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Not necessarily.
You can get a bachelors from a credible online school for maybe $40k or even less
I fully expect that she will snap out of it and come back to me
Don't. Maybe this if an off the cuff move based on some whim she has…. but it also may be real.
When someone says “it's over” take them at their word. Even if it hurts, and in your case, as you've written it, it really fucking hurts.
Romance and physical aren't the same thing. For whatever reason, she feels she's lost the romance. That doesn't need to be a reflection on you by the way, you could be Captain Romantic but she's not feeling that. And that's a her thing.
If you're both still in contact and it's open and amicable then by all means ask the questions you feel you need the answers for. Just be aware that she made the move and the answers may not be the ones you'd want.
If it truly is the end, the goal is acceptance. And no, you can't fix what can't be fixed and that's NOT on you.
Is it going to hurt? Fuck yeah it's going to hurt. If it didn't, then the relationship meant nothing at all and that's clearly not the case. After 5 years, it's not unreasonable to want reasons, but if they're given, you'll need to accept them.
Maybe he is gay and doesn’t know how to deal with it only thing I could come up with given that it took so long to get seggs out of him and then missionary involves being eye to eye intimate where as if you were you can close your eyes type of deal and the no oral thing is a big red flag I dunno just my opinion
Would you be okay if your girlfriend cuddles with your best friend and hold hands with him?
Time to break up. Sorry OP. But if he can't/won't respect your boundaries then he's not the guy for you. Best of luck.
Orrr, communicate and determine the reasons why she's kicking the can down the road. See if there's anything he can do to facilitate sex. Maybe start with oral or fingering, something small to build some intimacy and trust first then reassess
Also, if you can make her cum I'm sure it'll make her much more receptive and excited about the prospect
I'm just bored, I was hoping for a but if sarcastic back and forth before one of us send this message lol
Good riddance and I hope women learn from you to not take shit in the name of love.
At least be vocal and stand up and make it stop.
Salute ??
She isn't a hypocrite for having a party with alcohol.I Most people are capable of controlling themselves around booze and don't get blank out drunk at weddings. She had every right to be upset with you and she doesn't even know your sober right now. This whole post just kinda reeks of selfishness. The world doesn't revolve around you.
Personally attacking the OP and invalidating his feelings. I wonder if this can be reported to the admins.
OP's anger got the better of him true, but does that excuse the girlfriend ghosting him for 2 days due to DRUGS?????????
I think I found the real psycho.
Yea im definitely like you when it comes to “why would you jack off and not come fuck me?!” Like theres no reason or excuse to watching porn when im available ya know. But maybe he just saw it as a type of edging because he thought you were busy. I know its very hot to remember specific times my bf and i have sex but do you remember/think if yall fucked that night? If so that would be the only thing that would let me keep my mouth shut about it but otherwise i would just bring it up if its bothering you too bad. Maybe dont get into specifics if you dont want him knowing you looked at dates and stuff but for future reference you could just mention that youre down if he ever feels like watching porn while youre home. Or since youre both into anime maybe try to find one thats bearable for you to watch and could also be pleasing for him, just have it on in the background. But that takes a lot to do so its just a suggestion. My bf had a severe porn addiction when we got together and for the first 2 years together id catch him paying chicks for nudes. We almost broke up over it many times but i love porn too so sometimes ill treat him by picking some that i enjoy and let him watch while we do our thing. It hurts me for sure but i just grasp the fact that hes being pleased by me at the end of it. Lol good luck sorry for the long comment.
Dump, what's a conversation going to do? He's still the same person before and after you speak to him.
That certainly sounds quite suspicious to say the least. Time to bring it up with her methinks.
First of all, they are right. Know your worth and that you don't have to put up with this type of disrespect and if I were you I'd drop it all together and let that handle itself with no association with them at all.
and secondly, make the title of what you're explaining make sense because I lost brain cells reading this.
This man does not love you. Dumb his deadweight and go online you best life with someone else.
When he takes you back, and it will be when, he just wants you to Pick Me Dance a little longer, he will only place more demands on you.
Carry on working through your childhood trauma. On the other side of that is self worth and self respect. You’ll look back and feel ashamed you ever danced for that man’s attention.
Those who accuse the other of cheating often are projecting. If either one of you has a mother or father with brown eyes or even grandparent you kid can easily have brown eyes.
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My mom was one of the strongest women I knew. People commented on it my entire life.
Then she met my stepfather. She's… less now. Less of a person, less of a mother, less strong, less kind, less everything.
It's not our responsibility to save our mothers but many of us will try.
I failed. If you try I hope you succeed.
That would pretty much explain why she is uncomfortable.
I think its more not invited than them going by themselves that is a problem imo. But i think they also have different boundaries
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She played stabby stab with your hearty heart and now it's brokey broke. 100% don't blame you for leaving, but don't leave the door open on her or her shitty ways. Tell her you know she's cheating, it's over, block her and move on.
Sometimes you're just too far down the road not to hurt anyone… that's the real problem
I'd bet money this person also uses terms like “alpha” without any sense of irony.
Men find it attractive when their girlfriends have hobbies, interests, passions and activities that are unrelated to the relationship dynamic. Be authentically you. Obsessing over the status of your relationship is neurotic and you will become unhinged if you do not control this destructive habit.
He's being like this because he's a total asshole.
Please don't do yourself a dirty and stay with this scumbag.
Yup, family therapy for mom, wife and husband.
Right. I thought first year is supposed to be the best
I just want you to know it’s ok for you to feel whatever it is you’re feeling. You need to trust your gut. Something is off and you’re picking up on it and it’s ok for you to notice that. If you don’t like his behavior you don’t have to put up w it. If he’s not making you feel special and loved and he is making you feel compared and insulted, it’s ok for you to feel that. He seems just from this post that he’s a button pusher. Why continuously say “geico job” and then respond and describe her in this way? I’m concerned this is a form of negging and control for him. He wants you to question your behavior, whether he’s going to hate you too, and then walk on eggshells to please him. Be very careful with men (or anyone) who want you to question if you or your behavior are good enough. This can (not always) be a red flag that turns into controlling abuse very quickly.
If none of these things are true, it’s still ok to stick up for yourself when you feel anything negative. You don’t have to feel that. You don’t have to put up w bad treatment. Pay attention to what you feel and then love yourself.
So this is a common scam, as mentioned before either deep fake, or cam girl scam.
My friend had this happen to him when he was 18-19, some cam girl wanted to Skype him he was dumb ended up jacking off to the fake cam girl on Skype.
They then get the video of him go on his Facebook and tell him they’re going to show his entire family unless he pays them same circumstances as you- he didn’t pay them nothing happened.
People have suggested what to do legally and what not, but on an non legal basis.
First thing first you and your husband should deactivate your Facebook for 1-2 weeks and at minimum hide your friends list.
These scammers have zero information on a person and their life other than what they see on Facebook that’s it. Remove Facebook you remove any chance of anything being “leaked”
Has she got a sister?
I did not precipice that we’ve known each other for longer than that. I don’t want to rush marriage, more the promise of that. It’s nerve racking for me to take steps toward someone for the possibility that that’s not in the near future. I suppose that would be even more of a test to face on my part. This mentality is likely more of a sign of a product of my parents divorces. I also have siblings that I helped raise and I’m not really interested in doing that again for awhile.
See, I don’t think he understands that A) kids are expensive and B) they demand most of your time. There’s no video games until 2 AM or hanging with the guys. Those are the benefits of not having kids, and IMO he’s not going to be ready to say goodbye to those things and I’m not ready either. We travel all the time and even now with the dog, we have to figure out where he falls into the mix. I don’t think he realizes all of this, whereas I have been the caretaker of our day to day chores and, in the past, my siblings. We can’t exactly settle into the housing market as we move frequently. That’s another thing… he’s in the military and talks about moving overseas and that’s something I can follow with unless we are married. I’m a military child (how we initially met in hs and how we eventually ‘ran’ back into each other) and so I know all that goes into that. On top of that, he’s looking at starting his masters and is totally uncognicent of the fact that he is going to take on an additional $20k in debt. We did have a conversation about that and he did finally acknowledge that it would affect our potential future finances. There are many other master’s programs that he could look at that are not as expensive, but this is the ‘best’ college in his view. I’ve gone to school for free and maybe this is that piece of me talking, but it seems foolish to spend that much money on something that you could prolong (not finish in a year) and pay for out of pocket. Am I being difficult in not understanding this?
Cheating is cheating. One affair is as bad as a hundred in my eyes.
Couples counseling is not recommended in abuse situations. OP can seek solo counseling and so can her husband but not together.
Sorry, even after rereading it wasn’t exactly clear to me what you meant.
Guilty as charged, I'm a sleep groper. My wife got used to it. Getting a bigger bed helped lol, now that we're in a king it happens far less frequently.
Maybe because part of the joke is seeing who called and sending them to random addresses or meetup spots?
He likes the status quo and will say enough to keep you strung along.
You two are on separate wavelengths, and it sounds like they're different enough that I'd view it as irreconcilable.
Who I choose to associate with is no one's decision but mine.
Motherfucker, you're the one who came on here and asked everybody for advice on this. If you've made your big boy decision then don't fucking post about it
Delete your account, this is embarrassing for you
Take the trash out.
Get it tested at a lab, and make him pay for it in the divorce. Not sure which is more disgusting – the thong or his reaction.
op's a woman, you sound like a armchair social justice warrior
Is this grounds for a break up?
Yes, it's only three months in, trust your instincts
Unless you think there’s a more sinister reason for this I don’t see the problem. At a time where rights are under attack across the states more people are taking every precaution. You aren’t ready for a baby. Be happy you have a partner who is on the same page
2 is better than 1
Curious – what’s the TTL on this – exactly how long should someone wait if their SO beaks up with them?
I think it’s weird yes. But if I’m not hurting anyone what’s the deal? Two consenting adults isn’t the end of the world?
Rates of female-perpetrated violence are higher than male-perpetrated (28.3% vs. 21.6%).
No you are looking for what you want to hear.
Your bf sounds like an ass, he’s likely negging you
If that hurt your GF feelings, then she needed to have them hurt. She needs to grow up, this is nothing to get your feelings hurt. It’s not different, if my GF parents had asked me to shave for the homecoming dance photos, I would have done it without complaint- it’s not a big deal, and if it is a big deal m, that’s a bad sign.
You’re a mom. Your gut instinct is to show down because you’re feeling fear. Address it.
Every post condemning and accepting porn are all categorically anecdotes and won’t help you make the decision you feel is right.
Just talk to the guy. Tell him his pornography interest concerned you, not because of anything he’s doing wrong, but because you are a mom and protecting them is a priority. Try to understand, and don’t do anything until you feel confident in the decision.
You got this.
I'll never get married couples who don't pool their finances. You end up in your situation where one person has more disposable income than the other and it leads to resentment.
Lazy people should start working again. There is no nice way to go at it. You have to talk to her one last time!!! Whatever way you say it she is going to get angry so you have to stay cal, don't shout and at the same time be firm and put your foot down!!!
Maybe your husband is ok with that. Not everyone has to be ok with never going on the kind of adventures they want. Some people don't get around to traveling but many others do and it's important enough to them they don't let life get in the way.
Thank you! I would be happy to right now because I love being a mom but I do see myself returning to work even if it’s just part time as my baby gets older. I teach ballet and am a former ballet dancer so my career is also my passion. But my earning potential with that is only so much. In Nj where we are the cost of daycare would only be marginally less then what I can expect to make and so for that we would prefer I be the one to be with her all day. Overall I am happy with this plan but just concerned about my financial vulnerability
No judgements. I didn’t notice the year though. I thought you met a month after you were tested.
A year is a long time between tests. Since you know you didn’t cheat, you were probably positive when you met.
It seems pretty obvious to me. You need to have an honest talk about why he doesn’t trust you. You can’t have a healthy relationship with someone who doesn’t trust you.
Money is just a tool, use it. Seriously though, if she gave you it don’t give it back, but you could pay some forward, do something nice for her too, but don’t forget about you. Money doesn’t mean anything to people it has no hold over, so just use it.
The way things are going your $5000 is going to be worth 4k in about 2 months, so don’t make it more important than it deserves to be, but use it like the tool it is.
What are you supposed to do to care for her feed her applesauce. I'd kick this person out of my house you are waaaayyyy too nice to people who will only take advantage of you
You need a therapist who specializes in blended families and fast.
Your wife is being nuts and she’s going to damage this kid for her own vanity/prestige. She flat out lied!
Is she crazy about other stuff too? Because this is so out there that I was hoping it was a troll post.
OR she is holding herself back in life. She calls in all the time and wnats something soooo badly… yet hasn't put herself in a position to have it. Don't take that responsibility onto yourself. I feel you like both you and her are acting like it's all your fault. When really all you're doing is saying what's true and planning.
cough codependent t coughcough
Sounds like the lady at the bus stop, is putting distance between your husband and her. Whatever he said to her made her uncomfortable and she rather not be in that position again.
Kudos to her
You could do 2 things: Ask her what he did to make her uncomfortable (which I don’t recommend since she obviously doesn’t want to be more involved) Or I would point blank say I talked to her and now you want his pov on the situation, and see what lies he comes up with.
A lot of people seem to think it's not and totally normal, for some reason.
Is this like the Reddit version of You?
Please nope your way right out of here. This is not ok or healthy for you, his daughter, or him.
You should both try different medication. There are tons after there; no reason to put up with side effects that make you unhappy
It’s not literal. It means she doesn’t need to engage in a discussion about it. She can say no and not leave it up for discussion.
I’m of two minds about it. While living with your parents isn’t good, the other option probably isn’t good either. It’s been said that generally kids don’t remember what happened to them under 3 years old. I don’t, just vague images and abstract feelings. So chances are your child will remember none of the difficulties you are going thru. It really comes down to, can you handle it? If you’re angry or sad all the time about it, that’s something your daughter could pick up on.
If you move and struggle and are unhappy, she will be effected by that. Curious that you mention the BF in the title but not in the main story. Are you not ready to move in together? Just starting out? Would your moving away make it a LDR? Is he asking you to wait until you can move in together? Finish your schooling first? Curious as to how he fits into all this.
What changed the last couple of years about what you’re attracted to? If he hasn’t physically changed but you are seeing other men as more desirable, your tastes may have shifted a bit. Can you elaborate a little? It may be something he can address, or it may be something that he can’t.
Yes, very. Grow the fck up dude
The ring isn't a forcefield or mindcontroll device.
Are you sure? Because it seems to me that that's what he wants. 😉
Things don't match.
First: who stays online only for 6,5 years sexting, etc?
He obviously lied to you.
Next: “he blocked the girl” Uhuh.
So she found out, HE had been cheating on HER (as she met him first!). And wants to wreck havock in his life.
He only told YOU to be able to LIE to you again and prevent from proddi g deeper. Because “he had been honest without an obvious reason.”
Naaaaaaaah. I don't believe that. You shouldn't either.
Please… don't even consider “getting over that and pardoning him”.
You are like the Titanic by now… only seen the tip of the iceberg by now!
Seriously you were gone for a week and he couldn‘t help himself? BS story if I ever heard one.
I finally told them to go fuck themselves.
Proud of you, OP
I have to agree with your dad here. If no commitment is on the line, don't invest that much money in someone else's project. No matter how strong the love seems to be.
I’m still confused about what you found?
damn straight to the point haha thanks I’ll try this out
2 years ago you were 20, and now you're 24?
Dump him?
yeah, its just that, its something I wouldn't assume straight away about someone. That he was toxic and manipulative. When he first came back I thought it was very hot for him as well to break up with me and thought the feelings were mutual. But now I know he never loved me in the first place…
Why on earth did you take this man back in the first place?!? He’s a leech! He has no respect for you what so ever or your children together. You need to leave this man.
Well my son actually did ask if he should tell triton, my husband didn’t just randomly tell him to say it. When my son asked and my husband said yes next time he brings it up tell him. Though it was in the heat of the moment and he was sick of hearing about it so when he said yes he wasn’t really thinking. After cooling down and talking more we’ve all decided that my son isn’t to say anything at to him. He’s known for 2 years and has never said anything and they are actually good friends.
My husband actually has confronted the dad before several times and it’s only gotten worse since then. I should’ve clarified these points in my post.