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Date: November 29, 2022
Ash&Misty69, y.o.
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If you were off the rails and suicidal…you can't expect the two people emotionally invested in taking care of you to explain every nuance of conversation. I'll bet there were at least ten issues they were discussing relating to you that day…and it's not the only day you were in crisis. She clearly cares for you and deserves some grace. You all made it through the rough bit! It'd be terrible to ghost her now.
So would you say I should check in with her again if she doesn't reply on her own at some point or not? From what she was telling me she is back at uni/work and also getting help, I just fear that she may feel so much time has passed she wouldn't be comfortable messaging me even if she wanted to I guess? Maybe that sounds stupid
I'm just feeling really confused because although she wasn't saying much, she still spoke to me a few times a week and she seemed to like it when I talked to her, but then randomly going missing for a month has me not knowing what to feel anymore, I can see she has been online quite a few times at least so presumably she is ok at least
OP I'm so sorry but I don't think they will ever understand. They did this in a way that was certain to backfire, from the timing after your mom died, to the insistence at taking on the mom role of a 14 year old, to disguising their engagement as a gift for you, to trying to erase your mom. It's like they sat down and said “How can we make sure OP never accepts our relationship?”
The only thing I can think is to meet with your dad alone and ask him to really listen to you and not react then tell him the whole story. Ask how he would've felt if it was his parents. Ask if he really believes he did everything the best way.
Now I don't fault your dad for moving on. I do fault him for the way he did it.