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Date: December 25, 2022
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He sounds like he may be on the autism spectrum, or just shy through lack of socialization.
He definitely likes you, and continuing to be ‘so close that others on your floor are suggesting you date’ is leading him on if you don’t want to date him.
To give a different perspective, my wife is largely a homebody. You might find her at the library. Me? Nerdy frat boy. I go clubbing almost every week with a friend of mine. I’m not super social, but I’m far from my wife in that regard. My wife doesn’t hold me back, and I don’t force her out. It can work.
If you don’t date him, don’t string him along either.
My suggestion would be to invite him to a club you’re in, or a party. At a party, find the quiet fringe and hang out there with him. See if he warms up to socializing, some people just need a push and positive reinforcement after a lifetime of rejection.
You could also see if you can make it work with him being the homebody and you going out. That takes immense amounts of trust though.
If you don’t want date him you could casually mention liking a guy and asking his opinion on him. Name the other guy so your friend knows it’s not him. That’ll let him know he’s in the friend zone. (Honestly, if you care about his feelings at all, you won’t date someone else without subtly mentioning it to him first because your relationship sounds like you’ve been dating but without the sex for a while now).
This friendship will change regardless of what you do. If you start dating others he will distance himself, or other guys will get jealous of your relationship with him and you will distance yourself. Dating him could end negatively and you won’t be friends after. So, IMHO, you have nothing to lose by dating him. Take a chance on him!