You're old enough to know you didn't want the answer to that question, but you asked him it anyway.
You have no reason to have a grudge/concern or jealousy towards your friend, she's literally had no involvement in this apart from her name being dragged up in your unwanted answer.
If there's someone to be angry at, it's your partner for not knowing how insecure this information would make you and for bringing that stupid question to the table in the first place. But you can only be angry at yourself for asking him the same question and getting the answer you didn't want.
Because they’re often projecting their behavior onto others.
How did you get 27 and 18? I thought 30 and 21 (which is still disgusting don't get me wrong) but did he mention how long they dated before marrying?
You're old enough to know you didn't want the answer to that question, but you asked him it anyway.
You have no reason to have a grudge/concern or jealousy towards your friend, she's literally had no involvement in this apart from her name being dragged up in your unwanted answer.
If there's someone to be angry at, it's your partner for not knowing how insecure this information would make you and for bringing that stupid question to the table in the first place. But you can only be angry at yourself for asking him the same question and getting the answer you didn't want.
I mean, it happens what you going to do?