Yeah I broke up with a guy over stuff like this. We remained friends but I can’t be with a guy who acts like this, it’s repulsive to me.
His argument was the same as yours, “I don’t know those women” “they mean nothing to me” “it was a meaningless click”. It’s still very immature and disgusting. Especially at a time when so many men are addicted to pornography. It affects the way women view their bodies and also make us dread the other side of you. The one that we don’t see that looks at women and sees only their bodies.
It’s just nasty. She doesn’t need to wait around for you to decide to change your behavior and mindset. You have already shown her that you do not consider her feelings before doing these things and have some vulgar habits.
Just because you were thoughtless when you did it doesn’t make it a “meaningless click” we always have intention behind our actions and nobody wants a partner that doesn’t think consciously before they act.
Ok, so it's not normal or acceptable in a relationship to deliberately do things that upset your partner or make them uncomfortable.. it's not cute, or funny, or affectionate. It's abusive. He deliberately makes you uncomfortable and upset. He gets pleasure from seeing you distressed. That's abuse
I'm not meaning to sound stupid but where is the rest of OP's story? All I'm seeing is the header and I have soooo many questions!
Yeah I broke up with a guy over stuff like this. We remained friends but I can’t be with a guy who acts like this, it’s repulsive to me.
His argument was the same as yours, “I don’t know those women” “they mean nothing to me” “it was a meaningless click”. It’s still very immature and disgusting. Especially at a time when so many men are addicted to pornography. It affects the way women view their bodies and also make us dread the other side of you. The one that we don’t see that looks at women and sees only their bodies.
It’s just nasty. She doesn’t need to wait around for you to decide to change your behavior and mindset. You have already shown her that you do not consider her feelings before doing these things and have some vulgar habits.
Just because you were thoughtless when you did it doesn’t make it a “meaningless click” we always have intention behind our actions and nobody wants a partner that doesn’t think consciously before they act.
Ok, so it's not normal or acceptable in a relationship to deliberately do things that upset your partner or make them uncomfortable.. it's not cute, or funny, or affectionate. It's abusive. He deliberately makes you uncomfortable and upset. He gets pleasure from seeing you distressed. That's abuse