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Date: November 24, 2022
He was out today and he came back really late. I invited him in my shower and when we came out, he said I haven't respected his boundaries since the beginning. It was only a few days back since I started doing it and I was startled! I tried to talk more about it but he straight up said he doesn't wanna talk about it and left to get dressed. I don't know how to bring this thing up at this point.
You asked if it’s a red flag and everybody is telling you it is. You aren’t there to fix him. Leave him and find someone who doesn’t punch walls in anger. I promise it’s notnhard
Being safe and secure in a relationship under false pretenses is a pretty crappy goal, though, because the whole thing hinges on that safety and security being based on a lack of transparency. A person shouldn't have to be in a position of being in love before being told the truth, especially when that truth can affect the rest of their life, ie children.
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This is such stupid advice.
And trying to get them to brush their teeth by dancing and making faces… this is stuff you do to motivate a toddler. It's not your job to make basic hygiene “fun” for another adult. What the hell.
Marriage doesn’t mean emotional commitment. It is purely a legal contract. I know two people who left their married spouses and didn’t even divorce them, just moved out and never bothered with the paperwork.
That's a classic nightmare: all the exes get together to analyze all the good reasons they had for leaving you.
Go to the police and get proof of your injuries. That's not ok.
It's shameful or he wouldn't be hiding it. Just because you deem cross dressing while married to someone and hiding it from them normal doesn't mean it is.
In my opinion, a good relationship is one that enhances your life and brings out the best in you. I think my boyfriend helps me be the best person I can be. Do you feel that at all with your girlfriend?
I also think good relationships need strong, honest communication which it doesn’t sound like is the case here.
He is going to kill you. What the hell is there to think about?
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Probably he heard other senior execs or c suite who were making lewd remarks towards OP and her friend at the party. They are young and should be new there, so he cautioned them.
what are you even trying to say
100% We all have them and someone people are offended with that.
No to all of those. He's a hot core gamer tho. Plays computer games every second he's awake.
She DID ignore it. You're pissed because she didn't immediately send you a fucking hard when she told you she wasn't going to do that to begin with. The audacity of you. “Feel free to ignore this unsolicited and unwanted nude! NO NOT LIKE THAT!” Get over yourself, you're a creep.
But why was she logging into her personal email on OP’s work laptop? Why was she even using that laptop?
Right? I’ve been in IT forever mostly work at home and my wife has never had access to my work computer. My latest work machine has a full-screen message about who is allowed to access it when it starts up.
Take her on a date. Dinner and maybe a play or something.
You did well. What you said to him was spot on. Who wants to be with someone who broke up with them over this? Breaking up is hot but you will be glad you moved on from this one. Keep respecting yourself and run far far away. Even if he changes his mind and wants to come back to you – do you really want to spend your life for someone with zero respect for you and your body?
So he's saying he's not keen on your darker skin?
I know that in many Asian countries that weight and commenting on it is a normal thing to do. Doesn't mean you have to put up with it.
It is normalised to comment, however there is a difference between saying “lets go to the gym and get fitter, take some awesome body shots together” and “you would look more beautiful if”. That is how people start breaking your confidence down, it is the opposite of complements and is manipulative and controlling in how the words are used.
The problem is how he said it, which gives off abusive vibes.
Healthy relationship – respect, honesty, trust, communication. – you are lacking respect here from him.
I wouldn’t trust him hon. Don’t go bare until they build that trust.
Yes, good advice, there will be a time for scorched earth but after you get things settled with a lawyer imo
I had an ex that I was driving to work everyday, usually right before my own shift. There was one day where he wasn't texting me back when I asked if he was ready as I was on my way. I pulled up and knocked on the door, called, etc. I was going to be late so I left and got a call right as I pulled up and he was yelling at me, saying I should have tried harder and went around back to knock on his window. Mind you this was in Florida and his family didn't keep up with the property. Going around back would require me to get through tall grass, bushes, thorns.. so that wasn't happening. Then he ghosted me.
Took me a few weeks to realize it's not my responsibility to make sure he gets to work. I was driving him around on my own dime. As an adult he should have set an alarm and been ready by the time I got there. She can't blame you. She clearly had a track record of not doing her job so it isn't this one instance that got her fired anyway. She needs to see a doctor about being so tired she can't even be woken up.
Honestly I don't usually jump right to considering breaking up but this will be a trend. She won't see a doctor, won't see a therapist but also won't take accountability. She's 24 years old.. if she wants to hold down a job, she needs to figure her shit out.
but how can you move on with your abuser making more children with him?
Because it doesn't matter if she had one kid or four, her previous college dreams were already over after the first kid. Might as well go all in.
I was, we split and she opened up, she wanted him
So it’s time you start charging her half for any groceries you buy and see how she reacts. It sounds like your relationship is really one sided
Thank you for your perspective, as somebody who has been through something similar.
Whichever way you decide, this is one of those things that you don’t get to judge their relationship because you weren’t really in it.
This is true. Nobody ever knows what people are like behind closed doors.
Maybe my perspective is clouded bc it's only after the info came out that she had an affair, did she start saying he was an abuser. Of course, there's loads of reasons why people don't come out about abusers, I know.
She does sometimes exaggerate stories if she thinks doing so will get her what she wants, but maybe it's not worth trying to parse through any of that.
Maybe, regardless of whether she's telling the truth or not, regardless of the affair or not, it's just one of those things where you don't get to choose the right person, you just get to choose a person. That sucks. Thank you for your thoughts.
How did you have sex for 2 years and you are only just seeing your partner’s genitals?
Why do you care? Why should this be a secret?
I hope so, I think I fell in love too soon too hot because right now it feels like my body is on fire or I’ve dissociated from my self. It just feels like I’m in a daze.. am I being dramatic? 🙁
Have some dignity and walk away. Whether you’re a side chick or a dirty little secret for some other reason doesn’t matter.
What? Is this a reasonable thought for BF? I mean, keeping the fur is a little different, but not something wildly dissimilar to ashes, and anyone who has a problem with me keeping ashes of my pets can go kick rocks. If they think I'm a serial killer in the making for that, they're truly unhinged.
Did Cindy said anything to her?
For Bob, everything is about Bob and if it isn't he'll do whatever he can to make it about Bob.
There are moments you know a relationship is over. You just had it.
Do whatever you need to end it and move on. Unless he decides to really apologize by ‘his initiative’, explain and properly talk it out. You have misjudged him for a while.
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You move on.
He might have, or not matured, but you haven’t.
It doesn’t matter how many people he slept with were broken up, as you were not together.
Regardless, you should not engage. It won’t end up well for you.
The guy was saved under a different name, and almost all messages were deleted.
C'mon, man. You're not this willfully ignorant are you? This should be the relationship-ender…but the previous cheating should've been also, and we know how that turned out. My only advice is to help yourself out here and dump her for good.
Say the sentence “No.” when he asks you to step on the scale. When he presses, you leave the room. There is literally no explanation necessary. Do not submit to his manipulations.
That’s not something her family would allow sadly. Her parents are very strict/controlling.
Yeah it's attractive people sending lewd pics of other attractive people. Sorry to break it to you
Hi, 6 months together and this is I think the 2nd time it happened. First time my father was ill.
Well good luck OP. My advice is to start dating. And bring them back to your apartment. And the next time your ex girlfriend leaves the apt, change the locks. Or don’t.
Tell her to stop telling everyone your personal financial situation and stop disrespecting you in front of your friends/acquaintances
Both of you can check the fucking pockets, holy shit and people wonder why the divorce rate is so high because couples fight over the dumbest shit.
My dad this this went to Thailand and his Thai wife ended up using him for all he had and leaving him to be a dancer in Vegas with some man she’d just she met. Fuck her
i can understand this is your first experience like this but you are damn near 30 years old taking advantage of your friends because of your inability to set boundaries. that is so disgusting and creepy OF THE BOTH OF YOU.. do you really think your friends or any of their respective partners would be comfortable knowing you are inserting them & their photos into your weird husband’s fantasies without their consent?
If only those accidental texts hadn't been typing themselves in perfect sentences while in his pocket ???
I’m I the only one who noticed OP wrote “monotonous” instead of “monogamous”? Sounds like she’s bored too.
Nah, sorry. He’s being an AH. You don’t need that in your life.
So you DON'T trust her.
If his parents punished him or otherwise reacted negatively to it when he was a child then sure. When a kid learns to hide issues from a parent the parent often sees it as a behavioral issue resolving
Weaponized incompetence. Google it and throw the whole man away.
This person is your bf in name only. You described it well: he wants all the benefits of a relationship but none of the commitment. I don’t see any sign that he’ll change.
What? Being engaged has nothing to do with wearing a ring, what am I missing here?
What is so upsetting about it for you? Also would your wife asking to be a little quieter? Not stop just try keep it down
He should of stayed with you while you finished your drink, who leaves their girlfriend alone!!?? He left, then they ditched to another bar and didnt tell you. Your the one who should be mad
It’s the mid-week, company-wide slumber party that’s weird. If this were one night on a weekend? Or if they were having some sort of multi-day event? But to have a party with so much drinking that the company is providing a hotel room for every employee? And still, seemingly, expecting them to get up the next morning and … Go To Work ?!? Whaaaaaat??
I was all for the wife attending a company event that might be networking heavy that she doesn’t want to have to worry about her husband but … BUT … there’s a whole lotta WTF kind of company is hosting this kind of party?
He's manipulating you. Please don't fall for it. Anyone who won't respect your “No” is trying to control you. Does he think you have agency to refuse to have sex whenever you don't feel like having it, or does he feel entitled to that at his will, as well?
Bf went create a group chat on LinkedIn for three of us and introduced me. I said hi and thanked his dad again for the gifts then sent him a connection request. He accepted it an hour later but didn’t say anything back in the group chat. Bf reassured me his dad is friendly he just isn’t talkative. It’s been 2 days and I can’t stop but thinking I must’ve messed something up.
He accepted the request. Isn't that what you wanted? It's not clear to me what you expected as a response. If you have questions about the industry or want an introduction or something you will have to ask.
You guys are adults. Why are you guys allowing your parents to control your relationship?
t “it was his job to make me miserable so I move out”
Goddamn dude.
If you read OPs responses she clearly states that he get her off about 80 to 90% of the time. She is only angry about the 10% when he gives up because it is taking too long.
For sure a first world issue. I didn’t realize I wasn’t allowed to ask for advice on the relationship advise channel if it was a first world problem…
No one in a committed relationship does this.
1 – she is either having some sort of an affair or she doesn’t understand boundaries.
2 – the guy isn’t your friend. No real friend would do this. A real friend would feel icky about it
Hey girl, I'm 33 and single and honestly, I'm the happiest I have been in a long time. Leave him, take some time flourish, do your own thing and enjoy your life. The right thing will come along soon
When people speak, listen dude. You're just the practical choice. If you're okay with that.. that's fine, but if not, go find the person who you're the #1 choice for because it's not her.
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