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Date: December 7, 2022
They started hanging and going out without me. Two guys celebrated their birthday without inviting me but everyone else. We were barely speaning in the office. So pretty clear signs.
But yeah I have plans that night. Should I just tell them? Or not reply?
It's more than likely the porn. When people watch porn in excess it typically lowers the libido because the amount of dopamine that floods through your brain when watching porn and masturbating is unnaturally high compared to actual sex, which makes it more desirable than actual sex for people when they're constantly consuming it.
Do some research about how porn affects the libido and talk to him about it and see if he can cut back.
Fair enough. This make sense
My boyfriend doesn’t talk about his weight loss achievements in front of me as he knows it’s a trigger for me.
But you said this. That's a lot different then what you just expressed
Cause a friendship means you gotta be able openly flirting with people in front of your partner, repeatedly….
Imagine calling sad people manipulative. I’m pretty sure he’s the manipulative one after reading OPs comments
My guy, marriage is a trick and 99% of men are miserable being married, that’s why all those old “I hate my wife” jokes are such a hit, be single and go your own way, life is much better
You're welcome.
Okay well…Yeah. You might have to write this off then – and that might be a good idea just out of washing your hands of it all and your personal mental well being.
Yeah anything bought through the company belongs to the company, so you're out on that front. Paying you in art work was smart on the part of Dad (no taxes! no proof! maybe he's laundering money! Who knows!) and not so good for you (no actual money!).
Lots of lessons to learn here, OP. But you have the dog and you are very young. You're 26, not 62. You have plenty of time to rebuild and you'll be wiser with your money going forward.
You'll be fine OP.
I’m sorry but I hate “cheap dates” that is ridiculous that he expects you to pitch in to his families gathering. That is classless. You don’t invite someone then say it’ll be $350. He’s a world class cheapskate. Run Baby Girl!! He ain’t the one.
but it was a lie. You vented to her about being terrified of getting pregnant, how does that jibe with her saying you were planning to babytrap him?
Your life can't revolve arround one person It's not good, also he isn't your boyfriend anymore take distance because doubt is going to be there and it will make you feel bad.
I think this is a good chance to meet new people and have fun, you are quite young.
Why in the hell would she pay for your kids college? Explain this to me? Lmao
Do you not think it’s a bit ironic that someone of Italian descent shouting at a Mexican going on about how the language of America is “English not Spanish!” And talking about immigration though when they all flooded in on boats building Catholic Churches in a Protestant founded English speaking country? It doesn’t make sense.
You can give her she stays with you and never see's the man who almost lead to her life being over; or go see's him and the relationships ends. That is all you can do, and you should do.
You could also tell her if she goes, you are to go to. And the meet up is in a public place.
Do not be scared. Fact is your are. You don't want to loose her. BUT WTF you think will happen if she goes without you? Or goes period? It risks her going back to him and the BS life. Even IF he is clean, the risk of their past is to much to even chance for your own relationship to think “if I want to continue my relationship I should keep in mind that she will never be really able to say no to him if he asks.”
YES SHE CAN. You just have to give her a reason to. That reason is you. You be there if they meet, but attempt to tell her she goes you and she is done. She has to go NC with him after a single message sent that she will not meet him, doesn't want to see him, talk to him, ever get another message from him, and to leave her alone for good.
He never wanted to talk about it, he only told me because I kept talking about the past over and over and over until he explained everything to me. He said he pushed it all to the back of his mind and hadn't really thought about it until I kept asking.
What is there to fight for in court?
You are disgusting. Not only is she ten years younger than you but she is also married unhappy or not stop being vile.
I was thinking the same thing. Italians always put their pasta in the sauce, and who knows more about pasta than Italy?
I tell things my wife and she does me as well and I believe we both know not to mention it outside our house as it's only between us. He may have been of that assumption and I think letting him cool off may help.
If you don't know after 4 years then you probably should let her go so she can find someone who will be super hyped to marry her. Her biological clock is ticking.
F that drama! She wants weed she can come to you. She is only doing it because she gets away with it. I mean I could understand if she has to work early or doesn’t sleep well unless alone or has crazy landlord type situation. But you have stayed over before and if she doesn’t work till 3 pm? So what changed? Sorry that’s not a situation I would do for someone who doesn’t respect you. 3 hours trips late /weather sucks. Nah!!Stop bringing the weed, be unavailable when she calls/texts. Find someone else who wants to see you and excited to spend time together. Good luck
I went to school with step siblings who ended up dating then married with kids. He recently passed away but they were married for 25+ years. In high school it was a little odd knowing they were dating and step siblings. I was close enough to him that I asked him what his dad thought. He said he was mad at first but knew having teens the same age and opposite sex under the same roof things might happen.
It may be weird with friends and those who know you all but if you have raised him to be a good man, maybe it isn’t such a terrible thing. Now if they split up, maybe hinge could be real hard.
Maybe she doesn’t have custody of him and hasn’t wanted to say that yet and that would explain the lack of mini people things
If anything. If you want to use Nurx. I will send you money for your first month. It’s better to tackle this young
The way you are saying it makes it seem as if you can’t make progress in a relationship at all, if you try your best you can make someone regard you in a more romantic way. That’s what I mean when I say I want to make her like me, the chances of her going out with me would be higher the more she likes me. Like the chances of asking out a stranger vs someone you’ve been on dates with and have been in the talking stage with.
Move out she can take the 5 month a alone or have her ex pay the other half since shes so inclined to have him in yall lives why not the whole way make him.move in and pay the Bill's for all yall dhit he owes u
You need to stop taking ambien and it sounds like you need to talk to your husband about sexual boundaries etc and start having sex at non night times. Also you should sleep in another room cuz clearly you have 0 control of yourself on ambien. I say you cuz you’re the one with the sleeping problem not him.
You need to see a dr and a counselor and talk about your marriage.
Also 20 years of ambien is way too long find an alternative solution.
I doubt any of the above is what you want to hear I think it’s all useful tho good luck and post an update
hello! i'm going to get a lot of shit for this, i am sure, but i have some questions.
At the time, I was struggling deeply with family issues, social anxiety, etc… and I ended up passing out unresponsive at the wedding, sometime after midnight, due to excessive drinking. This is not a usual thing for me, FYI.
i want to make sure i understand this part.
so you went to a wedding with a reception that went past midnight with an open bar, drank too much, and passed out? and that was a first for you?
then your sister in law gave you shit about it…so you decided you are an alcoholic, changed your entire lifestyle, and are now sober since the event?
now SIL is inviting you to a party where there is drinking and you're aghast?
can i ask you… in all honesty, had SIL not said a thing to you or been upset with you, would you have been so naked on yourself about drinking too much that night?
do you have a family history of drinking or something? i'm not saying you should go back to drinking. being sober is healthy and awesome and good for you. i'm just picking up on some “seeking the approval of others” vibes here and it doesn't even sound like you stopped drinking for yourself, or that you recognized a pattern of behavior.
I dont really follow the majority of the commentors with this one. Its OP's big day T Swift has other concerts there wont be other graduations. Were at a college level relationship im gonna assume that marriage at some point has been thought about and hes gonna have to tell his family that his possible future wife passed this big event that the entire family is at celebrating for a concert. She wont look good to the family and she wont make him look good by being absent. Yes a concert sounds far more fun but supporting those you care about should be prioritized. If you have kids in the future is she missing the choir concert for something else. Is she missing the state game for something. Op has worked years for this she should be there supoorting hime.
first, you are NOT a “nagging wife”. everyone is aloud to voice their concerns, it’s unfortunate that when women do it it’s labeled as nagging. i think you should have a conversation with your husband about how him following and looking at these women makes you feel. everyone’s relationship is different, some couples don’t care about who your following and others do, it’s all about each individuals comfort level.
This is unusual to me. It just seems like she's hiding you from her live life.
Personally, I wouldn't stand for it, I'd tell her to add me, or take a hike.
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I would sit them both down and tell them to grow the F up. Your sister needs to see who your GF is now. It’s a fresh start for both of them. Don’t let them bad mouth each other or be rude to each other.
Good luck.
Back off? I didn’t come here for hostility. This isn’t a matter of whether or not he should be dating. He is dating and that’s his choice.
Let him honestly take the extra step and help him pack his things and call his mom to inform her he's coming back! You'll be taking away all the control and manipulation he'd throwing at you and he'll start scrambling
It’s beyond fishy, it’s disrespectful. I never understood why my previous long-term partner didn’t meet me for dinner for “closure” but it became painfully obvious down the line that the reason was that SHE had actually moved on, and likely had a new partner she respected. She should cut all contact, go gray-rock, and give you the respect you deserve. She obviously has been texting him back and forth behind your back, and made the unilateral decision to meet him without your input. If you’re not ok with that, you need to have a serious but respectful discussion about boundaries.
What could an almost 40yr old want with a 21f? There’s been some grooming happening if she seriously thought all this was okay and still plans on being around/with him since he was married.
You don’t. You dump this jackass and find an adult.
I’m sure yes
Grow a set and divorce her. Jesus Christ, this literally reads as “ I allow my wife to treat me like a doormat, what should I do ?!”
It’s okay.
You’ve taken on the mental load of two people for almost a decade and you’re understandably burnt out.
You don’t sound like you’re his partner, you sound like his full time carer (or parent). He’s an adult that’s incapable of adulting and it’s time he stood in his own two feet.
I understand where your date is coming from. Your guyfriend sounds like the embodiment of the “guy you should not worry about”. There is a case to be made that a major cut of cheating is based in such constellations.
It is very difficult to say how to proceed from here. I personally would never commit to someone who has a guyfriend that in reality is just a bonus boyfriend.
If you want to keep dating then you need hard boundaries with this guyfriend. And this boundaries will need to consider the needs of your boyfriend (what does he see as cheating or overstepping etc.)
You push him to pay that shit. Return the gaming chair or sell it. That is some irresponsible loser shit.
If all else fails, let your dad handle it.
What sensory issues lol
Then the first step would be to just ask him about it and tell him you're insecure. Especially if you act like you don't care whether or not he leaves. Either he'll tell you: 1. I'm happy, I just X or B. I'm unhappy so I want to leave.
We have a saying here: Nur sprechenden Menschen kann geholfen werden. Which translates to: You can only help people who are talking/speaking. Unless you start talking, you won't get definitive answers. You shouldn't say “If he's unhappy he can leave.” because that's putting the ball into his court, forcing him to potentially stay for the kids sake or to “play happy family” while he's miserable.
While it can be tough, is not knowing eating at you? Isn't that slow torture compared to ripping off the band aid? I hope you figure things out.
Like the jam left inside the thong?
It's sad that she's willing to out you both into considerable financial hardship over this or divorce you – which I'm surprised with is she's “that” catholic.
Frankly if my partner threatened me with divorce because I didn't want more kids yet or ever then I'd divorce. I personally don't take threats kindly. I'm not throwing myself into financial, emotional and physical hardship because they aren't able to think with common sense.
Wasn't the person who presumably planned it in advance his other parent?
There’s the answer. If it’s painful, y’all need to figure out why.
I would melt if someone did something so thoughtful and kind for me and made such an effort considering the circumstances you describe. You did nothing wrong. Your BF is an unkind, selfish ass. Is this a regular occurrence? You two might not be compatible.
I'm not a fan of giving oral. When I say I'm a pillow princess unfortunately I mean it ahaha…
Are the two friends aware of each other?
Your fine, you don't need to go further
It's interesting though, because in one comment of hers she said he used to go out clubbing himself with friends while they've been dating, and she was fine with it. So I don't understand why he isn't okay when she does it.
Yep! Sorry I don’t have a magic other solution. Just encouraging you to escape.
I’m so proud of him for opening up how he did, he don’t often talk about how things affect him, his ex was perfect until baby came along and put him down, belittled, shamed and hurt him in every way you could a man, he’s always tried, gone above and beyond for her & his son but she has gave him hell everday since they’re child was born & past year his child has manipulated into drifting away from us unfortunately, then I think this has slowly brought all that deep upset up and gave him jitters that history would repeat itself
Because poor abusive baby 🙁 he treats his gf like shit but he got embarrassed ??
Sometimes. There have been problems with his family so I don't get as involved but will visit a few times a month, sometimes he goes without me ( but that's fine with me, he usually asks me if I'm coming too and so I feel like I'm consulted on that one at least).
Church – yes I do…I'm not a Christian myself actually but I've made some good friends there and I like the social aspect of it. I also like supporting him in some of the events the church puts on.
No one this selfish can be good in bed
You have to do nothing. You're choosing to not kick her when she's down, which is admirable I suppose, but she's has made the bed she sleeping in.
Out of curiosity, what exactly is a relationship where there is no intimacy and only one side is holding up the adult responsibilities? It sounds like you have a dependent, not a girlfriend. Pick a better partner next time.
Give them the benefit of the doubt, they were clearly honing up on their chess skills.
You’re allowed to not like what she likes, but you don’t get to be a dick about it. If you aren’t going to even try to have a good time at the show let her take someone else.
I couldn't read very much of this it's too heartbreaking.
Do you think someone who genuinely loves you would threaten to kill you or to ruin you?
Do you think if someone else came to you and told you half of this you would think, hmm that sounds like a loving and healthy person to ve with?
First of all, you are clearly so self-aware and emotionally intelligent which is amazing so congrats. Your concern about how professing your feelings will affect your relationship is admirable and very thoughtful. Also, the fact that sex isn't driving your impulse is refreshing. I'm sorry you're experiencing this, and I really don't know the best way forward.
What I don't understand is in her picture she drew you and her. Did you two talk about this? Why would she draw this and show you if she didn't have some feelings toward you?
I commented “cute” under her new pic but she didnt respond. Guess it´s over