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Room for on-line sex video chat Angel_girllovemy
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Birth Date: 1985-06-05
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Subculture: subcultureHousewives
Date: November 23, 2022
Why is she still your soon to be wife
I’ve thought that as well and that maybe he’s just a great guy, which I really appreciate about him. And definitely I agree, the kids come first always and I don’t want to mess with that! I am just afraid of problems arising due to her (according to him) manipulative behavior. I know that I don’t want to be a part of that. I have enough stressors to deal with!
These early stages of getting to know each-other are always rocky. I would recommend to start paying attention to these details more once you two have officially defined to date.
After you have gone for a couple of dates and established a more secure connection, that is the time to start paying attention to these details.
All you can do now, is present a couple days you are available and gauge his reaction to it.
This is what you must do my friend. I had this same exact shit happening to me a year ago. We have three kids together, I was paying 100% of the bills and the only one working and she still had the audacity to kick me out of “her” bed. Some women have zero respect for their partners. She’s either narcissistic or extreme abusive/manipulative or both. Your head is probably fucked. I am sorry. You will be better a year from now – if you leave now.
No one expects non-stop cleaning. That's also ridiculous. You settle into reasonable and on-line with it.
Wait you would end it with someone you could picture spending your life with over bad breath that they didn't realize they had? ?
my boyfriend is perfect in literally every other aspect
Or, he's conning you. You didn't know he was an animal abuser; now you do.
In the future there likely will be more surprises in store for you. But it won't be a surprise the next time your dog gets hit. Leave this man if you have any humanity
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I don’t know even know if wording is the problem. Any partner trying to influence what you do when they’re not around is a problem, and one that needs correcting quickly. If you give in at all, she’ll just get worse. She doesn’t even need to be told no. Just do what you want to do and let her freak out. She’ll eventually get bored when she realises it doesn’t work
I sold jewelry for a good amount of time, I’ve spent hours on end with these exact girls. I’d be willing to bet that’s how she reacts, or OP is being over dramatic about how much she talks about it.
There's a great story I'm trying to find it, posted 6-8 months ago. Similar situation as yours. The wife agreed to the test, it came back that husband was the father. She divorced him asap and within a year had found new love. The husband ruined his life for nothing. The wife said she was so glad she divorced a man that thought so little of her and his child.
You might want to think about it.
LOL dude. Get a cougar for the next one. you'll be happier.
On the bright side, you're still young and not married so no financial burden of divorce, nor children. Know your worth.
I feel like a lot of people didn't pick up on the overall point I am making here, which is appreciate and love your partner as she is.
I thought that I was being clear in that, but apparently not.
He's just joking. Or at least, he might as well be. Send him a picture of Mr. Bean.
So what is your number? Is 8 acceptable? Is 13 acceptable? Why is 14 where you draw the line but not 7?
No, she wouldn't be disappointed. She really doesn't expect anyone to fly over there for this. She would fly over here if the circumstances were reversed, but she's not expecting anyone to fly out there for this party. Maybe I should make that clear to him. I think it just feels weird to her she can't invite his family.
ughh I know it’s the right thing to do but so nude since I really love him. what if I give myself a month and if I don’t see any changes break up then? or should I just do it sooner in case i cause more problems. i really am willing to change myself :/ sorry for all the annoying questions
Probably not since they’ve only been dating 6 months. OP just has a type lol
He's emotionally abusing you. Please get out. There's nothing redeemable about that relationship.
I would tell her that if she doesn’t plan on pitching in for rent then she can’t stay, period. It’s 6 months and it sounds as if she is trying to take advantage of you, your not asking for her To even pay half.
If poisoning a dog, and feeling zero remorse or regret, isn’t too far then what is?
Honestly?
Nah you don't need to apologize. If Sarah was your friend she should be happy you ended up having a good time at the party. Block her friends numbers and move on.
If Sarah wants to talk like an adult later that is fine but there is nothing you have to apologize for when all you did was adapt to new information.
At the same time these are all assumptions made about the people he's not bonding with
We have no idea what these people are actually like outside of one group at work who like UFC
He is not only not “the right kind of personality for them.”
He is ALL they would like to be. But can't. To them he looks like “Mr. Perfect”. They don't want to be friends with one person who continually and without the slightest effort will outshine them wherever they go!
He seems smart. They are average.
He does charity and hobbies and counseling and … They barely manage job and hobby/ies.
He has an open mind. They don't seem to have.
Plus: they may feel that he is willing to stoop lower than his own level to make friends.
Which makes him look needy. Although he is just eager to befriend.
And needyness will lead to people either taken advantage of. Or being singled out and pushed back.
I understand how this is weird and painful. I have been through this also.
Do you think he was maybe traumatized by the birth, and felt like he did that to you?
And trusted a stranger….which makes him stunningly stupid or desperate to get his dick wet.
Just be happy man. You aren’t being creepy, you are a safe person to them, in the unlikely event there are people thinking you are creepy, fuck them and be happy anyways, they are not your concern.
I’m 26 and on-line at home with my parents, and am not paying rent while I go to grad school.
I do pay for my car, my phone, my school, my loans, my essentials, my groceries for the week, making my own meals, help with the upkeep of the house, brought my parents on vacation, etc. etc. and I still feel guilty not paying rent to them.
You living at home is not a problem. Especially, giving how horrifying the cost of rent is for someone potentially living alone. What IS a problem, is not stepping up to be the adult that you are. You shouldn’t need to wait for your parents to cut you off, take responsibility for yourself. I am not trying to make you feel bad and I am sorry, but your gf is right to be concerned.
I mean…you get to feel how you feel. But if you’re seriously thinking of breaking up over not being posted on social media then I think you need therapy. Seems to me your BF finally grew up and doesn’t need or want to make his relationship a damned meme.
I know I might sound stupid for my age, but is what you have said true? He does love me and is very caring for the time I have been with him
That's considered assault, where I'm from, and you can be charged for it.
She means for you to feel like shit.
I'd seriously reconsider this relationship.
You don’t move on. Stats say your relationship will be dead in a couple of year, forgiveness or not. You’ll never trust her again. Cut the bird and just move on and heal now.
Reminds me of a joke – guy sees a lovely couple and he asks the old woman how long they've been married. She said we have been married for 29 happy wonderful years. Her husband pats her on the hand and says gently, honey remember, we've been married 49 years. She says “yeah, I know”
I won't comment on the violence. Enough people already have.
Once had a gf who would “borrow” my car without asking. We got into a couple of arguments about it but I mostly just let it go until one day I was late for work because she had my car.
When she finally got back, I told her the next time I needed my car and it wasn't there I'd call the cops and report it as stolen.
If you know where it is, have a friend take you to get your car. Or just call the cops and tell them she stole it.
Then walk away from this toxic woman.
Go talk to the other mom.
You can get engaged without a ring and buy the ring overtime. In fact, if you do it in a charming way and there are all kinds of charming ways in the movies. Then you guys can get the ring. I wouldn’t let it go too long like that but it will buy you some time.
Loyalty “tests” are toxic and will inevitably end your relationship. The fact that you’re plotting and scheming makes me doubt your ability to be in a healthy relationship.
Why do you feel that you need to ask Reddit vs. talking to your boyfriend about it?
Also the bit that you both cheated on your previous partners with each other… well…
Anyway, either you communicate or let it go. Both of you sound emotionally immature and poor communicators.
“cloak and dagger stuff isn't for me.” Sir it isn't for anyone, it isn't easy but it is necessary.
Now you have no proof, empty words, and even more concerns.
I bet you still sit her down again and throw all your cards on the table and let her manipulate you emotionally. A far too common course of events, and you will be back here in a few weeks/years regretting your choices.
Look i can tell you are puting all the blame on the AP, but he didn't betray your marriage your wife did. AP being a sociopath has nothing to do with the fact that if she cheated she betrayed you, period. Your wife is an adult, she has her own free will, her actions are her own.
Your going to have to come to terms with that, no running from the reality if the situation.
I'm a terrible texter too. But I try to respond to my girlfriend within a few hours. Two days is way too long.
Ok, so I understand your situation, I was involved in something similar. The difference in mine was no romantic or physical attraction left between us, AT ALL, for years. We fought constantly, going for the jugular every time. It was just the inability to give up the safety and familiarity, I guess. And I'm about 95% sure that he's so deep in the closet that he can't admit it to himself and kept me close enough to go to holiday dinners and family functions so he wasn't asked prying questions. LMAO · TLDR The longer you leave a bandage on the more it hurts to rip it off.