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You sound like a shit lawyer Lmao
Please, talk with your friend. He probably believes you aren’t interested in him, based on your reaction. He may pull back, especially if he was interested.
Just to be clear, I am not blaming you or him. You both seem to be skirting around the topic. If you are genuinely interested in him, communicating this is important.
Choosing cuddly nude cocoa movie night for this just seems like really confusing timing.
Like, you're blowing up date night, dedicated time to affirm and celebrate your relationship, because you feel anxious and insecure about your relationship? If I were on the receiving end of that, I'd read it as “apparently being cuddly and lovey is not the way here, since that coming up seems to be what's setting her off”.
Have you ever communicated to him what exactly would be comforting to you? Because it's pretty common for men to assume that the answer to drama/problems/turmoil is to find a solution to the source of the issue, aka having an analytic conversation.
Also note that a late night walk together is all about having a chat, calming down, and getting some air. That's him offering you what he'd find comforting, because that's his best guess at what may help.
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Unless you've talked about this kind of thing specifically before, this looks like you're just not communicating your needs in a way he can understand and then getting upset that he doesn't do exactly what you want him to do.
You should 100 percent choose your cats over him.
Your husband loves and adores you. You absolutely need to tell him what you heard. Keeping this from him is just going to cause more damage in the long run because he will be upset and hurt that you didn't feel like you could talk to him when he dies finally find out. Your nasty MIL was wrong on so many levels. I hear a very strong, determined woman behind the words written. Lean on your husband and let him know. He may very well go NC but ultimately that is his choice. His first priority is you.
Leave her, don't waste your time on that toxic trash
I must admit the UK police are overall decent. I spent time in prison etc from age 16 – 21 and had a couple of run-ins with bad ones but they were mostly pretty good. I'd even go as far as to say some were really nice people.
It must be nude living in fear of arrest for stupid mistakes. At least when I was arrested it was because I deserved it.
But no op, they can't arrest you for this. Even US cops wouldn't stoop that low.
What was the argument about?
Do you trust your partner to turn down advances from drunken strangers or not?
And so the vacation won’t entail a club or bar at all? They’re just gonna stay in the room and live! off of the mini bar and complimentary Toblerone.
Because trust me, as a whomahn, there is absolutely no fun in getting hit on when it’s unwarranted. But you should know, right? That’s still not going to stop me from getting out of the house because we all deserve ?fun?
With your first boyfriend you settled, it wasn’t healthy and you weren’t happy. That’s a pattern you need to watch. With the latest guy, you thought there was a great connection but he was probably just mirroring you – some people are very skilled at making you believe you have a lot in common. If he thought there was a great connection and he wanted to be with you he would have been, so he already showed you who he is and how he thinks of you. To contact you six months later drunk at 3am is a booty call – easier than finding someone new to me this needs in a short timeframe. I’m sorry, but this is not respect and it’s not healthy. Your idea of this guy doesn’t match the reality. You need to get clear on what makes you happy outside a relationship and learn how to meet your own needs, only then will you have a healthy and fulfilling relationship with someone who makes you feel loved and wanted. This guy has not done that. Stop with the romantic ideals and deal in the facts of what someone is showing you. Actions speak louder than words. Good luck!!
When the heat has died down, wear that ring and tell the world that you are honouring your mother's legacy. It is yours to wear and never give it to anyone else.
I understand you are scared, and you need to do everything you can to push back at that feeling, not run and hide, but protect and be careful. If that means having extra security then great but don't fear him or what he can do as you can also do things.
If you are that scared of him being violent then do get something to help you stop him, if you have a restraining order then you have more power over the situation and more resources.
Try to get some support as you seem to be very scared of him and that makes me wonder what else he has done in your life. Perhaps see if there are any domestic abuse helplines or places that can advise on staying safe.
As a women also, I kind of agree. I can also imagine being so exhausted and fed up that I get on the phone and tell that girl to stop calling until later while I contemplate all the mistakes I made raising that boy and why he turned out the way he did. I’m also imagining that there is way way more to the story, or if it’s even real.
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Totally agree. Super expensive for one day, seems unnecessary.
I’m not sure I understand your latter points. Are you pro or anti-marriage? I agree with your sentiment of “why complicate things”. I don’t understand why people get married and then separate things (e.g. finances). If I were to get married, everything would be shared since that seems to be one of the main reason behind marrying someone.
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The people in her life very likely knew he existed. You are confusing social media followers with “people in her life”. Social media followers, even Facebook friends, mean NOTHING.
absolutely not I actually encourage her to do that incase some emergency happened. Unfortunately i didn’t make it very clear but she meant that i would intentionally cause harm not accidental
I think you need to ask yourself:
Why is marriage important to you? Is it it the commitment aspect? Just your own timeline? Is it marriage that you don't want to wait for or just engagement? I know couples who got engaged but have postponed the wedding for years until they felt they were financially stable enough to have the wedding/honeymoon/home they wanted. Does he know who it's important to you? If so what has he done to acknowledge that?
truly appreciate this response ?? I innerstand it’s something i’m not use to in my family house and everyones is different. i grew up only seeing that between lovers/partners which is why it came off in a way that made me feel uncomfortable and confused. definitely was not jumping to conclusions but the feeling of discomfort was there. i definitely will still consider the conversation but being very cautious with how go about it and phrase everything, thanks again i needed to hear this
Have you told him it bothers you when he does things like failing to return your call? Do you feel like you’re over him and just trying to keep the relationship going? Usually this will result in feeling angry about little things that would otherwise be forgiven. Or maybe you’re feeling like he doesn’t value you enough?
So what? So because a car breaks down again and again and again you won't say screw it I'm buying a new one or you'd rather say damn I hate cars and will be walking everywhere I want to go from now on. Mate you need to work on yourself and your attitude because it seems the problem isn't them but YOU.
A car is often necessary for survival. Counseling sessions are not.
What are you hoping to achieve by ignoring her? You've received a blessing in disguise by her confession. Now you can end this relationship and find someone who does want to start a family with you & get started. Especially as these days with medicine, freezing eggs and not having financial stability in their 20s, a lot of women are waiting until their 30s for marriage & kids. You are in the perfect position to start again and get the life & family you've always dreamed of.
You're not going to find it with the women who lied to you.
Dump him now. He isn't respecting you wanting to wait.
YTA for posting this here. This is not r/AmITheAsshole. Moral judgement requests are against the rules of this subreddit.
Well, if you want equality the situations got to be equal too.
Have any of the female hookups started shouting or resorted to violence towards the other roommates? If not, then your situations are not equal.
Yeah, we’ve kept contact and she apologized and said she didn’t mean it and doesn’t want to break up before she left. But it still hurts me, and I just don’t know what to do or how to go about the situation.
It doesn’t matter anymore
Most pharmacies will autofill prescriptions and deliver them to your door. Would that not help?
Well I hope you finish your degree because this is not a healthy relationship. Withholding affection because you aren’t keeping the house clean? Yikes.
Oh and throwing out how he pays the bills, that’s kind of a red flag.
Oh yeah and the cursing, that’s not great either.
Good luck I guess. My advice would be to tell him you’re not going to tolerate being treated like shit, but it seems based on your replies wanting to somehow make him feel better that you are OK with that.
He has a position where he works with vulnerable populations and has no excuse to not understand why this may not be appropriate, and from my experience, social workers with poor boundaries have much worse of boundaries (or a total lack of them) vs just the average person. I'm also a year older than him and there is no way in hell I'd see a 22 year old and believe they were in my age cohort, even just from talking to them and listening to the slang they use or way they phrase certain things. I'm just buying like -5% of what he says.
Move out when he's not around and text him that you're ending the relationship due to physical violence and threats. Tell your close friends and maybe parents about it and see if you can stay with someone until you find a new place. I would do this ASAP.
100%, stick to your guns, he getting mad that you haven't believed his lies and let it go yet, not because he innocent.
Just tell him it's abit odd it disappeared when you went into the bathroom and because of that I believe you have been up to something and you could of sorted this and moved on by now if you just showed me the picture.
He probably never will own up to it, so it's now up to you if you want to stay knowing in your gut he not being truthful or separate.
I'd also tell him he better start looking for another job ASAP as he is no longer allowed to travel.
100%, stick to your guns, he getting mad that you haven't believed his lies and let it go yet, not because he innocent.
Just tell him it's abit odd it disappeared when you went into the bathroom and because of that I believe you have been up to something and you could of sorted this and moved on by now if you just showed me the picture.
He probably never will own up to it, so it's now up to you if you want to stay knowing in your gut he not being truthful or separate.
I'd also tell him he better start looking for another job ASAP as he is no longer allowed to travel.
If the post is that long, you need to leave. Usually, long posts about “should I leave” are either long-winded rationalizations of horrible behavior or long lists of horrible behavior. Either way, you should leave.
Then do other things around the house to help out. Cook, clean, buy groceries. Do things you would do if you lived alone.
He's had three years of your time and child-bearing years, and that's quite enough. Say thank you, universe, got the lesson, next please. And play all the female empowerment songs you can think of, really loudly.
The level of rage in arguments is the real issue here. Punches the car? One day that’s going to be you.
Some people will want to give you a gift, it would exceedingly rude of you not to accept them.
He’s a pussy. That shit is deeply unattractive.
You can always try and make it work, figure out why he’s changed. Have nude conversations with him. It won’t matter if you make him unhappy with what you’re digging up because you’re getting divorced anyways. But yeah at this point you would be doing yourself a dis service to stay married.
She got plowed and lied to you about it. Her friends fully support her cheating on you.
Guess it’s done. Get an STI test and leave.
He didn't lie. He said he went out with one of his girl friends. You are the insecure one that went and hunted down a photo to find out which girl friend…you assumed which one when he told you and then discovered it was another…and then decided he lied.
YOU need to check yourself, fast because your insecurity is making you into the crazy girlfriend. You see it, you call yourself it. This isn't a healthy relationship and if your boyfriend knew this was how you were behaving, do you think he would want to keep dating you?
Do you think you are even ready to be dating? Honestly? You sound like you could use some time to focus on you. Get to know who you are without a guy in your life. Enjoying you. Free of drama, dating and stressing over all of gestures at OP
he's a creep run like fuck
Sheeeee definitely has bpd or some kind of personality disorder, that’s not normal
You know how in airplanes emergency brief they tell you to first put your oxygen mask before helping others? This is the same, he is sick and needs professional help. We could even excuse his lying due to addiction being an illness, BUT you have to put your oxygen mask first.
Secure your finances, your mental health, have a safe space (moving out was a good choice). Then and only then you can start to think if your love for him is worth helping him through his addiction or not.
In all honesty, if it’s been a few years and he didn’t think to ask you for help I’d wonder if that relationship was solid to begin with. If I were to feel any kind of addiction or did something I’m ashamed of, sooner or later I would ask my partner for help
He is doing it on purpose. He continues to disrespect your boundaries.
Leave a note in the kitchen, do not make me food.
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I can't answer that for you. I really do think you need to talk to a therapist about all of this.