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Date: December 1, 2022
Iren Wagner, 24 y.o.
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Why act like it’s so special it’s only date nights – how you feeling about bday blow jobs yourself ? Not giving blow jobs on none bdays isn’t complacent either but what tone does it set
Do you know when it happened?
It sure sounds like she got drunk. Her saying she was blacking out sounds like setting up an excuse for not knowing what was going on. It sounds like he admitted to something. Ask him wtf “just happened” meant. If he's not clear, straight up ask him if they fooled around. Hopefully nothing happened but from what you've said, it sounds likely something did.
That's not true at all. Women on reddit often talk about having a boundary that their SO can't watch porn. That is a boundary set on another person and yet it is always referred to as a boundary.
This is so deeply fucked up. You need to tell your brother and also her therapist. Consider that she kept this from her therapist from fear of judgement, but shared it with you. That means she thinks you'll be ok with it.
I would also get yourself into therapy because you have a very unhealthy family dynamic going on here.
But it IS serious. You said no several times and he forced himself on you. You aren’t “getting him in trouble” he MADE that trouble by forcing you after you had already said no.
It’s over for him whether you want it or not. The sooner you realize the sooner you can move on.
This is a boundary. Enforce it, but you can’t control his reaction and how he handles the situation. If he’s unwilling to budge, you will be at an impasse. His reaction to punish you by cutting off PIV sex is going to create resentment on both sides if you stay in this situation. I don’t really think there’s a solution; you either agree to use condoms or don’t. And is he really okay with not having PIV with you? Keep the communication open and honest while you discuss things and feelings.
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These things need to be mutually consented too. If you can move on, move on. If you can't then don't.
He will not get better until he's forced to get better. You are trying to help and support him, but he's taking advantage of you and you are only continuing to enable his poor behavior.
You need to communicate with him and the boundaries need to get firmer and firmer the more he fails to meet them. You may feel like you are being a bitch/asshole, but trust me it's far better to be an asshole than to get stuck raising an adult child.
You’re not in the same life phase — you are 10 years removed from high school. You’ve had your college experience. You’ve likely dated more. Someone 23 and up is fine, they’re more likely to be at your level, and as you get older, age gaps become less noticeable. But in your 20’s, even 4 years can make a world of difference. Full stop: it’s super creepy for a 27 year old to date a anyone under 21. I’m a 33f, and I was once a 20 year old dating older guys who looked younger. I don’t have fond memories of any of them. If you’re having trouble relating/getting with girls closer to your age, then think very very hot about what that says about you.
I’m impressed with your strength of character. You did the exact right thing. I’m so sorry that you’re going through this.
I said “start with” for a reason.
Everything single other thing in this entire post aside… Your fiancé hasn’t spoken to you in three days because of a misunderstanding about hair and makeup during which he apparently gaslit you? That’s the biggest red flag I’ve ever seen.
Lol so not even a bachelors I’m guessing. ?
that’s it’s just a “feeling” she has
That’s bullshaite. You know that’s bullshiate, right? Otherwise, she wouldn’t have admitted that she was glad that he still had feelings for her. She fucked up, and now she’s walking it back, possibly trying to gaslight you eventually and convince you it didn’t happen.
He’s an asshole, drunk or not. I was wary when I saw the age difference but kept reading, and my heart sank to read what he had to say about it. He obviously doesn’t see you as his equal, and quite frankly, he should not have married you. As for the phone number, it’s easy to tell someone “no thanks [to a phone number], I’m married”. He didn’t do this. He took the number. He abused you. He revealed his misogynistic views about women and their value. He gaslit you into thinking you’re the one starting problems, not him. He deflects to turn the attention away from his wrongdoing.
He’s not a worthy partner.
No shit, right? Read out the “work life isn’t for me” to my husband and we both burst out laughing. Then I said to him “go forth and provide. I shall sit her and drink my vodka”
Like OP how did it get to this? You married her. Was the relationship always like this or did you see signs of this because this is just ???
Tell me more
Good q: no meds no therapy just weed and beer. SSRIs lower sex drive so yah that would be a thing.
This was a really good answer. Thanks.
I feel like answering the call was a mistake, not mentioning me was a mistake – and later to tell me, that she wasn't straight about their past either. It's simply too much, and it has damaged something in me (when I think about her)