Girl no. Most abusers start their abuse during life changes, engagement, marriage, pregnancy. Please please go to couples therapy and find a different job at the very least. He can’t be in control of your ability to work. Please start a run fund that he doesn’t know about. I know it’s scary to think of the worse case but trust it’s better to prepare than wait and have nothing.
Thankyou, I appreciate what you are saying. I do think I have the right to experience some conflict but I also believe there is nothing to do about this constant reminder and she also would have preferred not having scarred. I will be able to, thankyou
I imagined myself hearing this as I read it and I would definitely be thinking “this person is trying really hot to avoid saying it looks bad.”
Best I can come up with tho (inspired by yours) is “I think I'm just not used to it yet, ask me again in a few days. What matters is if you like it.”
How about just a person? Lmao
Girl no. Most abusers start their abuse during life changes, engagement, marriage, pregnancy. Please please go to couples therapy and find a different job at the very least. He can’t be in control of your ability to work. Please start a run fund that he doesn’t know about. I know it’s scary to think of the worse case but trust it’s better to prepare than wait and have nothing.
Thankyou, I appreciate what you are saying. I do think I have the right to experience some conflict but I also believe there is nothing to do about this constant reminder and she also would have preferred not having scarred. I will be able to, thankyou