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Your GF sounds like me. I have the tendency to disappear for long stretches of time. But I won't break contact with my partner. She is either going through something or dealing with some big stuff. You can try to gently pry her. If it's any situation like mine, you will only grow closer.
Tell him he is single and can do whatever he wants.
Good luck I’m rooting for you
I realized it would probably come across that way lol. I tried to inject a little humor because I'm freaked out realizing that this is probably going to end in a breakup if he doesn't finally take me seriously and prove that he can change (for me AND himself). Trying to lighten the mood
This should be a green flag! Good coparenting, no toxic ex hate drama – all the green flags. You need to get over your insecurities.
Are there any friends that actually truly like her? Your friends might have a point.
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You're asking about emotional abuse when you have a raging psychopath who has committed terroristic threatening. Here's a glimpse at the future I imagine if you stay with him: “Man arrested for murder of his girlfriend.”
Get an EPO immediately.
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Ok, so you can’t live! together yet but why can’t you see each other more often? I really don’t want to be mean, it’s just strange to me.
You don't need to become their friends. She wants her friends to meet you and it's a very good thing. You should absolutely go. If you take liking to some of them you can maintain this relation while not doing it with those you don't feel like it.
Great. I tend to overthink things sometimes so I appreciate the perspective!
Your husband is not cheating on you or having an emotional affair of any kind with this babysitter. I don’t even think he is her friend, actually. I think what he told you is the truth…he stayed out talking to his buddies, was part of the reason you all arrived home later than scheduled, didn’t drive her home (even though he offered) and now is feeling intense guilt that his actions caused these results. Be there for him. He’s just a good guy. Whether he cheated emotionally in the past or not is moot, you already forgave him for that and if not, go to couples counseling. Every time he feels any emotions towards another woman doesn’t mean he’s cheating. Humans are complex beings, that’s why we stand out from all other animals on earth. But cheating? Doubt it.
Take what he said for what it is. You have no reason to feel differently. Guilt makes people act irrationally sometimes.
It sounds like your hurting and your heart is breaking from this separation. That is totally understandable, some of us have been there. Pregnancy and change of hormones is definitely affecting your mental health and this type of change in circumstances is definitely not helping you. You want to go back to the emotional and financial stability you had with your fiance because that is what you consider safe and well, you love him too. It was a dick move from your fiance's end to throw you out without making sure you had any financial assistance or back up–knowing you weren't working or had any income of your own. Again, I don't know what your mental health issues are, but like I said– omission of the truth is lying. He feels betrayed by you and he may never trust you again. The best thing you can do for your self and your baby now, is try to get a job, make sure you stay on top of your mental health treatment; whether that be medication or therapy or both. Tell him about the baby after 13 weeks (miscarriages often happen in the 1st trimester) and hopefully by then, you both can come to an agreement regarding your baby. But the truth is, how you behave post break up may determine your future relationship with him. If he sees that you aren't stable on your own, he may feel validated in ending things with you. If he sees you strong and resilient on your own, he'll figure that your mental health doesn't define you and he may be inclined to go back. Only you know your situation but remember to stay strong and dignified, no man is worth begging or degrading yourself for.
If you allow her to control you by making threats using ANOTHER MANS CHILD….you're going to throw yourself into a financial disaster while the actual father is relaxing, stress free and financial burden free while you stress yourself out to the max to spend time with his kid.
I like you. I think you seem fun, sweet, engaging and silly. I don't know about your rude ass bf. He seems to enjoy getting under your skin and then plays the victim. After he changed the subject you might as well of stopped communicating with him. As a bf he should want to talk about things that make you happy.
We have kids now but the decline happened long before. About three years in and it dropped off to near nothing. Just a heads up, we are working on year 10 now and it has not improved. If I’m not the one initiating it, it doesn’t happen. It has begun to make me feel unwanted. She swears it’s not me and that she just isn’t interested in it anymore. Good luck.
Hun you cannot change a narcissist and you can put up with and avoid dealing with it as much as you like but please remember your relationship is everything to your kids—do you want them growing up and living in the hell you are currently stuck in? Because that is the cost of staying in a relationship like this.
sigh…a tale as old as time???
These recent posts with ridiculous age gaps setting off huge karma farming red flags but I’ll bite.
However, I’m not reading any of that. Get the fuck out of this relationship. HE IS NINETEEN YEARS OLDER THAN YOU and you’re only TWENTY.
Is his name Kyle?
Don't be a homewrecking piece of garbage. Block them both and move on and try dating a girl that doesn't have a husband/boyfriend and that way you won't be ruining anyone's life. Can't stand cheaters and honestly I hope the husband finds out and kicks the crap out of you so you can hopefully learn a lesson that being a cheater makes you garbage.
Well, what makes you feel like you have no independence?
The “drinking thing” is the point though. She was so disgusted and horrified by what she did that she made an immediate, significant change in her behavior. Thinking about what I want in a life partner, I know everyone is flawed and will make mistakes, make decisions I don’t like, etc… but I have tremendous respect for your wife and I would be proud to have a partner like her.
Forth, don’t marry at 23 years old. Another step in the reckless pattern. If people want to take seriously marriage why do they hurry so much?
It may be common, though even that is surprising and disturbing, but it is absolutely not “normal”.
Alcohol issues are common. Doesn't make them ok.
I’m in a mixed race relationship. You should have stopped her the first joke she made. Regardless if you’re white no one should be making these jokes. They go both ways regardless of how people look at it.
Personally I also feel you made a great point with her and she’s just too proud to admit she fucked up. I’d see definitely bring this topic back up and clarify that you weren’t saying it to her but proposing the idea of if you did she wouldn’t appreciate it. Also make clear that these “jokes” or whatever they are need to stop especially if she gets upset if it’s the other way around and can’t handle the heat. It’s disrespectful regardless and offensive to both.
Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you lose yourself. I did the same thing in my first marriage which ended in a divorce. I would come home from work and want to release with gaming and she would yell and get mad because I didn’t want to spend it with her. She just wanted to watch something together and then just be on her phone and not be present.
She needs to be independent and you need your independence back.
I’m amazed you are not mad at her after calling your dad a sicko and making such comments about your relationship with your sister. It’s disgusting that she even dared to say such things about family caring for each other. That’s a dealbreaker to me, but the least you should do is calling her out about offending your dad like that
You said it’s temporary so figure out how to ride it out.
But the issue is if I don’t do things when I’m sick then nothing will get done. I can’t really put my life on hold just to teach him a lesson by not doing anything. And, unfortunately, people have to prepare food when sick else they won’t eat :/
Gross. Sounds like he's putting out feelers? Yuk
My advice to u is to sit down and have a real convo with him. Don't try to talk to him when he's upset and needs space, cuz that'll just make things worse. Wait until he's calm and then talk to him about how u feel and what u want. Make sure he knows that u appreciate the things he did for u, but also make sure he knows that u don't want to argue about the tip every time. If he can't afford to leave 20%, that's cool. But if it's a big issue for u, then u gotta let him know.
Just be honest with him and communicate. And try to have a good time on ur bday, cuz that's what it's all about. Good luck bro!
I was also together with a predator who “tried” to “get better”. Spoiler: he didn’t.
We were together for seven years. Looking back at that time, I know why I didn’t leave earlier, but it sucks.
Especially if he hasn’t realized that what he did was wrong, there’s no hope. Absolutely no hope. You being with him or not being with him won’t make a difference.
Me being with my ex have him a “cover” or a way to justify himself – and other women thought he was safer than he was.
My advice would be: make a plan to leave. First in secret. Only tell him when you’re actually ready to go and have all your precious things in a safe place.
Good luck!
Right but atleast with the latter its not on the child at all. Her leaving could give our daughter the feeling that she was unwanted by her mom
It's difficult to point out specifics since we don't see each other in person super consistently due to the distance, but thank you. I completely agree. Do you think it would be a good idea to bring up the naked chocolate incident or is it too late now?
How does dropping your medications improve your situation? You should resume taking your medications and return to therapy now. Delaying will only make it more difficult to recover.
I think he's pissed off that you are basically relieved and happy to be rid of him. He probably wanted you to be begging him to stay with you, and instead you're “im done” attitude is getting under his skin. He basically wants his cake and wants to eat it too. Keeping ignoring this psycho, and live! your best life.
More than a few stories out there about it happening that way. Strange that HIS name would come up.
You already DO actually HELP him pay his debt.
Do you realize that?
You covering HIS share of the cost leaves him free to spend less of his money on your couple.
And more on himself.
It's HIM who is bad with money. NOT you.
Where did all the money go that he saved at your ecpense?
When my parents wanted me to take over dinner dish duty I told them I'd prefer to cook and handle the cooking and dishes as it would literally be less work for me (not to mention better food). She was a psycho, though.
Have you talked to your wife about this? What is the childcare setup when she works from home? Is this the only time she gets where you are the primary parent on duty? I get that being at work isn't necessarily fun for you, but have you talked to your wife about burn out levels? If you don't like her choices of things to cook, are you involved with meal planning? Would she agree that your previous distribution of chores/childcare was equitable? What is she doing during the extra 10-20 hours you are working outside the home?
The fact that you two fell out of love and grew apart has no bearing. If that was the case, it’s a reason to divorce, not cheat.
Cheating is indicative of an incredibly unethical person. Whether you cheat again won’t have an effect on how people view your ethics and how you live! your life.
Do you love him kind of like a brother or cousin now? Is it guilt? ??♀️ Either way, it isn't your fault that your feelings have changed–but it is your responsibility to honor your body's clear message: if sexual contact with him nauseates you, you are done dating him.
(Would you want something having sex with you if they were nauseous afterwards? No, you wouldn't. He doesn't want the be a party to this, trust me.)
I'm sorry it's happening while some part of you says you still want this. Let it go.
There are lots of couples out there who have been together much longer than you two who give out advice, so you've gotta figure out what would make people go to you guys who have little experience than the couple who have been married for a decade.
I completely understand that. Doesn’t mean she’s not going to throw a fit and cause a major scene. And OP clearly has strong feelings for her, and didn’t want to piss her off.
Maybe you’re one of those people who could just casually hang out at a bar when the person you like has asked you to leave during their birthday celebration (that you organized), but most of us would find that situation to be awkward at the very least, and would not enjoy themselves if they stayed.
It was anything from sexless, it turned into him rather disappearing to take another “shower” with his phone. Or rather be on the phone than have sex with me. After knowing what he’s done and looked up I don’t want to be intimate, it makes me feel like I’m ugly and he doesn’t want me so how is that my fault.
This is a violation of the bro code. Such violations are often punishable by Ass kicking. However I’m not sure how it works for women.