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Why would you give her a gift when she is actively seeking out other guys? If someone doesn't make you a priority you shouldn't make them an option. Move on, she has made her choice. Do not waste time, travel by yourself for 6 months. This is not meant to be, at least not right now. Good luck.
No, nobody knew that I cheated on her but I did it because she started to disrespect me for my bad grades and no goals. She also wanted me to be more outgoing with the fakes. I told her not to entertain any guys and she still did, which is disrespectful towards any man whose girl does that. Her friends made fun of me because they wanted her lol.
He is likely just evaluating whether he is wasting his time on this distance relationship. He is 35 and in a totally different life stage than you. You have time to find someone else; his prime time is limited. Messaging and talking was fun for a while, but ultimately not a means to an end.
Don't make any decisions now.
Use this time to demand a timeline from her, complete with no contact with the coworker and demand therapy for her.
In that time, stay apart, focus on yourself, get therapy too.
Don't forgive her now, you'll resent yourself in the future, and don't get divorced now either, you'll feel like you could fight for it more.
Please have the right to think, reflect whether or not you can forgive her according to her actions.
Don't forgive her until you're sure she really is showing signs of changing.
Don't do the heavy lifting yourself, make her work to win you back. Make her aware that she could lose you and that you have a serious chance of moving on with your life and finding someone better. I refer you to the r/supportforbetrayed sub, a sub that will help you whatever your decision is (reconciliation or divorce)
There is treatments now for most thinning and hair loss. Most are really easy. I know a few people that have benefited from them. Best if started sooner rather than later.
Ah I like this explanation a lot. What would make something controlling instead of a boundary would depend on the willingness of your partner to entertain the wish. If you didn't want your partner to rest their head on someone else's shoulder while watching a movie, it'd be controlling if your partner really wanted to do so, but if they understood the situation and accepted that they wouldn't want you to lean on someone else in another scenario either, it would simply be a boundary.
Maybe wait until she actually gets the news before assuming the worst. The saying “at first if you don't succeed, try and try again” exists for a reason. Try being a bit more supportive.
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And now that it's done I think she's learned from the pain.
You have 50% of the voting rights in any relationship. You can bring up whatever you want. If he’s a good option long term, he will respect your viewpoint. If he shuts it down, you saved yourself a lot of hassle.
I can’t afford it
No. You really don’t know them that well. Going to visit for brief spurts along with communicating is also not knowing them pretty well.
Don’t delude yourself. I say this as someone who has been in a similar situation. Take this slow. Take some time to be sure you and the kids are in a good place both mentally and physically/financially.
It’s nice to have a person who is totally in your side. One you can bear your soul to and only get positive feedback from. It’s euphoric and something to look forward to and you never feel alone.
Be realistic. There is a huge difference between chatting/texting and an actual in person relationship.
I’m not saying it can’t work or it’s bad. I totally am not. Just be aware and don’t let the good feelings blind you.
Ask exactly like that but don't push it. And if she ends up saying yes, don't treat purchasing lingerie for her during special occasions as a gift for her unless she specifically asks for it. Sometimes, men will purchase lingerie for Valentines or other holidays and treat it as a gift for their partner. That's fine if your partner is into lingerie on their own but if not, that's a gift for you , not for your partner.
I've been at the same crossroads myself. Years of rejection when she was LL did so much damage to my self-esteem. In an effort to protect myself I started redirecting myself whenever I was wanting her. It worked, but too well. When her libido returned I couldn't even make myself want her. Physical intimacy is very important to me and I just can't be with someone if I don't feel that attraction so that was the end of that.
It's not an enviable place to be but I do understand, for whatever that's worth.
I just hope op doesnt live in ohio, I don't know if they can handle another toxic trainwreck
Yeah he's gay as fuck
You’ll have rights to all the assets. You even have the proof of her infidelity. Lawyer up.
What in God’s name hobby is 1300???!! Like what?!
Bc she doesn't remember it? How are you honestly confused
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I think that is where people are mistaken. They fundraiser here in the states here too which I’ve been a part of. And this post has NOTHING to do with the one day virtue savior thing. But since we are talking about it. I donate regularly. I see the money & where it goes , I have regular contact with some of the kids and I’ve seen them as a kid go through abandonment to a home to graduating school. AND I’ve only posted once and it was for gaining awareness. And so what if it made me feel good too. But everyone here thinks they know everything without even asking.
Why bother replying? Retard
You can also get the messages from the cell phone company. I would absolutely get copies of them.
That's really rough. I know it can be intimidating, and obviously you have some real disadvantages. I also have an anxiety diagnosis. I know everyone's journey is different, but anxiety is something we can learn to live! with and even (to a different extent for each person) overcome with the help of medication and/or therapy.
Also keep in mind that anxiety makes us weigh the negatives more than the positives. Height and acne aren't the only things women care about. And as you get older (especially past 25ish) you'll see that most women stop caring about those things entirely. It becomes much more about your personality and if you want similar things in life.
Well, I read your post. Seems to me he asked you out for Sunday, you said no—too soon. Then he offered something 2 weeks out when he has time available again. You said no—too far out.
If this is truly so hot for you to understand then maybe it’s not a surprise that you’re single. Playing these stupid games is a waste of everyone’s time.
We why have a join account with someone who isn’t a spouse in the first place? Move your fund asap.
Don't downplay how fucked it is that she hid something like that from you and let you toss it in raw. Shows how little she cares about/for you
Hey, OP, there's a reason you're getting down voted to hell. You are not characters in a novel. You are not star-crossed lovers; you're fools, but certainly not destiny's fools.
You both keep repeating the same dumb mistake: getting back together when it is obvious that you don't work.
Case in point: who cares about convincing him. You were broken up. You don't have to convince him of anything.
He canceled a tip to visit her to go for a three week trip with friends. She won’t see him for a year or she won’t get to have the trip she’d dreamers of. He also already knew about her dream trip in advance.
Before I did literally anything with him I told him what I wanted and how I want to be treated. And he cried on the phone for 2 hours begging to see me and saying how much he loves me. All of a sudden everything just flew out the window when I ask if he’d take me to dinner if I went to visit him like he’s asking of me. He acts like a little kid and it’s so frustrating. The reason why I mentioned other girls is bc he’s told me in the past what he’s done and nice gestures he’s made and then when it comes to me none of that apparently applies and it literally made me sob for hours
Some people are super oblivious to that sorta thing, I know I was. I'm content not seeing people all that often because I'm just so used to my own company, but my fiancé is the opposite – they have an anxious attachment type whereas I'm anxious avoidant on top of having AvPD and BPD, and it took a few conversations for it to sink in that I really needed to be more present with them, and that I'd hurt them by being distant a lot
Rereading your post and how you've communicated about other issues as well, I realise now that trying to communicate this might be like talking to a brick wall. It seems like he's not open to communicating or learning how to do so better, and that makes you incompatible
Honestly it seems like your mind is made up and it's definitely better to split early on than drag it out on the small chance he might make a permanent change. You could use the hotel stay to discuss this with him, or you can have one last nice weekend together and break up after you're both back at your own homes. It really depends on whether you'd prefer to do it face to face or over VC/text