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Date: December 6, 2022
So from a quick read through I can feel loads of resentment from you, coupled with an idea that you should put all of your needs aside, yet with the understanding that everyone needs their own mental space, which is really confusing for me to read, never mind a partner to experience.
Birth and breastfeeding can be really hot work, plus you have not mentioned anything about birth healing which in many cases can take a while to heal from depending on the type of birth and situation she ended up in.
She may also resent you for her own reasons, like suddenly being stuck feeding all the time or having leaky boobs or whatever.
I do have a question, why are you asking permission to do whatever you need to do like take an hour to yourself. What would you be doing instead of that? And why do you need her approval to shower? You are confusing as you state that you do everything and don't look after yourself as some kind of sacrifice of self thing then get angry that you feel she isn't giving you permission to look after yourself. Either choose one side or the other but don't blame her for your choices as an adult.
Please note that both parents can be affected by PPD, dads as well, especially when trying to get enough sleep with a breastfeeding baby. You need to take breaks when the child is asleep to stay sane, both of you,
Saying that though what you did was as horrible a thing as I have heard, threatening divorce shows a toxic relationship of hurting each other and couples counseling will not fix that until you understand why you are attacking her and giving her agency over you at the same time.
Have a think about the person you want to be, and also the examples of fatherhood that you want to follow, not necessarily what you may have seen or been taught, but actual functional parenting that is healthy as what you are doing isn't healthy as a parent or partner.
Lastly, when you go back to work, what do you think she is going to have to do? She will be without your help whilst you work, so think of this time like bank for when she is on her own all day.
Please also get out of the house, visit people and go for a walk together or go for a drive. This whole situation is clearly very stressful and accepting your responsibility in being so awful is first, whilst addressing your resentment and hers as well. Try to take a deep breath before reacting, and even say things like “I can see you are upset, lets calm down first and then work out what to do together to make this work for both of us”.
Yes it's morally wrong to know you're the third person in a closed relationship. You're not putting anything good into the world by being a home wrecker.
Dude, he hit you and then tried to convince you that he didn’t actually hit you. What kind of messed up mind games does he think he can get away with? Run.
This was NOT rape. He consented so she would quit bothering him. He could have easily left the room.
His girlfriend may be a bitch. She may be too forward. She may be a creep. But she’s not a rapist based on this situation.
When I was a kid my parents did not teach me to take my underwear off before putting on pjs and for going to bed, so I'd wake up in the same undies and just keep them on for a couple days. My parents did the laundry not frequently enough and I didn't have enough underwear supply to let them go to the wash everyday either. But eventually in middle school or so I learned that you go to bed without undies and I got more pairs when I was able to buy them myself, and I started doing my own laundry. It's possible she hasn't learned to change undies yet, you're both still young.
Maybe you can try subtly encouraging her to change underwear by asking if you can pick out a pair for her each day or at least a couple days. Or just ask directly about it?
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“im here running after you when my ex is crazy about me”
If she thinks that's a selling point, she can run to her other crazy about her ex. Yeah, sorry, but she's also playin' you.
She dumped you, very nastily, probably did dear-knows-what, then figured out that was worse and realized how good she'd had it with you – now she wants to make nice – while still treating you like sh*t at the same time. Yeah, that's a no … a naked no. Don't go there.
because of what she was going through
Boo hoo, might be explanation, but that's no excuse. Can't behave like a decent human being? No free pass. Get your sh*t fixed, maybe try with somebody else, but we're done – she had her chance and royally blew it – no do overs – not with you.
Someone else can volunteer to be her punching bag / doormat – you've already done too much of that for her.
Are you under the impression that he’s going to ditch his fiancé and start a relationship with a woman who is showing she has no problem cheating on her partner?
Either nothing will happen, or he’s going to try to cheat. There is no relationship here