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Date: November 23, 2022
Why don't you feel comfortable exactly? If I were here that would be my question. “I'm not going to do a thing we already did again but I won't tell you why” is a weird thing to say.
Today's age gap rage bait troll post.
O my god….. Your father is the most selfish person. I would never do that to my family.
I'm betting it's because it could be OPs baby or her ex husband's and she's hoping to see who the baby resembles.
Nope. There is no “space” or “time” for her to get bored, she either wants a relationship with you, or with him.
If you, then she deletes her account now, and blocks him on everything.
If him, then she leaves, packs her shit up and leaves the house.
You tell all her family and all mutual friends exactly what she has done. And there is no coming back, you file for divorce now if she chooses him.
And as for her going back to her country, fine, but again if she hasn’t chosen you before she leaves, then she doesn’t come back.
This is fucked.
So?!
I would honestly turn it around on them since this is ridiculous. Yourichi is Asian and deeply tan/darker skinned, which is a naturally occurring skin tone for Japanese people especially with indigenous descent anyway, so saying she can’t be Asian and must be black due to her skin tone is a form of colorism.
It’s good to be culturally sensitive with cosplays, but restricting only the “right” skin tone to a character is racist af.
I can't help but see how aggressive he is.
People are like “doing household chores is not a love language as per se, it's contributing, what else do you do”.
And OP is like “frick you, frick your cow, I know what I do, my wife loves when I do chores so I do a shitton, frick your questions and frick your frick”. And zero mentioning what exactly he does as some actual “love language “.
I mean, I love my seeing husband doing chores – it's hot. Is it my “love language”, whatever people oversimplified it to be? No.
But dude here is like “she's happy, shut the frick up all of you”.
Well, seems she's not that happy to try and do some steps forward for OP…
Dude. Daniel Radcliffe is 5'5″. He's one of the most attractive men ever and if I actually got a chance to date him, I so would! Peter Dinklage, an actual dwarf, has the cutest family, married to a regular sized woman. We short girls exist too, who actually want someone we can reach. I once went on a date with a guy who was 2m (I'm 163cm) and I'd have totally swiped left if he had mentioned his height in his profile. Neck pain is not nice. And there are very few people who have perfectly symmetrical faces and bodies. “beauty is in the eye of the beholder”.
There are many people who are virgins in their 30s. I know of a few. Virginity is not something to be shameful about, the world isn't like the movie American pie.
Go to therapy. Every problem has a solution because you are not the only person to have that problem. You have to want to solve it though. Change your mindset, cooperate with your therapist. Hating yourself isn't solving anything either, so at least try this other way.
Lol you make it sound like OP has the controlling say in this situation
No, ots unnecessary because you have no idea where your life will end up
It is great that you are seeing improvement with meds and therapy. Definitely keep moving in that direction.
I tend to be sensitive as well and one thing that has helped is just getting older. Also, a change in thinking. For example, you said you start thinking about him getting hurt, dying and losing him. When those thoughts start, you need to stop them from progressing to the point where you get upset. You can acknowledge it is dangerous, without going to those dark places. When those thoughts creep up, you need to 'change the channel'. When you disagree, do you feel that you aren't being heard or that he doesn't love you if he disagrees? Again, these are things that you are feeling and you need to work on why you job to those conclusions.
Again, I think it is GREAT you are doing better and it is great you acknowledge what is going on. Hopefully, your fiance can give you positive feedback that he is seeing a difference. I think the positive reinforcement will help you continue to get improve your sensitivity.
Get a license and a vehicle and Move out
Yeah, I got domestic violence vibes from this post
As someone who survived an abuser like this…. GET. OUT.
Choking is a predictor of worse to come. He's not a good man. Get out.
I dunno, maybe teach him how to win instead of just kicking his ass all the time?
This sounds like a good way for your kid to resent you.
My best friend's daughter now 21 got together with her boyfriend when they were in fifth grade, as boyfriend and girlfriend (not sexually until late highschool), so 11-12. They've been together ever since. Sometimes it just works out that way.
M25 never should have provided the second chance, M25 should break things off now
You don’t have to WANT to leave in order to leave. We all do things we don’t want to do, and we resist doing unhealthy things that we DO want to do.
You’re fucking up your kids for life. One of these days he’s going to hit one of your kids too in a drunken rage. Your son has an emotionally and physically abusive man as his male role model and he’s going to grow up to be the same way and he’s going to beat the shit out of his own spouse. You can’t control your husband’s actions, but you have 100% control over your own.
What about “don't call me a rat”? How does that work out
This is an interesting and thoughtful post. I will look for the answers. My first instinct is that you are a quality human.
it's paid directly to me, but like i mentioned there's an option to pay direct to the landlord, which my housemate refuses to allow me to setup.
Also, I always pay the landlord as soon as the money hits my account
I think the main issue is this happened when he was still a child (16 is still a child). Once the kids are grown, out of the house, go fuck the whole neighborhood. But to make a child go through that?! No, that’s being selfish and an asshole. That changes what you thought your parents marriage was, what a family is. That’s a shit tone of emotions and feelings to go through at such a young age. There are grown adults posting on Reddit all the time struggling with that topic. At the end of the day, the parents chose their poly relationships over their child. Their decision. As a consequence, said child has a right to choose what is best for him, just like his parents did.
All of the answers that you need are within yourself.
You’re financially supporting a man who refuses to communicate and doesn’t treat you very well.
How do you end it? You just do.
I would’ve stopped and told him to get out of the car.
Definitely I’m going to ask her to at least get a fan and leave door open
“Oh no baby, that’s the last two weeks of food still stuck in your teeth, ya know, being you literally never brush your teeth” (said with a “genuine“ look of concern.)
Drop boo-boo the fool and let someone else enjoy the effort you put into preparing their southern meal.
Lol reminds me of skyrim grandma.
Happy people don't break up.
You broke up for a reason – you were working on it, but it's not an overnight fix. It's going to take continuous work on your end (and maybe hers) until you two are both happy and would never want to break up again.
Question is: Are you going to be able to happily put in the work without being resentful of her kissing someone else, and is she going to be able to communicate to you in a productive way what makes her unhappy.
ITT, drug users justifying their use of mind altering substances. kinda sad IMO
but your husband is a pathetic asshole
Only pursue her if you don't care about losing your friend. You can't have both.
I feel for you. My ex husband showed all of these same red flags during my pregnancy and subsequent miscarriage. I, too, thought this was new behavior. It wasn’t. I was just so used to doing everything for him (like it sounds like you are for yours) that the ONE TIME in our relationship I needed help, he couldn’t do it. It was the only data point i needed. He’d already been a lazy, selfish man, I just couldn’t see it, and it sounds like that’s where you’re at too. The wild thing is, I’m here a year after divorce and I miss him sometimes still but I will tell you one thing- when we separated my life got easier not harder. I realized he was a child I was caring for. I hope you can find clarity and objectively, he sounds awful from an effort and empathy perspective, so you’re not crazy and you should probably leave him.
Thank you for the tip!
I do understand her side, and damn we were hanging out a lot before, which i said “probably focus on your family a bit more” My friend was miserable with his life before we actually started hanging out. A lot of people have commented about his change in attitude, and they relate it to us hanging out.
I always try to check the waters before talking to someone, and I take about 2 years (we were just plain coworkers talk back then).
I feel bad for just leaving him, i get that it is their problem, and it should be, but it started getting me involved. I just want a good friend?
Let her know the engagement will last for at least two years because getting married prior to 25 comes with an 88% chance of being divorced before you're 30.
I don’t want to be with him. I wanted to know if you can build back trust. Consensus is no. He won’t accept any condition so it’s cool. He will feel like he gets to make the choice here.
Okay I’m sorry. I’ve worked closely with this guy just a few months his behavior is not something I was prepared for. Thanks
was just about to say the same thing.
Tell her you'd like a response when you send that.
But maybe you knowing she likes them is enough? She could truly be too busy to respond, but seeing the notification is enough to make her happy, to know you're thinking of her.
On the face of it, it looks unfair that she doesn't respond, but what is she doing in the mornings? Does that make it harder for her to text than you? Or does she have roughly equal opportunity?
But there’s no risk. So that negates your entire point.
It would be more like disclosing I have IBS. It doesn’t affect them so why should I have to tell them? Like honestly.
It wouldn’t count as cheating if he were honest about it. It’s the lying that does it for me
My guy, you're going to lose her. You can build your financially security with her.
Honestly Jesus. 250k. Is she going to be a neurosurgeon?
If you're only 250k in debt starting your neurosurgery residency youre doing pretty good for yourself
I'm so sorry but you need to exit this relationship as soon as possible. This is such a wildly significant violation that I don't think it's repairable, or even should be repaired. Exit. Get out. Go.
The kids that are being victimized by him visiting those sites are in danger. Who gives a shit if HIS life is ruined!? He's ruining little girls lives by partaking in this shit! You sound a cho mo yourself.
I listen to the financial markets or news on my drives. Sometimes it's music. Mint listen to podcasts because my commute isn't long enough.
You told her she's always second place? Tf???? I've loved powerfully and lost hot too, but each love is different from the other. They are NOT in competition or a replacement. And clair is not second to anyone. You def need therapy.
Next time he gets a boner say you’re turned off because the dick is not in its natural state and you thought it was always soft
Real friends wouldn't make you feel this way. They would respect your life and your relationship.
So maybe it is time to take a step back. You aren't losing them. They're losing You.
No part of this is OK.
Seems like you'd like an opinion saying this wasn't rape, and its perfectly likely you'll return to having a great relationship.
However, the reality is that your boyfriend has shown himself to not care about your feelings, to not care about your consent, and to take what he wants from you, regardless of your wishes. He raped you. I'm not sure you're going to get the answers you want here.
Because from the outside looking in, the only option is to leave him before he gets worse. And preferably report him to the police so he ends up on a register and future partners will be able to see he's an unsafe partner.
Agreed. I'm in my late 40's, grey hair, glasses, and I got hit on while on a walk a few weeks ago, in a park while wearing a big neon pink safety vest over my exercise clothes – like the kind construction workers wear. If there was any type of clothing that was an Invisibility Cloak to prevent getting hit on, it would be a giant neon safety vest, but no.
Sis, a person can be your best friend and can be an amazing person…
BUT
If there is not sexual chemistry, if there is not a spark felt on both ends, if there is not initiative taken then its maybe not meant to be a marriage.
If you don't feel excitement about a marriage with him its time to bail. Don't get married to check a box.
Sometimes what is right for us in our early 20s is not what is right for us as we reach maturity and know more about who we are and what we want out of life. Here's an analogy. I have a closet full of clothes I never wear because I bought them and they are comfortable to me. They aren't necessarily flattering but they are comfortable. Instead of giving them away I hold onto them and then don't buy clothes that ARE flattering because I already have those items.
You are doing this with your relationship. You are holding onto something that is comfortable and known even though it is a bad fit.
Seriously, don't get married just to check the box. Its better to wait for Mr. Right than to marry Mr. Right Now and then have to deal with unraveling it later when you realize comfortable is not the same thing as happy and fulfilled.
That was actually dumb, let me edit this
In my experience, a former partner giving that less-than-bare-minimum effort was a tactic to push me away. People like that act oblivious to how they mistreat their partners, but come on, no one is that stupid. No one would think it's okay to go on a date un-showered after 9-10 hours of manual labor in construction and sewage, either.
Realized that a couple hours after making this comment. I linked it in a different thread. However I will stand by OP needing to get her priorities straight. I can’t really tell if the boyfriend is the most mature, but OP definitely has some stuff they need to sort out before they are able to have a committed relationship themselves.
thank you
Make the decision and leave.
Then ask. If you don't want to date a Christian you ask them.
But not doing so and then getting pissy is ridiculous, especially when said illness is very very easy to not pass on.
Do I also need to disclose I get colds easily ?. Way more likely to get someone sick that way. Maybe you don't want to date someone with a weak immune system, but if you don't ask it's on you. ??♀️
Like, imagine, getting mad at someone for not disclosing every little bit of info on them lmao.
Also, I got mine as a baby, so maybe refrain from 'STD', it can be sexually transmitted but it's not exclusively that way.
So you're just being irrational and emotional about the situation.
“He clearly doesn’t care about your feelings, you should break up with him.”
He told you he's not over her. What more do you need to know?
Aside from him being best friends with a racist?!? He doesn’t listen or respect you. That’s what you just said.
I don’t care about controlling my partner. He can talk to who he wants. But we always include the other, or at least consider the other – because we love each other. You sound very young, in fact I used to talk just like you. It’s not about control, it’s about respect.
There are a lot of people who no matter how drunk would never do this. Him gaslighting you and trying to handwave it should be the final nail in the coffin of this relationship. Your bf drunk raped you and doesn't care about you otherwise they'd talk about this quite differently.
You need to find out if you can both flex a little – if not, your needs/expectations might be too different long term.
It’s fair for her to want to know if something is bothering you in a timely manner and it’s fair that you need time to process what you are feeling. Have you sat down to talk about these competing needs and what could be an acceptable timeline for both of you? While ideally she would like to know in the moment…you might not have fully processed how you are feeling. Maybe you can agree to something like 5 days or a week and as long as you bring it up within that timeline she can’t ask why you didn’t bring it up sooner – it would be assumed that you brought it up as soon as you yourself proceeded your emotions.
I’m sorry I made you feel this way but I wanted you to recognize how harmful is for you continue torturing with said videos.
I’ll try a different more PG13 intent. Are you familiar with Harry Potter storyline?