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Date: December 22, 2022
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Throwaway account just incase.
Me (18m) and my gf (18f) have been dating for about 6 months.
Two days ago i got a DM on instagram from one of my exes, i asked her why she was writing and she told me she had been thinking about me. I told her that I've got a gf and wasn't interested, at which point she started questioning wether i even liked my gf and if i wouldn't be happier going back to her and trying to make it work. After arguing back and fourth for a while i essentially ended the conversation by saying that i couldn't be the guy who just dumped his gf for his ex, and that i wasn't interested in making anything happened.
Today I met my girlfriend and she told me she had made the account and written those DMs, that she was sorry and thay she knew what she did was wrong but that she simply felt had to know. She started crying and said she didn't want our relationship to end, said she was an idiot for acting like this, etc. Eventually she left and we've barely spoken since, i told her i needed some space to figure out what i wanted to do.
She's always been this way, very distrusting and jealous. It's progressively gotten worse and worse and now it's gotten to a point where I'm not sure i can keep this relationship going. She does seem genuine about her apology but I'm just not sure it's enough to make up for the distrust and heartache she caused.
I just feel somewhat betrayed and hollow, not sure what to do. I'd love some advice on this, just feel so lost.
I only read a little bit.
So he makes this grand statement about staying with you through your recovery and then completely DIPS to go hang with the boys. Then becomes plays victim when you mention it.
Not to mention all the other stuff you put in the post. He’s a bad partner – he shouldn’t blame it on ADHD.
It’s not worth it, OP. Cut him loose. He left you hanging during a medical recovery period. How can you trust him for anything?
So how far does communication go?
Pretty dam far…
It is a pillar in the foundation of relationships.
What warrants communication? That is up to you do decide.
I think that a part of the responsibility is up to the communicator… Is this a reasonable thing to address? Or is this something I should learn to decompress on my own?
Communicating about every little thing that bothers you, can start to have drawbacks.
So, to me, its important to pick reasonable things.
Now, is this childish? Well, you're clearly upset about it because your on reddit asking what you should do.
If something has pushed you that far and you may be on the fence whether it is important enough to discuss… well, perhaps take a more casual approach when you bring it up.
Alternatively… You don't have to play the same games together. You both are gamers, awesome! But that doesn't mean you have to dive into every game.
What you could do here, is next time when he feels like he wants to log off… Go “Okay, well I am going to stay on for another, I want to finish this task”… Additionally “I am going to hop on to play x game. Want to join?”
You don't need his direction to play this game.
And then afterwards you can tell him:
I enjoy playing this game.
And I enjoy playing it with you.
But, I don't like it when you make me feel like you're doing it out of charity and making it come off as a chore.
So, if we are gaming together, I would rather feel that its something that you want to do.
If you could adjust that next time, that would be awesome.
And if you're not into this game anymore, totally fine. I am going to keep playing it.
We will just find another game we're both share the same excitement about.
Sounds good?
End of conversation. No conflict. I am going to play it with or without you. Feel free to play something else. And next game we get into we will both enjoy it the same.