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Date: December 19, 2022
Seriously. Puppy mill pet stores should be illegal.
As a woman just over twice your age I must admit that I’m viewing this slightly differently. Whilst ‘I’d like to kiss you’ ahead of the first time is nice, ahead of every single time does seem a) exhausting and b) excessive.
Whilst your girlfriend may be experiencing anxiety I do also find her friend doing the talking questionable and I do wonder if she has said something. However you may be missing some obvious social cues that your girl friend isn’t as into kissing as you are. There is obviously something else going on that you and your girlfriend need to sort out.
I think it’s a fair assumption that once you’re in a relationship that you’re both happy with then consent for a kiss doesn’t need to be asked for on every single occasion. For example I have a ‘friend’ that has never asked permission but he does like to ‘steal a kiss’. However despite never having had that conversation he knows it’s ok. Equally I know he’d back off if I said no.
You need to have a chat about what’s happening.
Family first? Sure… but everything else is naked garbage.
There's a difference in making an ultimatum… and expecting simple respect, support and partnership.
i guess not
Exactly. She's literally telling you that you're not important to her. That's not a partner. that's not a healthy relationship. that's not a lifelong commitment to supporting you in better or worse.
That's literally her saying “My friends know our dirty secrets and because of that you aren't invited and I'm prioritizing literally everyone else over you”.
Screw that. I don't care who you are. You deserve better than that.
I am only a cheater because of her.
So now you're blaming her for your actions? Nobody can make you cheat, cheating was something you choose to do. Blaming her for your issue is Narcissist, selfish, and self-absorbed. It also shows you would rather blame her than take accountability.
I appreciate the action comment, but if I act, the kids will be in an even worse position
You don't seem to get it. They're already in a worse position because they are learning that staying in a toxic relationship is better than leaving. You are teaching them to cheat, to put up with abuse, and to blame their spouse. You don't seem to realize or understand that children are very receptive to situations like these, and in these situations is how they are molded.
Your children will have deep psychological problems for the rest of their lives if you stay, if they haven't already. They will end up in similar situations as you are now, and the only person to blame is yourself because you didn't take any action to prevent it. You're making up excuses as to why you should stay together, instead of doing something about it. You need to grow a pair of balls and just stop with the excuses.
If you care at all about your kids, then you would show them that its fine to leave a toxic environment and to be the bigger person.
That is something that I need to do. Just be blunt with her. But it’s so very hot for me to see her cry, and she knows it.
Its easy to say that but reality is that I have been with him for 4 years already and I just don’t know how to be alone. And I’m scared I will never find anyone after him.
It’s a good perspective giving her a goal to work towards but I guess moving out is big enough not to have to think about a years time potentialy moving out again “ on the clock “. Our schedules are really different so she’s an ealry riser in bed by 9am I don’t mind ealry nights but I feel most alive when it’s dark and will get up ealry if I have to . My office and guitars etc would have to be in another room / not as accessible if we moved in at this moment than if it would be in my OWN room in a share house of sorts . I think this “ not having my own space” is getting to me more than it should ? And ultimately affecting my decision a fair bit .
This reads like a chapter from Dr Shirley Glass', “Not 'Just Friends' “. The book is about how affairs start and how to prevent them.
What your wife is doing is inappropriate. While she may not be having even an emotional affair at this time, she is preparing a fertile ground for one to grow.
“The appearance of impropriety”. You just don't have someone over 1 on 1. It's bad form. Even if nothing happens, it has the appearance that something might be happening.
The fact she insisted that it be her driving the friends home and was then late returning sits poorly with me. Was there enough time for her to go inside or just for her to unzip his pants and lean over?
Sure, they just talked… (we hope), but how does it appear?
Your body, your choice. But if it’s an important enough taboo/aversion for him, he also has a choice to not remain in the relationship.
Your decision is whether your autonomy is important enough to you to risk the future of your marriage.
His behaviour can be seen as controlling, which to a lot of people would be an immediate “out of here” moment.
Equally, he might feel that he made his aversion very clear at the outset, you decided to accommodate it, and now you’re unilaterally reversing your decision.
I can see both sides and for me, it would be a nude choice. I have several tattoos and want more. My partner accepts the ones I have (already had them when we met), but doesn’t want me to get any more. I’m OK with giving up my autonomy because otherwise the relationship is good.
Sometimes people drift apart. Sometimes you find out things about people after knowing them for years that you can’t reconcile. A 24yo woman not understanding boundaries and the difference between romantic and stalkerish isn’t something you can reconcile