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I am Jewish. Your father in law and fiance have no right to push you to change your religion. If you and your fiance agree on how you will raise your children, handle holidays, your home and finances while respecting each other's beliefs you're golden. BUT if she requires you change your religion for her, or the two of you can't agree on issues do not get married. Talk to her – pre-wedding counseling maybe. But a little bit of foreskin will not resolve this.
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Then she needs to speak to a professional, her mental health is not your sole responsibility, especially now when your mother is on her death bed and she is with immediate family.
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Not worth keeping.
You are free babysitter material.
She should do the same? What does that even mean?
She said help him when he's unemployed and job hunting. Is he unemployed and job hunting?
What do you have supported her unemployment if he also needed the funds back then to support his family members? Are the circumstances truly the same?
Yeah I’ve thought of that really i dont know how did i fall for it
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Lol he hasn’t responded to you because he knows you’re right.
How long have you two been together?
Or she him; but his “too friendly naive ass” does not get it.. If she's the one sticking her paws out and ask with a baby-voice “Can you please rub my feet… I had SUCH a nude workday at our job…” and he does it out of politeness/naivety.. There is still a problem.
I think it's unfair to ask people to take vacation days (possibly) and pay for airfare, accommodations, meals, rental cars, etc… because your mom wants to hold what amounts to another wedding reception 6 weeks after you get married. Now if she wants to do this so that people who can't travel to your actual wedding can be included, that's one thing, but she shouldn't expect people to attend both. Now if your snooty groom thinks his family would not enjoy the reception your mom is planning then getting them there would not endear your family to them.
Not desperate, just in love. He does seem to be insecure even though he denies it.
Are you still with this oerson?
Who is going to take care of your child while you are in the Air Force? Does he have any custody or visitation or pay child support? At this point you need to stop the roller coaster you are on with him and concentrate on your child. If the child witnesses this back and forth negativity, they can be harmed forever, especially if they hear you say you wish you never had them. Being in the military will help you mature and your mind will be on other things than him. But your history with him shows it will never be the fantasy you want. Make your baby your priority.
Your Girlfriend should stop sexualizing the care for your sister. That is the only thing being 'sick' in that whole story.
If she did, it would be literally none of my fucking business and I would not give one iota of a shit.
Because if he accepts he is a peodophile then he has to unlock his own memories.
It is like men who defend other rapists and secual harassers…because many times they are guilty of the same behaviour and cannot face it.
This here ladies and gentlement is the queen of gaslighting. Its cheating, she cheated. Its serious to most all other human beings. She made it serious when she cheated. Her 'decision' to stay in the relationship isnt relevant to this discussion. What is relevant right now is whether you want to stay in this relationship.
Here is my advise: She cheated, she was wrong, she has ZERO remorse and am blaming you for her cheating. If someone was wrong and they dont acknowledge it as wrong, they dont think its wrong which means they will do it again. Do you want to stick around and wait for that to happen again? Just a reminder: You cant get your time back once you have wasted it.
It doesn't matter and only he knows.
Tell him you're worried about the relationship, make it about that, not other people. That's ultimately what matters. You and your boyfriend. If you can figure that out, the other people won't even matter.
Cut the alcohol, go on walks together. You don't need to go to the gym, run marathons or bike up mountains, at least not to start. But just cutting out a toxin and getting 15 minutes of walking in daily, together, and you will see the difference much less feel it within a month.
You're around the age I was when I was getting to a point in my life where I was getting too old to choose dick if it made my life worse. Tying myself to someone who goes into debt and doesn't save? Will make my life worse without question.
I don't need a guy to make more than me or even the same. I just need him to be able to manage his money well so if we get to the point if it being our money we'll be better together.
I don't see why she would need to thell them you are BI? what is the need?
So you are a liar and so pure you have never had a disturbing thought in your life. Go ahead and block me, you are so ridiculous
I think you need professional emotional support. You will put a lot of time and energy into getting these ashes back, I know this might be nude to hear, but do you need to do this? Your Ex clearly did this to continue to have power over you and abuse you. Put it in writing that you want them back and make it very clear of your expectations. I doubt he will ever give them back, in the meantime contact your local council and pay for a memorial stone in your local cemetery or a memorial bench in your local park – a place where you can go and think about her. I would also make an area in your home dedicated to her, you don’t need ashes to memorialise someone, you could get in touch with an artist on etsy to make you a piece dedicated to Lilly that you can use in your home for her memory.
I’m so sorry this is happening to you. Sending you hugs.
He has private accounts to follow girls and saves their videos (tik tok, ig, reddit). Now he’s running an AI porn account (I am aware these aren’t real girls) and referring to them as perfect
Damn, I thought porn evolved shortly in my lifetime from finding it in the woods to millions of videos on the 'hub. Now it's AI and private accounts etc… Does anyone really need to interact with those they masturbate to?
No idea what an AI porn account is, but it sounds like he's built up a fantasy world at the very least. This actually requires a certain amount of time and dedication and to be honest, what boxes you tick may be the smaller thing here when someone is in that deep with porn “culture.” (I can't think of a better word than culture there.)
in what other ways is your husband creepy and controlling that you've ignored or made excuses for in the past?
Because this is all red flag shit. Big red flags.
I’d say if u cant tell him about it, dont do it. I mean, if you were my gf I wouldn’t care, because I’m under the banner of if I can’t trust you why am I here. And it’s not nude to cheat, so why stress it. Its a 2 way street. So, if you want to go golfing, I’d just tell him the situation, if he has any hesitation then give him that respect. If he doesn’t care then perfect. Or simply say fuck it and dont tell and don’t go
You gave op good advice. Mama Boys don't usually change. I know l was married to one. Believe me it only gets worse. Even therapy won't help most times. Rethink your idea ?
No where does he say unprotected, just drunk sex.
If what he is saying true with a huge grain of salt, maybe there was some baby trapping.
Both are idiots but we don't get to add facts to the story.
So he sexually assaulted you and the thing you're worried about is him hanging with his friend?
Babes, you need to re-prioritise.
What everyone is saying. It will never be enough. If you stay the house won’t be enough, the car, the kids, the pets, the vacations, the stroke, the head….. tell her enough is enough and dip!
Oh wow that sounds exactly the same ??
It really doesn't matter that it was long ago and you were not that serious. Its rape,he passed you to his brother like it's nothing. You thought you were sleeping with him but it was someone else. That is actually so messed up and the fact that your husband even has the audacity to suggest the same thing now,just shows that for him it's still okay. He hasn't really changed his mind or values on this specific thing. I don't think I would be able to stay with someone like that,its totally messed up. Also thinking that he knew you're going to be drunk and sent his brother to have sex with you? Super fucked up.
So a few weeks in advance, tell him you want to plan something and when he insists it be on that weekend, move your glamping up by a week. He didn't want to go out that weekend, so it shouldn't be a problem, right? Or is it possibly the fact that you have an aspect of your life that is just yours and he doesn't get to take that over too? (We both know the answer to that, though.)
Why? I’ve said my piece to both of them, and don’t feel so infatuated anymore. I’ll certainly give the other woman space—won’t initiate any conversations, but if she could still be my friend (big if) why shouldn’t I be a friend too? I really believe, now, that I won’t harbor any romantic resentment. I just hate to lose one of my only female friends.
Okay so as a porn watching man I can tell you that prob 8/10 videos is labeled as “teen” or “step sister” etc… I’m not even slightly into either of those things but I watch them because I know it’s just a raunchy title and these women are probably early-mid even late 20’s. I mean MAYBE your dads into that shit but honestly I doubt it
And you want to BREAK UP?
“Not a bad person” is not strong enough criteria to justify having to remind someone to shower and wash their junk. “Makes me laugh, is kind” are baseline traits that anyone you voluntarily spend time with should have.
Please do not legally bind yourself to someone who sees you as the default manager of their life. This person will not only refuse responsibility now, but in middle age when they find themselves unhappy with their lives they will blame you, since you were in charge . Suddenly they were never happy, you're a nag, you never do anything fun (because you're busy doing all the chores and remembering birthdays and making appointments and reminder calls and visiting elderly parents), and they leave. Now you finally have some peace.
Save yourself the years of neglect and find a man who cleans his toilet on a regular schedule. He's out there, he's cleaning out his fridge every week after the weekly shop. He loads his dishwasher and runs it at night, and unloads it in the morning. He sweeps behind the couch even though no one sees it because he cares about his environment. He is willing to put in thought and expend effort. You can leave your current overgrown teen and find a real grown manto be your partner; the first step is you, stepping out the door of this sad, uneven relationship.
When to draw the line is now…before he moves in. Make him prove he is worthy by acting like a civilized person.
My parents have 12 years difference, we have 8 and hes a adult, and apart from this he's been more mature than alot of guys my age or older – so whats your point?
Tell them to go fuck themselves and accept you for who you are and in return you won't judge them for a 19 yo getting a 15 yo pregnant. If they want to go all “Christian” with that “Satanist” be, just say “Let he who us without sin cast the first stone”.
Maybe cause I’m Chinese but I believe in the hot-air, cold-air in the bodies, which impacts the body’s overall health. And I find whenever I eat more oily/greasy food or junk food it makes me have too much nude air, which tends to mean I have more painful/longer duration of cramps.
Your girlfriend might also find there are certain types of food that may impact her period as well. The safest choice might be sending her a nude pack to help alleviate the pain. Staying hydrate will help flush out her system. Fruits should also be a safe choice as well.
It was more “you’re difficult to say no to because you’re so cute” which is better than saying it’s cos he’s uncomfortable but still not great lol
I guess I have questions…
Will your wife be working? If so, are job prospects for her good in the other location? Childcare? Because if she was planning on her mom babysitting, being 90 min away is not gonna work. And if she’s going to be a SAHM, are there things to do there so she can meet people and make friends?
If she’s a horse person, I can’t believe this would be a very nude sell. I’d be delighted if my partner was all “hey honey, let’s buy a farmette so you can have your horses at home again.” Delighted isn’t even the right word. Ecstatic is more like it. But I work from home so all I need is reliable internet.
I think you’ll just have to make a pro/con list and you two need to negotiate.
That said, I’ve moved 26 times in the US/Europe/Africa and planning a move is not something I’d want to have to be in charge of with an infant strapped to me. It can be a full time and exhausting job organizing a pack out, delivery, setting up a new house, etc especially if there’s a lot of se littering to do if you’ve been in the same place for awhile. So I think you’d have to make a plan such that you’re the one doing the work.
Regardless, don’t buy a house you don’t like in a place you don’t like. Both of your feelings matter for a big decision like this.
So she cheated on you, didn't work out now and you're back like a good loyal dog to be her backup? Don't you have self-respect? She is gonna do it again and are just gonna come back each time? Is that the type of relationship you want show as an example to your children? That you should stay with toxic cheating AH?
Growing up in separate homes is better than one shit one.
But hey if you want to keep finding excuses for her behavior and take her back, that's on you and frankly you would deserve what you get after that, because she will cheat on you, it might be a 13 year itch the next time.
Thank you for your advice. I don’t think both is necessarily right and I don’t think it has to be as black and white. But your answer helped me a lot. I will try to figure out what I want and what I need.