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It's pretty common for parents to not want their kids' (even adult kids) sleeping with an unmarried partner in their house. It's a generational and sometimes cultural difference. It's not homophobic unless they'd treat a man differently. If anything, it's the opposite. They're acknowledging you two have a sexual relationship and they don't want premarital sex in their home.
That said, you don't have to put up with that. Get a hotel or visit different family instead. Don't ask your gf to cut them off, ofc, but find options that work for you. Or suck it up and sleep in different bedrooms. You live together, a break might be nice 🙂
You're so welcome. It's not an easy task, there's no simple solution, but you seem so grounded and have a strong sense of self, which is the foundation! Don't wavy from that.
I saw a post earlier today about a psychiatric nurse saying you should never debate people's delusions. Don't give them that dopamine hit/ defensive position. Radical empathy is an opportunity to let them vent, but you must protect yourself from the emotional assault from some kind of detachment, as though the person is sick (which she very well may be).
Don't be afraid of walking away/ setting boundaries. You can always come back and move on, but don't tolerate all out abuse.
This will be difficult, it sounds like she won't change. You just have to judge how much is worth it and if you would be better cutting contact or not.
It's pretty common for parents to not want their kids' (even adult kids) sleeping with an unmarried partner in their house. It's a generational and sometimes cultural difference. It's not homophobic unless they'd treat a man differently. If anything, it's the opposite. They're acknowledging you two have a sexual relationship and they don't want premarital sex in their home.
That said, you don't have to put up with that. Get a hotel or visit different family instead. Don't ask your gf to cut them off, ofc, but find options that work for you. Or suck it up and sleep in different bedrooms. You live together, a break might be nice 🙂
You're so welcome. It's not an easy task, there's no simple solution, but you seem so grounded and have a strong sense of self, which is the foundation! Don't wavy from that.
I saw a post earlier today about a psychiatric nurse saying you should never debate people's delusions. Don't give them that dopamine hit/ defensive position. Radical empathy is an opportunity to let them vent, but you must protect yourself from the emotional assault from some kind of detachment, as though the person is sick (which she very well may be).
Don't be afraid of walking away/ setting boundaries. You can always come back and move on, but don't tolerate all out abuse.
This will be difficult, it sounds like she won't change. You just have to judge how much is worth it and if you would be better cutting contact or not.