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It could be literally anyone, why ruin two marriages without the medical results?
he took it well seems like i was worrying over nothing. going to be more careful in future lol
Going back with an ex is like swallowing what's left over in your mouth when you barf. It always tastes a bit acidic.
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Leave him. He obviously doesn't give a shit about your feelings & is going out of his way to make you feel bad. Looking at naked pics of other women isn't ok, & blocking you is his version of stonewalling (refusing to listen to you)
Don’t listen to people virtue signaling how they’d stay by someone’s side no matter the circumstance when they’re not in your circumstances. It’s easy to say. You both need partners who are happy with what you can give. There are plenty of people who would be happy to chill at home and wouldn’t mind a partner with limited mobility, and it would take the pressure off of her feeling guilty her mobility is compromised. You can stay in her life as a friend and support.
So far people in this comment section seem very biased. I read sooo many other posts here on reddit about the same issue but the genders were reversed (young girls dating much older guys). He's 18 he can do whatever he wants – sure, but that doesn't mean dating a 32 year old woman is okay. Again if genders were reversed people would be throwing words like “grooming” “predatory behaviour” “manimulation” atc. – and righfully so. There's no sane reason for a 32 year old to date an 18 year old. And so the question shouldn't be why is he dating her but why is she dating him? How can they have anything in common? Does he need a second mother? I don't doubt his love for her he's still young and naive so I wouldn't be that angry just have a proper conversation with him. Ask serious questions and let him think about the fact that they are at a very different points of their life.
I don't think he'll continue to obsess over it. In fact, you've probably already spent more time thinking about it than he has. It probably did reinforce his loss of both parents in the moments right after you said it, and yeah – it probably did make him feel sad. But if you've been together for a year, he probably understands that you didn't say it to be cruel.
IMO your window for apologizing has passed. You could have said “Oh no – that's not what I meant, I'm so sorry” while giving him that little side hug. But if you try to apologize today, all you are likely to do is pick at his emotional scab even more. Just let bygones be bygones, and try even harder to be a comfort in his life. It sounds like overall, you are doing a good job of that.
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Not too long. A few months maybe. But we had a connection from day one. It’s improved further over the years because of good communication. We both tell each other if we did something we enjoyed/didn’t enjoy so we know what to do more of/stop doing the next time.
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Sounds like it is time you find a job in the field you got a degree in.
Stop doing everything at home, go back to work full time, and have a talk with husband.
Tell him, I know what you said about me to our son. And since you feel that way, I think it is time I make some changes. So this is what is going to happen. I am going back to work full time as soon as I find a job in my field. I am also not going to be cooking and cleaning all the time. You will now start taking on some of those responsibilities. Bills will be split accordingly once I get the job. If you have a issue with that then that is your problem. You are the one with the view point that working in a store is pathetic. So you will just have to get over it.
Then I would open my own bank account, and all my checks would be deposited in it, and only put what I had to in the joint account for my share of bills etc. I would be saving for the future, and anything possible that might come from this.
Disagree.
I agree that whatever reason she has should be respected regardless but to not explain it to your partner, you leave them in the dark and practice non-communication. Lack of communication is one of the leading reasons for break-ups and divorces. I believe most people want an emotionally available partner.
If you pick this method as a form of communication, just don't be surprised when they leave because they don't feel emotionally included in the relationship anymore.
But the problem here is that he is acting the same way when she does it accidentally, like in her sleep. This isn't something you can control. He's disgusted because he doesn't think women should have bodily functions.
Definitely sit down when both parties are calm and talk about this topic and where you both stand.
His choice to draw his lines where he likes and yours to agree or disagree.
But be careful as these topics end badly for poor communicators.
So no, you didn’t ask her to stay and you assumed she’d offer.
You are overthinking. Get some fluids and get some rest. You aren’t dying. You’re an adult who doesn’t feel well. She shouldn’t be near you anyway if she doesn’t want to catch what you have.
Is it not normal to expect your partner to be by your side when you are running a high fever throughout the night?
She’s your wife, not your nurse. I assume she’s reachable by phone if there is a real emergency. The best thing for both of you is for you to lay down, drink plenty of water and go to sleep if you can. She can’t really do much. Your fever is doing the work of killing whatever virus/bacteria you have.
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Why speak to a liar? You can't trust what she says. If honesty and trust are important to you in a relationship, then she's not the girl for you. Her actions are your closure – she's too damaged to enjoy the relationship you want.
Yup. OP has been on Reddit a year and has negative karma. That must take some doing.
Girls and guys really can’t be friends. You wouldn’t understand that though
OP should not arrange anything, she’s trying to get him to see her and the kid so she can drag him back into what is clearly a very unhealthy relationship.
Yeah, it sucks for the kid that his father figure just vanished and his mom’s clearly playing with this kid’s emotions and getting him upset, but OP should avoid contact.
At 3 he will not be able to recognize this guy’s face after a few weeks and he’ll forget about him pretty quick(unless his mom keeps bringing it up).
You're over thinking it.
It's not going to cause any harm if you text again if that makes you feel better. Just open up the conversation again.
If you get no response to that then you have an answer.
People get busy, forgetful etc.
Honestly, DNA test should be normalized. It is just something that women cannot understand. It isn't necessarily a trust issue, although in this instance it does seem that way.
Do the test.
What's his gf posts about? All I saw was his post history and its wow
Fair enough about my perception but let's not get too stuck on the details.
Yes, you told him that his lack of knowledge was likely easily explainable and despite his ignorance you still choose to be with him, but that was after the initial insult. I'm not sure that you really apologised either. It seems like it was more of a rationalisation than an apology.
So, yeah, I suspect he is feeling insulted and belittled. But its done, you've apologised and admitted an error, and it will just take some time to get back to normal.
A financial planner is a good idea, but that won't solve the fact that he is lazy and selfish. It sounds like he wants a bangmaidmummy, you do all the housework, pay most of the expenses and give him sex. He gets to be a manchild and do whatever he wants with no thought about you.
So very true! I was on a better path toward a truly healthy life before Gary. Thank you for your insight.
As I said. It is not about dating, since A is no romantic interest for me.
I don't think you need to leave him, you might feel guilty but you have peace of mind now right? Don't make a habit of it, and talk to him about why he doesn't want you to use his laptop if you feel it's important. Just on-line your life, dont stress
Says who?
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Never underestimate how little is required for someone to do something elaborate when they are bored.
That is true – if both sides are willing participants.
I told him that he wasn't attracted to me and that he knew he wasn't before we met. And he only liked skinny gothic chicks. That I don't know why men have sex with women they aren't attracted to.
Exactly. Like from an outside perspective, this looks bad.
But if this is enough for the guy to basically ghost her and assume that she was cheating, he didn't trust her much to begin with.
Then people should essentially only date someone in their own income bracket. Why would we limit love to the fact that people can only date those that they can afford to share expenses evenly? Someone making $50k could never afford to date someone making $150k.
No offense, but this is weird as hell. The second life story sounds like it's happening in 2008. She also is involved with her friend's BDSM relationship on-line. Unless you don't count online avatar games with real people voicing and controlling the characters (including being part of phone sex calls between an actual boyfriend and girlfriend) then this isn't going to work.
I wouldn't want to have kids with my husband if he didn't want them too. He would be a horrible dad then. Wouldn't bond with the forced baby and what if he resented the kid all his or her life.
Nope get a woman that actually loves children and wants to be a mother. As a current pregnant woman
PREGNANCY IS DIFFICULT AF!!
u dont sleep, u cant always eat, everything makes u nauseous, i cant sleep without getting heartburn in the middle of the fucking night, my feet swell up i cant use my hands properly because they swell up, u have backpain, side pain fucking round ligament pain. And u get fat and verrrrry emotional!
U cannot do all of THIS ⬆️ without actually being happy ur carrying this little bundle. I love my daughter i wanted her, her father wanted her. But I've had a difficult pregnancy and the birthing process is scary and u can't just dip out after they are born.
Post partum depression is a heavy fucking thing my cousin went through as she didn't really want to keep the baby but her bf was so excited she didn't wanna lose him.. bfs a single dad now. She couldn't handle being a mom because she didn't want to be one in the first place!
Don't traumatize a whole child because of selfish reasons. It's completely okay to not want kids and its completely okay to want them! But if yall have opposite views ur gonna be terrible fucking parents.
I wouldn't have wanted a mom i cld tell never wanted me. Already had a dad like that. Being that kid.. isn't fun.
I dont care how much u care about her, how much u love her or feel connected to her. If u two have different values and lifegoals get rid rn before u drag kids into this mess i beg of u.
For full clarity, It's been made clear by OP in the comments that the images got pornographic and were encouraged by (and the idea of) the photographer. Sounds less than pure, from a subjective lens.
It's not just nudity in this situation that's causing the complications.
Yeah tell her – she doesn’t deserve to be at home getting mugged off by this absolute shit stain of a human being.
And as for your gf, honestly she should be an ex by now. That ship sailed a long time ago.
It’s kind of why I tell people not to take a break, but do a break up. Because usually something like this happens. And a lot of times it and the relationship.
Also, not a fan of long distance relationships. There are people that do them temporary leave for very specific things and take great care and making sure the relationship is all right. But for general dating it’s really difficult and it doesn’t work out a lot of times.
I would wait until you guys decide to get back together. In all honesty, I would probably tell him. Which may cause a permanent break up. But you’ll know where you stand and you’ll be able to move on without it and it’s better than that heavy load your caring. Until you get back together or if you get back together, leave it alone it’s not an issue tonight.
This bugs the shit out of me. Not only did she not share the fact she had an sti, but she acted like it was no big deal. Men rarely have symptoms from most types of HPV, but they can pass it on to any woman they are with. I don’t know about most people, but giving someone a sti that can cause cervical cancer sounds terrible. It would make me extremely scared of having sex with anyone because I don’t want to pass it along to anyone else AND, as a man, you will never even know if you have the disease! There are no tests for it (or there weren’t about 20 years ago). That’s a fucked up thing to do and say to someone that you might have given a disease to.
Well, that's fair, but if that's the case, you still have to do some digging, because what you're doing isn't unreasonable. Was he expecting you to not masturbate until he gets back? Is he not masturbating until he gets back? Did the two of you discuss these things ahead of time? He's allowed to feel whatever he feels, but it's also on him to recognize when his expectations are unrealistic, and to accept that, as such, they may not come true.
You asked for advice. You are with a rapist. You stated you woke up to him having sex with you. Dude is preoccupied with sex – OF, porn, taking pics after you said no. You would be a fool to stay with him.
This is something you two should have talked about a looong time before now. Youre relationship is doomed now, youve both wasted this time
If she didn’t have one would you guys have had to pay money to park?
You try finding out your ex of 10 years is banging her cousin less than a month after you separated without getting completely wasted
Yeah, she’s starting an emotional affair right in front of you and telling you that she has no intention of stopping.
But this:
I also noticed that she had sent a gym picture to him, the pictures i typically get and she saved a shirtless photo of him that he sent to her.
This crosses boundaries. She’s being inappropriate with him and she knows it.
Coupled with the fact that you said that your sex life has “coincidentally” suffered the last few months, which is no doubt due to the fact that she’s so far into him that she’s losing attraction to you.
You don’t need therapy to figure out how to cope with this. You may need therapy to figure out how to more firmly assert boundaries.
I think you need to tell her that she’s giving this new guy way too much attention, she’s connected to him like a new boyfriend, she’s acting inappropriately with him and it’s evident that this is more than just a friend based on how much more involved she is with him than with other male friends. I’d definitely bring up the pictures thing, and the fact that your sex life has suffered due to her being enamored with this guy and neglecting your relationship.
Tell her she needs to drop this “friend” before it gets any more inappropriate, or you walk out of the relationship. Also, she is the one who needs therapy so she can figure out how to not start an affair and not gaslight her partner.
I had to actually look up what scat meant, it is shocking. Maybe she just didn’t realize this was a type porn people can watch, I had no idea. And if she did know about it, maybe she thought you would never take part in it. Has she seen any other videos? It’s one thing to know about your past, it’s another to actually see it. And I mean it must have been shocking to see you in this type of porn. I don’t think you can ever unsee that type of image, especially if it’s your husband.Plus you lied by omission, I totally get why, but still to learn about on her own. She p’s got a lot to process, she’s probably in a little bit of shock. Maybe after a few days she will calm down enough that you can talk about how to move forward
This is so gross. It’s not your job to make sure he respects other women. Staring is creepy and can at times count for harassment. Yes, men and women find other people attractive it’s natural. It’s fine to acknowledge another person when looking in their general direction, but going out of their way to stare at the attractive person is a huge violation. I would literally dump him. Sounds like he’s going to uncover a lot more red flags in the future. And a lot more jobs for you lol.
He sounds like a garbage human being, genuine question, why are you with this old man?
Ok let’s give her the benefit of the doubt, she wants him to find someone to have sex with once.
You would have liked to be included, but you weren't and you let him know it bothered you. This seems like a normal reaction, since in the past he's been excited to share ideas and plans leading up to it and this time it was just a statement of this is happening.
It doesn't seem like you're upset about the tattoo, just the fact you weren't included in the way you were accustomed to. And frankly I would be hurt by that too.
If he doesn't get how that would upset you, there may be more to talk about as to how you communicate within your relationship.
Or other issues. I can pass out or throw up from the pain but have no endo whatsoever. No PCOS either. I'm just generally fucked or so it seems. Ah how I wish to yeetus the uterus.
Thank you for sharing your experience. Unfortunately sole home ownership is not possible.
This person is giving you terrible advice.
To a predator like that you are an obstacle not a deterrent.
Encouraging her to meet and coming too is still enabling him to get his foot in the door. He will act super nice, unthreatening, and she will think now she “knows” him it is safe to see him without you next time.
Stop cooking for him. Stop buying groceries for him. Stop paying for takeout if you don’t want takeout.
Only buy groceries for yourself and only cook for yourself. If he wants you to cook for him, then he has to cook for you too.
If he’s going to get all pissy about this, then break up. He’s been getting away with this unfair division of labour/expenses for too long and it’s time to stand your ground.
If he doesn’t know how to cook, there are a million and 1 step-by-step recipes, YouTube videos, subscription meal boxes, classes, etc. that he can use. He’s more than old enough to teach himself this basic life skill.
Tell everyone you want them to bring their family’s favorite/granny’s secret recipe. Write it out or print it from the computer. Tell them to write down their best memory of cooking or eating it. You’ll have a wedding cookbook and your guests will have spent nothing but a bit of their time. P.S. You’re still a pretentious butthead.
We have adhd and we hate dishes! I think we should all come with housekeepers, it would take so much pressure off of our partners!
Op said she’d been saving for 5 years….but it doesn’t sound like she’s chipping in since her concern is using the whole $300,000. Unless she may have meant her share and his plus his brothers house. My advise would be to not borrow twice buying a home, also to buy a house based on one income, not two. Because jobs can be shaky, especially in todays world. Unless you are planning on a cash purchase of a house.
Couples counseling if ur not getting thru to him & have voiced ur need b4.
Not that careful apparently
Ah the rosetinted glasses are coming off and you are starting to see the red flags.
Yeah no OP I think you can do better than this guy.
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Bit sus. Wait and see.
Wait, he claims you're immature but yet, he managed to marry you and have babies with you.
Geez. Guys like this, man. What did they have that women would marry men like this?
My guess is he was flirting with the nurse like a single man, that's why she handed him her number. If your husband was not entertaining her, no number will be exchanged.
And no, it's not appropriate. And he didn't even answer you, if you asked him what would he think if the situation is flipped.
This is the thing….once we became mothers, most of us got stuck with the kids at home. We're really at the 'mercy' of these AHs who treat the mothers of their children like a burden and even spew out some r-pill BS when being confronted with the truth about how inappropriate he was being.
I wouldn't be surprised if he'd hook up with her on Monday when he goes on another trip to Oregon.
Look at yourself in a mirror.
Read the words you wrote down.
How do you on-line with yourself?
Good thing you found out before you had kids. His behavior is not good. It says everything about him and nothing about you. This can't be the first time he has behaved so badly. Threatening your marriage is a means of controlling you. He expects you to beg forgiveness. Do Not Ask For Forgiveness!!! He is Waaay out of line. Consider giving him the divorce he is asking for.
What you described isn’t a marriage, it’s a bad roommate situation with paperwork saying you will stay together. Go to a lawyer, discuss your options and pick one. You deserve happiness in your life and you will never find it with her.
As a fellow dog owner there’s two things to consider. 1. What would be the best for the dogs? You might end up crashing with friends or getting a small apartment which would make them miserable. 2. There are lots of dogs who need an owner who will love them sitting in shelters waiting for someone like you to take them home. Remember that if it works out that you can’t take them.
I don't know, man. You can reach out if you really want, because life is short, but by your own admission, you were never close and you haven't spoken in three years.
If you do reach out, please, for the love of god, don't tell her about your “heart choosing her” and your persistent, decade-long crush from afar. Just ask her to get coffee sometime and try to be casual.
This is just a skill that will come with time. You don’t have to be perfect at it now, but work toward it. Know what you deserve
I wouldn't recommend you pursuing this even if he had a perfectly normal and stable relationship with his mother
I wouldn't say you're racist or xenophobic but I will say that you're culturally insensitive and a tad ignorant with that statement.
I know that view point is white/American centric but most cultures in the world, many children on-line with their parents even into adulthood (Koreans, Filipinos, Indians and many many more).
I wouldn't shut it out just because you grew up in a different environment.
There are pros and cons to different lifestyles.
Saying all that, I also wouldn't online with my mom with my partner because I like privacy but it's my personal choice.
I can think of a dozen ways to get pizza that don’t involve going to someone’s hotel room.
She will be in the right if he abandons his child.
Wow 1 year later and she hasn’t muttered those words? Dude, she’s not going to magically turn on a switch and love you suddenly. Real feelings don’t work like that! If it’s not natural it’s fake and 1 year is more than enough time for her to know. Time to move and stop putting yourself in a one sided love relationship.
Ummm i don’t know that i would believe him . But, it wouldn’t matter to me if he create or donated – it would be over !!
All you can do is support your gf and not get upset with her. Try to not hang out at her parents or go over if your girlfriend is ok with that. Hopefully eventually they will come around.
Just relax and try to enjoy yourself – he wouldn't have agreed to the date if he wasn't a bit interested.
Stop dropping hints and start just telling him.
So let's get this straight.
You talked about it, both agreed to it….
….then he's gone behind your back and deliberately tried to hide it…
…and when you brought up wanting to go there, he now would sooner break up with you than see it happen.
Why, pray tell, are you even with this guy?
There's nothing to say, at all, he won't pull the same stunt with other things, clearly he can't be trusted and he'd rather burn than you go there.
What's the bet that if you go work there, it's because someone will recognise him and know he's done something while there?
Call his bluff, do it, see if he leaves. If he does, you've lost nothing of value.
End the relationship.
You are both hypocrites, and your relationship will end up toxic.
He doesn’t want you to dress promiscuously, yet has no problem going to places where women are dressed who he doesn’t want you to be dressed.
And you don’t want him to go to places like that and look at other girls, yet you have no problem being dressed how they are and having other people look at you.
You both need to grow up.
Scary
Hv a conversation with your wife. Tell her all you hv written here. That you dont hv time with each other anymore and the biggest worry is you are developing a crush with your co worker. Be frank. And let her decide what action to be taken together. And stop flirting with your co worker.
Or you can fall deeper in your crush and destroy your family. Choice is yours.
Updateme!
And the fact that he's getting literal shit poop all over everything
looks like she’s already ghosted you… i would personally stop contacting her and wait for her to contact me (if that happens). but i understand not everyone thinks like i do. maybe she’s feeling guilty about it. but closure is important and all i can think of is that give it some time and then just send her a message saying how hurtful she was and how she’s thrown away a lifetime of friendship.