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Date: November 30, 2022
Mia Lovee, y.o.
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Kind of think you both put yourselves in an unsafe situation. I get you wanted to go to a specific event in a neighborhood you knew was unsafe but bar hopping afterwards? You were pushing it.
Thank you so much for your kind words, I didn't think this post would get much attention none the less from someone who actually knew what I was talking about. The situation is absolutely killing me and I really don't want to do this. I keep trying to find reasons not to do it, but it hurts right now to say that my gut actually says leaving is the best choice. I'm afraid of what may happen to them psychologically being alone with this condition if I leave. She doesn't have many friends unfortunately. I'll have to come up with a time and place to end this. I certainly am not going to hold this above her head like an ultimatum, but maybe she'll change their mind when I say I want to leave.
I think you're experiencing something called the Sunk-Cost fallacy.
It's where a person is reluctant to give up on something because they have invested a lot of time into it. It can be for anything, not just relationships.
Anyway, that is a BS excuse and I wouldn't accept it. The “oh I'm so impulsive, it was a mistake, or I hate myself so much” are just meant to break down your guard and make you pity him. It is a classic abusive tactic that doesn't just go away on its own. You aren't pathetic for this, and I've been in your shoes before. But you really need to ask yourself if this is the kind of relationship you actually want. A good relationship shouldn't have to be a struggle like this.
Let me guess. You're a woman aren't you. Must be nice to not ever have to worry about being accused of being inappropriate with your daughter.
Men are judged harshly when it comes to these things. All it takes is foe his daughter to mention daddy and I took a bath together and the shit show begins.
find me a boys' group that does not objectify women. find me a boys' group that doesnt have porn. find me a boys' group that doesnt trash talk and i will show you liars. OP is a control freak. you say to refuse to be a controlling GF yet you wanna control. how is he your best friend when you cant trust him when he wants you to trust him? you guys clearly have a communication problem yet you say hes your best friend? what kinda best friends have a communications problem? do you even understand what best friends mean?
“I quickly joined his friendgroup, 8ppl M20, being the only girl there. We all spent lots of time together, had sleepovers, parties etc. They all tried to push us together from the start but i ended up feeling pressured and decided to call it quits….” you had no problems with them when you spent all that time together as a group. they only trash talked you after you left the group and did not get on with their friend. this is what guys do. we hate the girl who rejects our friend. some people do nothing about, some trash talk but everyone does this for their friend.
I see people like this all the time on this subreddit: they post, they want validation, but instead they get a ton of answers telling them what they don’t want to hear, so they keep asking, again and again.
It’s an emotional response they’re having, and facts usually won’t sway them. No doubt they have people in RL telling them the same things. All one can really do is just be amused at them and know that they’ll just have to deal with the consequences of their inaction.
If she’s worried about pregnancy she can get the shot or UID that lasts for 3 months at a time or more. Plus condoms, if she really wants the extra protection.
Update: he doesn’t want to talk about it
It sounds to me like you either got drugged or experienced alcohol induced psychosis. In both cases though it’s rare that you remember as much as you’re describing. I’m leaning towards the latter though. Probably speaking to a doctor would be my suggestion and looking into the alcohol induced psychosis to see if that fits your experience
I'm really sorry this is happening to you. Unfortunately now he's convinced you've been unfaithful to him, the only thing you can do is pack up your stuff and in with a friend, sibling, parent – or ask him to leave. Then tell him he'll get his paternity test but inform him it'll arrive with divorce papers. Contact divorce lawyers to make that happen. And then focus on the rest of the pregnancy and staying as stress-free as you can.
As soon as he gets results of the paternity test he's going to be coming back to very apologetic, asking you to forget this whole thing and begging for his family back so be prepared for that. But realistically, he heard how you behaved in your previous relationship. Either is perfectly aligned with how you behave with him, so his fears were justified. Or he listened to a tale from your ex and despite that not adding up with how the women he married behaves decided to blow up your marriage instead of trying to talk to you about what he'd heard. Presumably if he'd spoken to you you'd have been honest about your past and owned up to how much you changed into a person who would never behave that, which was who you were when you two started dating.
Idk if I would have a baby with her, if she’s willing to destroy your self esteem what will she do to the baby? What if they’re special needs?
Just walk away, I get the wanting revenge, but it’s going to be shared with innocents. If you had a full blown relationship, the wife knows on some level what’s going on and is going along with it for whatever reason.
If you put it in her face you force her to address a reality she has chosen not to. I would guess the reason is because of the kids.
Okay so say it was from a girl ages ago….. why was it hanging on his door and why did he lie?
Don’t date people you work with
You can't cheat on people if you aren't dating them.
What happened in those conversations? In your post, you say you were like Wait What? Well???? What did you actually say to them? What was their response? How did you react to that? Based on your telling of the story, they think you're in a relationship because you straight up didn't correct them when the subject came up.
Look, they're just going to be disappointed, there is simply no way you set the record straight without upsetting people. It's their misunderstanding that they think you're a couple – but it sounds like you've held back in the moments that they explicitly needed to hear you aren't a couple.
These aren't going to be the most difficult conversations of your life, consider this a growing moment for everyone.
Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you lose yourself. I did the same thing in my first marriage which ended in a divorce. I would come home from work and want to release with gaming and she would yell and get mad because I didn’t want to spend it with her. She just wanted to watch something together and then just be on her phone and not be present.
She needs to be independent and you need your independence back.
Yeah I wouldn’t
I don’t need your permission
Grow the fuck up
You’re more concerned about some grumpy stranger THAN YOUR FIANCE WHO YOURE SPENDING A LIFE WITH???
YOU are the one who ruined the proposal. No one else.
Who cares. Tell him to stay out of your room if it make him uncomfortable.
Crap. Cause you're right.
This one little facet has shattered all the other broken facets to smithereens. It's literally the straw that broke the camel's back, or very much seems to be.
And yes, I'm his manager and we work in an industry that's still very much an “old boys club”. Female employees wear OF shirts to work, guys wear Trulieve shirts. There is 700 of us. I appreciate you having the understanding that nothing is a one size fits all when it comes to people.
Get your money back and go back to your family and dogs. This guy will make you even more miserable as time goes by. Tell him to sell something if he has to do so. This guy is all about himself.
Some things can't be taken back and will damage relationships permanently. Saying you want to kill your spouse even jokingly is insanely off-putting, but when you were not it's even more sickening. I don't know if there is any going back from that
This sounds toxic as fuck. Dude for you and your daughter's health, you gotta end this and get to a safe place. There's no coming back from this one. Your family is right. Sorry man.
Don’t take this the wrong way but get some help. This is an unhealthy obsession now, he’s not perfect. He’s some normal dude who eats, shits, and bleeds like everyone else
No porn, no masturbation, make sure his condoms fit properly
“The dildo of consequences rarely arrives lubed.”
I actually made a huge mistake. I suppressed my anger when I found out about her infidelity. It has fuelled my depression. Sometimes, I fantasize about telling her to her face what I think of her and what she did to me.
It seems to me there are unresolved issues steming from her actions that were never addressed. And I'm left all alone to deal with them.
My psychologist just told me to think about other things when the thought of her enters my mind. My psychiatrist told me to mourn that relationship and to move forward. She gave me medications which, apart from making me look puffy, did not help much.
I don't want to go back. I want to move forward. But it feels like a ton of chains is attached to my legs.
I need strategies/techniques to get a grasp on my thoughts.
The only time that's acceptable is when someone is saying it about themselves and then goes on to describe that they have red hair and curves in all the right places, ie a different sort of fanfiction
Man that’s cold. Poor guy.
You deserve your family for dumping him over that.
Yes, maybe I could. At least some of the time. It's just a bit sad too because I like spending time with my MIL and my boyfriend too of course. I'm a bit worried that my boyfriend might feel neglected or just disappointed too. But I guess some of the time this should help. Thanks!
You assaulted her and then refused to let go until she surrendered KNOWING she was terrified. The LEAST you deserve are some fucking scratches.
Lazy entitled MOFO. Get rid.
If he keeps extending his stay and doesn’t invite you to visit isn’t a good sign for a healthy relationship. I’m really sorry.
Take time, look into some therapy for you both, even if it’s just to learn some coping skills and how to realise and deal with things when they pop up.
Your lives will never be the same, but if you take the time, talk with your wife, talk to a professional and learn to enjoy the miracle that is your little one it can be a good change.
I wish therapy was more common when my parents had me – I was 5 week premature, and at that time it was straight into an incubator, neither of my parents even held me for over a week. And I’m just now coming to realise how much stress and depression and everything else they both still have over it 40 odd years later.
The 2 of you need therapy, and not thru the church!
You need to learn to talk to each other.