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Mikayla, 22 y.o.
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Date: November 26, 2022
Mikayla, 22 y.o.
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Yeah,this guy sounds like a jerk. He sounds manipulative as fuck. There's nothing wrong with being trans, but just like not everybody can have sex with all genders, not everybody can have sex with all sexes. It sucks, but you can't help what bodies you're attracted to.
I can't imagine getting ready to have sex for the first time and suddenly the person tells you that their genitals don't match what you'd expect. I get that it isn't a first date topic, but you absolutely need to bring that up before you have sex. Talk about it in a neutral setting so everybody can think things through rather than being put on the spot.
This guy is absolutely an asshole. Nobody is entitled to somebody's attraction or body.
Correct! So long as it’s not an NFA-regulated item (like a machine gun, or a silencer) then it’s perfectly legal in the applicable states. Morally permissible is a different story. You should never buy a gun for someone.
Maybe your boyfriend read this ThrowRAflutter. If you're already to the point where you're lying to him he probably has reason to be worried, even if you don't see it yourself. BTW, I can't take credit for the following text that I copied from another post
Relationships – Slowly Drifting into Cheating
There's a misconception that cheaters behave intentionally, that they are stuck in unhappy marriages and that they are aware of their actions at all times.
That's often not the case.
It's begins with a crush, crossed boundaries, intimacy, shared secrets, a need for external validation… this all works to distance you from your spouse and you begin to invest emotionally in the other person.
The more you invest in the other person, the further you drift from your spouse. You accuse them of being controlling, not allowing you to have friends, you're defensive of your 'friendship' and protective of your 'friend'.
You now have a 'legitimate' complaint about your spouse and you vent to your friend. They do the same in return. The intimacy deepens. You start hiding your interactions.
You still believe you won't cheat because you're not a cheater.
But now you're torn. You feel deeply for your friend and are irritable and cold at home. Your spouse is demanding time and attention you don't have the emotional capacity for. Your friend provides an escape from the problems you've created.
You start doubting your love for your spouse. After all, you're never happy with them anymore and only your friend truly understands you. Is that really love? Did you ever truly love them?
You look for chinks in your relationship to justify your feelings and your behaviour. You look for reasons to justify your choices. You begin to devalue your spouse and what they do for you.
Some of your feelings may be legitimate. There may be genuine issues and concerns and you hold on tight to them. They become your armour further isolating you from your spouse.
You begin to resent your spouse for not understanding you despite hiding yourself away. You begin to resent what you do for them. This escalates your relationship with the other person. Your emotional needs are now being met outside of your marriage.
You struggle with how you feel and eventually admit your feelings to your friend and are exhilarated when feelings are returned. The emotional affair is ripe to become physical.
Your spouse confronts you with their doubts and you initially deny. When you do finally confess, you tell them you didn't go looking for this. Feelings just developed. You didn't mean to hurt them. It just happened.
You reassure your spouse you still love them. You're just not sure if you're in love with them anymore. How can you be when you're in love with someone else?
And the scary thing? The cheater doesn't realise what they're doing and by the time they do, it's too late and they're already in the middle of an emotional affair. They're in deep without understanding how they got there.
It's why boundaries are so important in relationships. Nothing is infallible.
My mom made us late like this to everythung as a child. Now I can’t have plans without being at least half an hour early. If I have plans at 3, for example… I physically cant do anything else but think about that plan and get ready for it all day, then I’m ready early and tired of waiting so I just go. Even my weed man knows if I say I’ll meet him at 3, he shows up at 2:45 bc he knows I’ll be there waiting lol