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Date: December 24, 2022
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You realize your wife is offering absolutely nothing to put your mind at ease right? She is having sex with strangers, that may or may not have turned into coercion, and she is just asking you to believe her story. On top of that, she was terrified of you seeing the actual evidence of this go down?
This is pretty very hot to believe man, I’m sorry. The fact that she’s “back to her old self” after convincing you she was RAPED just does not jive. She doesn’t have PTSD? She’s not having nightmares? She isn’t flinching at being touched? Come on man.
I didn’t say the latter. I said “if this one particular thing were to never change, I don’t know if I could stay”. If my husband said that to me, I wouldn’t assume he wanted a divorce.
Lol. You think vulgar granny gives any fucks about you clutching your pearls while she gets a good chuckle? I don’t disagree it stands to reason this could get awkward. But shiiiit, when I’m old and gray I hope I’m this funny. As long as granny isn’t having health issues causing uncharacteristic behavior, this is the kind of thing people like you need to either a) lighten up and laugh a little or b) give people with a sense of humor a good laugh when your panties get all in a bunch. Because I bet you wear the big ol granny ones. Thongs are SO distasteful! But lucky for me I’m vulgar and don’t wear any panties at all! You should try it! That stick up your ass might fall out though. ???
You’re better off being alone than being with someone who doesn’t accept you for who you are. I’m bisexual myself, and I find his response incredibly disrespectful. He doesn’t deserve you.
I get it. I do. But you have to make yourself a priority here. Best of luck to you.
I think it's time for you to start making a plan to leave. Start putting away savings, look for a new job that pays better, start looking at what it's going to cost you to get your own place or rent a room.
This man has made it very clear he doesn't want kids. He's hoping that if he holds out long enough, you will be too old, and then it won't be an issue any longer. If having kids is important to you, it's ok that it's a deal breaker for your marriage. He knew you wanted kids.
Find someone who loves you, and who isn't afraid to kiss you properly for goodness sake. As scary as it is, you can't stay with your husband for the rest of your life. Go and be happy! Live! the life you are supposed to on-line. Once you have made a plan, it will help you feel like you are making steps in the right direction, then when you are ready, you can move out. Good luck with everything. You deserve so much better than the life you have found yourself in.
This is a massive fucking red flag. I can't imagine this is the first time this controlling behavior has manifested itself.
How does one find out he is bi at 35… Fucking madness
23 years old is not a kid. He knew what he was doing.
Whatever crime he has committed was not small if it was followed by 20 years in prison.
You dad is right to look out for you.
The reason he won't tell you what things you need to work on is because if you change them he'll have to make up something else for you to feel insecure about and eventually he'll run out of things to complain about.
I've seen people saying you should insist he uses condoms but I wouldn't trust him with condoms. He might regard an unplanned pregnancy as a bonus since it will make you dependant on him.
Exactly this! Give him a taste of what he asks for himself. In the literal sense.
Lets get this straight: she cheats right at the start of this twelve week relationship and promises to do something that shows she is serious about wanting a relationship with you.
It then turns out that she breaks that straight away by having a few drinks, and now because SHE decides how soon you should be trusting her again, she tells you she is no longer going to do the very thing that was meant to make you trust her again!
Supposedly the whole giving up drinking thing was about more than you too – she didnt like herself when she drank! This was meant to be about her turning over a new leaf.
Are these red flags? Hell, Yes. You've known her twelve weeks. Get out of this now. This a train wreck.
He's not married, Her husband is not a friend of mine and if I tell him there will be big problems
Well for starters I can't wrap my head around why anyone would want to go that kind of a place with their Mother of all people, but…
Each to their own?
That being said I am also of the opinion there is simply no good reason for anyone in a committed relationship to go to a strip club, ever.
You are well within you rights to not want your gf to go to a club where men will very likely swing their dicks in her face.
She is well within her rights to ignore those feelings and go anyway… because “It's for mom”(sounds super healthy and not at all fucked up /s)
There will be consequences either way, but it seems to me that ignoring your partner's feelings to party with mom is a pretty shitty thing for her to do to you.
Being way over dramatic. That was once his wife. Yes they are separated but do you truly not think that they were at one time good? I’ve been divorced 20 years come July and I still have some photos of us, her fam, our friends etc.
My husband and I have been separated for 7 months and I honestly doubt we'll get back together. I've been the one doing most of the changes and growth, but he's still set in his old ways and is upset that I'm not putting up with crap anymore.
I am still a work in progress and will be for some time. (Is the work ever really done?)
Our kids are going over to their dad's this weekend for the first time because I also need space and time to rest. Before, he'd come over and spend the night to “get up with the kids”, but I'm the light-sleeper and early-waker and it's just not feasible anymore. I don't believe he will put in the work needed to save our marriage; he's too much in denial about what he has and hasn't done (and refuses to take responsibility and be accountable for his part).
So, what are my choices? I'm 36, I've waited/wasted the last few years holding out for change… and I just don't see anything changing. I want to be in a relationship with someone that will actively love me and work towards solutions instead of comparing, complaining, and remaining unaware of the self.
Get your own space, keep tending to yourself (great job btw on your journey), and hopefully after some time, you'll be able to be friends or at least civil co-parents. Our kids are 3 and 5 and doing well with the separation.
So, more power to you and remember, we're not supposed to be this unhappy in relationships.
Best.
My reaction to her telling me she’d asked him for a divorce was “it’s about time” lmao. She was surprised but I just told her idk how she put up with him for as long as she did. But we were both raised in the culture and generation where men were still the default “head of the household” and she put up with so much shit, presumably because she just thought that’s how it always would be with anyone.
Your friend isn't THAT old
Take pictures and proof then ghost him. He's not a keeper. Then when find another love, post on your SM for all to see.
I’m sorry for what you’re going through but he’s right; you would be better off moving on. He sounds weak and immature with all his procrastinating and waffling about breaking up with you. You deserve someone who isn’t unsure of whether he wants to be with you.
But – don’t use your grandmother’s illness as a way of manipulating him into staying with you. You both deserve better than that.
You truly have to have a real sense of her willingness to find a more compatible job. It’s understandable that she finds the process dreadful but of she stops pursuing it, take the cue.