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It’ll be tough, but imo, the place is to start is by developing awareness of your thoughts and feelings. That is, if you’re crushing on her, being able to step back and say “ah, I am pining for her and she doesn’t want me.” That self-awareness is important for adjusting your thinking and feeling. It takes practice. Some people use meditation to help grow it. Others use therapy (having someone else point out what your thinking/feeling can be a good way to practice).
Then, you can work on changing. “I’m pining for her and she doesn’t want me. If she doesn’t want me, I should stop pining. So I should think about X. I am going to think about, or do, X.” (X can be a hobby or interest, book or sports team, job or household thing.)
Do that often enough and becomes second nature, and it also helps the crush fade on its own. As long as you indulge it, it won’t go away.
How do you deal with it?
Don't give up your new career. Tell him that if he really loved you he would be happy for you. He would want you to be happy, he would be your cheer leader. He is fully capable of taking care of himself & your child. It is not your responsibility to mother him. He can support you or get out of your way.
Separate your finances, I mean, get your own checking & savings account. Make sure your paycheck goes into it. Take half of the money from your current accounts & put them in an account w/only your name on it at a different bank. Get a PO Box & have all of the mail from banks go there. Make all statements for new bank online & don't give out any information about what you are doing.
Don't let him bully you into giving up what you love to do. We all have to work, earn a living. If he isn't happy about your success then he is a bully who just wants you to be his slave.
Getting onto this thread because i said the same damn shit!
This dude is a major loser and she's been posting about him for the last what 4 months?
What exactly is she waiting for?
Or is this just gonna be another long post added to the list of her using reddit as a sounding board but not actually taking any of the advice people give her?
It could be well intentioned but clumsily worded. I do think he said it for his own sake but also tried and failed to make you feel good at the same time?
I wouldn't put too much weight on it, pretty typical sad guy bullshit