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There’s a book called Healing Sex (a mind body approach to healing sexual trauma) by Staci Haynes. It’s quite full on and might be a bit triggering but each chapter has activities you can do to reconnect to your body and sexuality.
Might be worth a read.
Yes, I would want to know. Tell her in an short but caring message, you wouldn't want this to happen to you either
Him deleting his account after a date I would say is a green flag. He is committed to giving your relationship all of his attention while he is in it and you immediately know that he is interested. You asking more than once is a red flag. It makes you seem untrusting and uncommitted. Your friends pushing this super unlikely agenda that it is love bombing is also a red flag to him in that from the beginning it sounds like there against him just because he is showing interest and commitment.
Make him pay child support! It is there to help your Children. Mention to the court that he is exposing not only your children to a sexual fetish he is exposing himself to other people’s children in the community. I’m sorry but no normal person would expose a child to a fetish. You keep that shit in the bedroom or you turn that shit to PG. Which he is not, he’s giving everyone rated R without their consent. I just have a special dislike for people who submit their fetishes to unwilling participants. I hope you get the house, your kids need space to be themselves to be kids and not worry about anything that has to do with sex right now.
Finding the right antidepressant is unfortunately a roller coaster, and it can take months to figure out one is working or not. Plus, a lot of doctors don’t keep up with your individual effects as they should. I was very lucky that the first thing I was put on didn’t make me robotic, just less angry. However, a lower sex drive is common, the complete robotic apathy means she probably needs a different medication.
Dude you’ve been dumped she’s looking for another dude
Tbh…that’s not obvious from this post. At all.
You should have divorced this woman years ago and you should not be considering “trying again.” Your daughter deserves better.
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Look up, do you see the red flags everywhere?!
My man, run! Do not walk, run!
Imagine if she lived until 90?
You don't have to be honest with her. Do the whole, it's not you, it's me. Can't commit blah blah. So much going on. She's great but you can't give her the time etc.
I'm glad I'm not the only person here in the comments.
Seems like everyone here is saying some version of “dump him, if he's not madly in love with you at first sight, then you're waiting for nothing.”
Thanks for sharing, it doesn't come that quickly to me either and it's nice to know there's others out there that don't fall in love over the course of a weekend.
What is your mother doing to deal with her mental health? She isn't trying to make her life independently.
If he were white, I would solidly be in the “dump and move on” camp. But since you mention that he's Indian, I would have a few follow up questions about where you on-line and whether his views have shown any evolution for better or worse. I would feel weird about what he has said, too. But I would also bear in mind the context of whatever racism he has experienced which he attributes to his skin color or race and open up a dialogue about this with him. Don't expect that he has thought this all out or can give you an easy explanation for his thinking any more than a fish can explain the water they live! in the first time they try. Of course, the point of dating is to find out more about a person. Therefore, even in the best case scenario where he is open to examining the negative comments and views he holds, if different experiences with racism, colorism and different views as a result are more than you wish to take on, I would move on.
Because they are closely related. Colorism upholds the same values at white supremacy
Mind your own business
22 year age gap! Wtf is this shit. Date people your own age not these losers
he's 45, that should've been the first red flag
Your not married so packing up and leaving while he's away would be really easy. He's untrustworthy and uncaring as a fiance and uncaring and an untrustworthy as a father. I also had a friend that called her BF a trashy drunk and left him , he didn't like that she called him that and he went and got sober. Good luck to you
Don't listen to this dumbo. This is a domestic violence issue… Contact police/lawyer.
you need to learn how to keep your mouth shut when it comes to your anxiety about him.
this kind of stuff would definitely end a relationship if it keeps going.
It’s OK to talk about your anxiety, but it’s not OK to project it onto him.
Umm, why is she approaching him in any room with a bikini? Time for you to choose it seems…
You can ask them.
Don’t listen to this. This is not a grey area. There is no saving this.
It’s much easier to simply find yourself a woman who won’t snoop through your shit, who won’t send pics of her ass to her ex. Especially since you’re so young.
Yeah, i would not want my GF to stick her hand into fire and then pick up the pieces either.
From the info in the post it really does sound like OP is a bit naive: she got better so why risk her progress by exposing herself to that person? The worst part is that OP could not even just get up and walk out if H started something again. OP would probably be stuck with these people in a different country until the return flight.
OP, if you do go, make sure to have a plan in case H and the others treat you poorly. And don't expect your BF to come for the rescue. It sounds like your bad mental health took a lot out of him. Caring for someone in a bad place is very hot.
You are responsible for yourself.
She doesn't feel you two are a package deal. Not exactly the most loving thing to say to partner.
I get people like to have alone time. We all do. But this doesn't sit well with me for a few reasons. She wants to be alone with him, and is apparently going to be staying with him for however long she's there. She doesn't want to have you around, despite your being in the same city, and is using the idea of inconveniencing him as an excuse to keep you from tagging along. It sounds like she sees you as getting in the way if you come along.
Are you sure this guy she's going off to spend alone time with is just a platonic friend? Because she's made it pretty clear that you aren't welcome when she's with him, and she has no plans on changing that stance. She doesn't want you there for a reason. Maybe it's because she's really is just friends with him and they do friend stuff together that she knows you don't enjoy doing. Maybe it's because she doesn't want her boyfriend causing issues with her weekend fun with her FWB. Maybe it's something in the middle, or way off to either side. No one but her can say for certain, but this setup would raise anyone's eyebrows… man or woman.
Why doesn’t he just go nap in the guest room why does she have to leave if she’s already in there? If he really needs a quiet space taht badly I’d roll my eyes too
Sorry but why is he still with her? I think if I was with her I would say thanks but no thanks you have made it clear to me you still have something for him still, so I will not get in your way! This will save having a messy divorce later? There is a reason why a woman of 29F is still single?
I agree, you can’t just hit pause. And a break does mean either one of you could choose to see someone else if you want.
Condoms… every time he wants intimacy tell him put on a condom because he is planning a threesome with or without you and that exposes him to all the partners they have ever had and then exposes you to them. Don't think about this as punishment, think of it as self preservation. Stick to this until he gives up his fantasy AND has a clear STI test. Again this is not a punishment this is preventing any number of communicable diseases.
Don't judge you?!?!? Well scroll on because judgement inbound!!!!
This is shitty behavior and you deserve to be called out on it. Despite the fact that he seems to do well with regards to making sure you and the children have your needs provided for, you point out reasons for not loving him anymore. If that's the case, then you file divorce and you leave. Instead, you decided to ride another man and keep the husband around because he's a paycheck.
This makes you a terrible person. I'll say it louder. THIS MAKES YOU A TERRIBLE PERSON!
Tell your husband you went out riding another man so he can hopefully wake up and drop you like a bad habit. You deserve what you get.
It’s normal if she only works with men. How is she supposed to go out with female colleagues if she doesn’t have any?
She needs to bond in order to be accepted. If you start making her feel like she can’t go then she’s going to be miserable at work because they’ll all be chatting and laughing about stuff they did when they went out and she’ll be sitting there feeling like a stranger.
It's her choice. You don't have to understand it.
It’s her dads house ?
So you are taking his mommies place?
My best friend commited suicide at 2005, I still sometimes want to be alone and “feel” my emotions.
Hah, that's good ?. Hope you and your baby are doing alright and I wish both of you good health and a lot of happy memories in the future. I'm sure you'll be the best mom. Thank you once again.
For real, he sounds almost paranoid. The fact that he was up for promotion and recieved an award and had his boss backing him so much suggests that this is not normal for him. OP was also presumably dating him for a reason, and agreed to marry him, so I can't help but wonder if there's something very very wrong in his brain, or a genuine undiagnosed mental illness. He's at the right age for schizophrenia, and certainly this fits the bill for a few of those.
I want to stress that OP owes him nothing, even if this is the result of something beyond his control. He's done a lot of damage, and it probably wouldn't be healthy for either of them to have a relationship even if it can be cured or treated. I just hope he gets the help he needs so he can stop hurting those around him.
You got into a physical altercation with your family, she’s a cheater, you’re both codependent and aggressive addicts who are looking for a reason to backslide into using aggressively again (dating eachother).
Maybe I was a bit critical so here is my real advice. Never speak to this person again. Your relationship isn’t about loving eachother it’s your mutual love of using alcohol/drugs. Getting back together would no doubt lead to you both fully relapsing. But you’ve said you still use so I would say step one before thinking about a relationship with ANYONE would be getting yourself fully sober.
I really do wish you the best of luck my friend.
I’d say somewhere on the internet you could actually find that. My son bet me any two random words followed by the word porn in a google search would get hits, he was right and I paid him the $5.
Yep it definitely varies from person to person. I’ve actually noticed a lot of anti-pill posts lately which is weird. You can’t put a blanket statement on it because it affects everyone differently.
Personally, I love the pill and have had a great experience with it for over 15 years (reduced cramps, shortened cycle, got rid of acne). Meanwhile some of my friends didn’t like being on it. So it really depends.
This is controlling and manipulative bullshit. Just tell him no. You don’t have to keep him updated on your every move. You don’t have to give him access to your location, and if you’re ok with letting him have that, it’s more than enough. Texting him when you arrive and leave somewhere doesn’t do anything to held ‘keep you safe’ and he’s only saying that to try and guilt you into compliance.
Just say no. Say ‘I’m not doing this any more, and I’m not listening to complaints about it’.
It sounds like there are a few issues going on in your relationship, and the lack of sex is just one of them. It's important to address these issues in order to improve your relationship overall.
Firstly, it's understandable that your husband doesn't like the smell of smoke, but it's not fair for him to use that as a reason to withhold sex. It's important for him to communicate with you in a respectful and understanding way about how he feels, without making you feel guilty or ashamed.
Regarding your smoking, it's great that you're trying to quit, but it can be a difficult process, especially without support. Have you considered seeking help from a smoking cessation program or a therapist who specializes in addiction? Your husband may not be an expert, but there are professionals who can help.
As for communication, it's important to remember that it takes practice and effort to improve. Have you tried couples therapy or communication workshops? These can be helpful in teaching you both how to communicate effectively and address any underlying issues in your relationship.
Overall, it's important to approach these issues with an open mind and a willingness to work on them together. It may not be easy, but with effort and support, it's possible to improve your relationship and intimacy.
He either has a wife, isn’t going to commit to you cause of the age gap, or is embarrassed by the age gap for whatever reason. Personally my moneys on he probably has kids close to you in age and doesn’t want to be labeled a creep by them.
Thank u love. Its really hit me like a brick in the face. We was best friends you know ? Never in a million years did I think he would do this.
Don’t be fooled by the “she’s quite firm” act. She lied to you quite firmly over the course of a month or so, multiple times. The idea that she could look you in the eye and lie to your face is more consistent with cheating more than once than it is with remorse.
I would go and take the cat back and divorce my husband if I could as you OP. What a POS.
She should have given you a heads up. All of your feelings are valid. She lied via omission and you guys will either need therapy or to separate if you can't handle this.
Yes you would be extremely stupid because if you let him get away with it he will do it again.
My hairstylist always seems to mess up my hair also. I change them every so often, to see if I have better luck with a new one, but I’ve only ever been happy with one hairstylist but she quit her job at that salon and I sadly couldn’t find her on-line.
I ask for a quick trim, just the ends, and my stylist (whoever it is) always tries to convince me to chop off more because apparently I have longer dead ends than I thought I did. My last stylist trimmed 30 cm’s and I came home crying. My boyfriend didn’t like it either and I felt that, so I hated it even more. It was all my lockdown hair, over 2 years of growth, just… gone…. And to top it off the stylist gave me a Rachel haircut, the one she has in season 1. I thought she was a young girl and she gave me a Rachel. I paid for the cut and told her it was ugly.
My hair is wavy, not curly and very fine. It’s graying so I need baby highlights but it’s too expensive for me. Recently I saw a Jonathan van Ness YouTube vid for fine hair friends where he said it might help to bring a photo of your preferred hairstyle to a new stylist.
You need to lose this guy and fast. What a selfish PoS…
I wonder, what happens if you agree but on the condition that you have one with another male first? The response to a question like that would tell you all you need to know about what kind of person he is.
Sounds like you should take the ring back and end the relationship.
Happy Cake Day ???
Maybe, just MAYBE, the third person in this threesome is the wife.
~4-5 months
It's the pictures?
This has GOT to be rage-bait