit so he’s taking you down with him. It is a trap but you can still escape.
You are only 21 and have your whole life ahead of you. You do not need to stick around to try to fix him; you do not owe him anything despite whatever length of time you’ve been together.
Being in a relationship with someone with substance abuse issues is crazy difficult with low chance of success. They have to want to change and actually put in the effort to do so. You have to sacrifice so much and be subjected to things that no partner deserves. You also need your own support through therapy and things like Al-anon or similar programs because if you don’t you will just end up an enabler, or otherwise hindering his progress through what feels like support but really is detrimental. In the process, whether you are doing the right things or the wrong things you will end up emotionally and physically drained, with high potential for long term damage to your mental health. It is daunting and nearly impossible for someone with an extremely solid foundation and life stability, depth of life experiences to pull from, and their own support system – for someone at the cusp of the beginning of their true adulthood the chances of success are abysmal.
I’m not saying stay or go – just know the consequences if you choose to stay. This is your life. Right now, the decisions you make shape your future and your success. I hope you make the choice to give yourself the best opportunity at survival and success.
You are at a crossroads. He has shown you that he wants to tear you down and not just emotionally. The next decision you make is a big one. Choose wisely.
Whatever you do, do NOT let him or yourself excuse his behavior or actions by saying “well he was drunk or high”. That is an attempt to cover up the truth through shame and guilt. His being drunk or high is just a different lens through which you see his true self. If he’s telling you he wants you to fail through his actions whether he’s drunk or high – BELIEVE HIM. It’s the truth.
Same. I mean we do get well along with each other but I guess we still online in two different worlds, I’m not a party person, I rather stay at home with my husband and kids and have a good time with them.
Girl dump him!
He never asked for financial advice.. he basically asked how to separate gold diggin friends and females from people who really like him for him
Honestly act the same way you did broke even tho your not. Don’t just buy everyone everything. If your on a date don’t go to that million dollar restaurant.. the regular restaurants are fine. I love Olive Garden no matter the occasion. And just because you meet someone you like doesn’t mean you tell them your finances. Most females who are interested in you for you won’t ask you bout your finances. They’ll ask you if you work what do you do. Do you like it. Your hours. Free time you have. You can tell differences between people who are money invested and you invested. Pay close attention. But never assume. Just watch. Good luck.
You’re absolutely right. What if I communicate that to her? Send her one last text indicating that this was my mistake and that if she is open to talking please let me know. Otherwise I do think it would be good to reach out down the line and test the waters
I don’t understand how this comment generates a “yikes” response. The post is absolutely yikes on bikes, but this comment…?
He moved as fast as an open relationship permits.
Then have a threesome or a one off
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She needs to speak to a medical professional, and that’s all there is to it. Sounds like a form of either OCD, extreme anxiety or she’s a hypochondriac. Or all of the above. Either way, Reddit won’t help, it’s not healthy for anyone involved and needs to be examined so she can seek help from there.
If he is playing games by making traps…run…he is 26 years old playing mind games and you deserve better than that and also should not be talking to seniors in high school randomly, especially with a gf. This guy is a creep!
It might be too little to late, but he seems to be better understanding how his actions have affected you. Although could be back to “saying what you want to hear”. You need to sit down and have a full conversation about your feelings and what is going on. If you want to salvage your relationship, you may need to consider counseling because it seems you both have some issues to work through around your relationship.
If he was cheating, his sister would've covered for him. Id bet on it.
Where did you get the couch? It could have been in the couch.
You reached out to your BFs ex because you’re BF was treating you awful. She basically told you it’s because he’s awful and now you don’t believe her and want to defend the person treating you bad?
Oh no wait, he’s forcing you to defend him. How is this a person you want to be in a relationship with? You basically got what you wanted/needed from his ex! Validation of your feelings that’s he’s bad! LISTEN to your gut and her.
I just can’t believe no part of him loved me
The part of him that needs control absolutely loved the hell out of you. That's it.
You can do better than clown faces. This is Reddit, not twitter
Nothing to add, just want to say: as a single mom previously working in a male dominated field: OMG THATS SO FUCKING COOL! I wish I had the balls to go into welding
she feels that her proposing is making a mockery of our engagement
I feel like everyone is just glossing over this. Its all “oh OP she isnt taking your feelings into account!”, but OP is doing the exact same thing.
The reality here is, that OP wants something that is extremely uncommon, and its obvious she has feelings about it, just like OP has. It also seems like they didnt communicate things properly before popping the questions, so now they are at a standstill.
The real question here is why this is so important to OP? Yes, his parents did this. So the whole point is that its “tradition” to him. But then why is that more important than the “tradition” his fiancee wants to follow? The only real reason that I can find is this:
I know what I'm asking for goes against tradition and is unorthodox, but I think since our relationship isn't traditional nor going to be, that the start of our marriage should reflect that with a mutual show of commitment and dedication.
But getting engaged is not the start of your marriage. Getting married is. And the whole marriage ceremony is literally the biggest show of mutual commitment and dedication there is. Its the whole point of it. You literally have to say that you commit to the other person and then sign a legally binding document. Does OP think that mutual proposals are a bigger show of commitment than that? And would a normal proposal make the actual marriage somehow less special?
You need to explain to this clown that people who exclusively sleep with each other and have romantic feelings to each other are generally referred to as boyfriend and girlfriend, or something along those lines, in the society you are both living and that he should stop behaving like a 5 year old.
I’ve seen this story a few months ago ?
She is not his friend , she is his ex who wants to get back with him.
Unless he cuts off the friendship 100% and blocks her you should break up. She has zero respect for your relationship and by continuing to see her he is provoking a one emotional sided affair & leading her on.
Tell her that you will feel more comfortable wearing a condom.
If she loves you then she will respect your decision
Wait what. I clearly state that the issue is I’m jealous of people getting government benefits. Never stated that I am against the welfare system. That’s on you for having bad reading comprehension.
You were not dating or together. He's not doing anything wrong here.
If you really can't look past it. Stop talking to him.
Mark doesn't have a job but he is trying to get one, he steps up by doing fun father son activities with him “boy stuff” pretty much like sports or play fighting
Therapy isn't for him, it's to help you get over your abandonment issues and stop you from scamming an old man out of $5k.
Anything like that varies from woman to woman but the vagina is a muscle, so even if she does kegels it will still expand when she's aroused. You may also unintentionally offend her by asking her to do this. Even if you aren't saying that she is too loose, that's the message she's likely to receive. You can potentially frame it by mentioning that you're worried about your own size and talking about ways to make sex more satisfying for both of you, and if kegels come up naturally, then great.
I would personally be extremely turned off if my boyfriend asked that of me.
You're gaslighting yourself.
Thanks again for your response! I think it's more of a fear of what's next and pressure and such. I actually don't mind being myself around her. We got into a relationship quickly (that's on me though) and I may have psyched myself out. I've just been really wishy washy with her and don't want to string her along. It's naked rectifying that sense of calmness with this anxiety.
I'm trying
I would tell him you're doing it if you plan to continue seeing him. Not that he has a say, but just being honest if you want to build a honest relationship. If he's against abortion, I'd just do it and break it off with him.
Would it make you feel any better if he was considered unfuckable by other women?