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Why don't you offer to help her while she is cooking? My fiance doesn't enjoy cooking, but I do, so I do a majority of the cooking in our home. However, he helps me by cutting stuff up for me and things like that while I'm cooking. I appreciate him making an effort to help with it. Plus, he learns more about cooking while helping, which is never a bad thing. That way, if he needs to make me food or something while I'm sick, he can. Getting takeout all the time isn't good for your health, and it isn't what I would usually want if I was feeling ill.
Well she’s going to learn very quickly how tough being a parent is and it’s going to be for life. She will understand where you are coming from but you need to set boundaries early.
This is weirdly similar to my situation down to the specific details. I wish I had some good advice for you brother but I am also at my wits end and have tried all the same approaches.
Maybe somebody will have some sage wisdom we can both benefit from.
I don't think that is true. Most states still have at-fault divorce laws on the books but people rarely go through it as the process is longer due to the back and forth on grounds and that makes it much more expensive in terms of attorney's fees. From what OP said though it probably would be a bad idea to go this route as his wife seems to have more control of the resources here.
But maybe you can understand that she wants to experience life with you… That means sharing things that may not be your thing for the sake of your partners happiness. Your birthday isn't one of those times but maybe give her more than a couple nights out a year and maybe things like this won't happen…. I could be wrong
If it weren’t for the fact that he knocked someone else up, that they are sharing locations after barely 3 months would be a significant red flag itself
Everyone there is aware that I am taken, I have absolutely no intentions getting with this other guy just because he’s coming on the trip with me. I’m not interested, I have liked the guy i’m with for two years+, i haven’t been interested in anyone else since him and I truly believe that I will be with my girl friend the entire time. If they need to go in bed together, i can sleep on the couch.
she was a bit relieved when he died
just putting this in bold to make sure OP sees it. What an awful reaction to your father dying. It says a lot about their relationship. Your poor mother!
I already moved out though
Start with contacting a lawyer. I saw one of your comments too that he has/had been away for 48 hours because he is hiding. He is a cheater and you trusted your gut. Let the gut walk you out of this marriage too and leave him.
My fault, I think I may have inadvertently responded to your post in error. So many jumping to say I'm wrong I think I got lost in the weeds. Apologies
So I don't have to worry abt her having any feelings for him anything Iike that? I'm worried that she'd want to date him
Yup, prioritize yourself and your mental health/stability because no one else will.
I'd break it off with this person.
Woman are the female species of human being. Thats not nude to understand
You'll never outrun a bad diet. You can exercise 3x a day but if you overeat/eat like shit you'll never lose weight. Tracking calories and ensuring you take in fewer than you expend is the only way to lose weight.
He raped you and he doesn't care. RUN! Consent ends when one person says no. Yes, you consented initial. As soon as he got aggressive and hurt you, you said no. No means no. And anyone can revoke consent at any time.
Him continuing after you withdrew consent IS RAPE!! He also injured you.
He does not care about you, he doesn't like you. You're a thing to be used.
You need to get out now before he does even more to you.
Okay so just to recap:
She doesn't want to go on dates unless you force her.
She doesn't clean without you asking.
She doesn't feel like sitting down and communicating with you.
She refuses to have sex with you.
…but she wants to stay in the relationship.
I'm sorry honey but it honestly sounds like she wants the convenience of a relationship without actually being in one. My advice is to spend a little time distancing yourself emotionally and work to get a clearer picture of what she wants. Then decide if that's something you also want.
Yeah. You messed up. Big time. Instead of inviting her over, as soon as she messaged you you should have gone to your fiance and asked to know what happened between them. Something like “Hey, I know you cut your mother off, and I will support your decision, but she reached out to me today asking to connect with you. I would really like to know the history between you and why you chose to cut her off if I'm going to be doing that as well. If you don't want to tell me I'll still support your decision, but as your future wife it would be easier to justify cutting her out of my life too if I knew the details. If you would like a chance to talk with her, I can help mediate if that would make you more comfortable”
But, what's done is done. If you want to repair this I would start with a sweet gesture (buy some gifts, plan a relaxing evening, etc…) and then apologize for your blunder. Make sure he knows that you feel terrible about betraying his trust. That you stand behind his decision to cut his mother out of his life and that you will have no communication with her, even if she continues to reach out. That from now on you will not be swayed by other's versions of events and that his truth is the only truth that matters to you anymore. Explain that you can clearly see that her actions during his childhood clearly had a profound effect on him and that you will never seek to invalidate or undermine that again…he is valid for not wanting his mother in his life, even if he hasn't explained those circumstances to you. Suggest going to a relationship counselor before you tie the knot so you can find a way forward together.
You told him to stop and he didn't. That's rape. He made you hurt and he made you bleed. This isnt the alcohol making him act like that, this is the alcohol showing you what you have to look forward to if you stay with him. This is not ok. Get out as soon as you can
Me and my gf get “agressive” in bed too, I even get a little more aggressive after I've been drinking. Even when I'm piss drunk I listen to her and understand when I'm being too rough or doing something she doesn't want to. What he did was not ok no matter how much he drank. Please please leave him and get to safety