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Date: December 27, 2022
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No man , How did u even think about that ? We just come from very different famiky cultures , my family never accepta her plus her family is so much wealthier than us so her family never accepts me …
Eww I can’t stand a one upper.
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Let it go. Seriously, do not look back.
It's cheating in my book. Good news is shared custody gives you some much needed down time!
Have you suggested couples therapy? Both of you can talk privately, and together. Some therapists have proven to be biased, but not all are like that. And have you considered that maybe there are things you could improve on? No one is perfect, and we should all strive to grow and learn.
You can love someone but they aren’t going to be the right fit for you. You’ll end up hurt and fighting for attention with a crazy baby mom and they child would suffer just let him be and wait how his baby situation pans out.
Don't get married. Don't marry her. It'll get worse. Divorce will be more expensive than deposit penalties that you may have to pay now. Go ask this question at the Divorce Men forum right here and you'll here real stories from only men who've been in exactly this same place but decided to ignore it and get married anyway. Misery
This is a toxic and very antiquated tradition, stand up for yourself, if they can’t accept that, then move out
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To be honest, some of his excuses make it sound like he's been thinking of breaking up with you. He's really thought through a lot of them.
I don't think he's against marriage either, but I do think he's against marrying you, and I would not be surprised when he does reach out its to break up. I'm sorry that's harsh, but that's what I get from his reasons.
Some of these excuses can be solved with a prenup. Some of them with both your families will always linger no matter how long you are together.
His excuse of just starting careers is valid too. Wedding planning is a lot of work.
The fact you want kids and he doesn't? That's compatibility. If a guy doesn't want kids, I stop seeing them because I know I'm not compatible with them. You say your willing to give up a family and having kids, but I can guarantee in another 10 years you will begin to resent him, especially with others around you start having kids, you'll remember what you are missing out on. And if you end up pressuring him for a kid he doesn't want? He'll resent you both.
Its great you guys have been together for 10 years, but it's okay to admit you both want different things in life.
i left my job and all my friends to be with him across the country. i do agree i am a very immature 22. i made so many mistakes and don’t know how to own up to them and just be honest and up front because i’m so afraid of being abandoned. sometimes things i do don’t seem bad to me until i realize they are to him and i panic. everything was so different in the beginning until everything was ruined and then also me so confused on what i want and stressed about me wasting my life away. i just feel like my mental health declined so much in the last couple months to where i am a shell of a person and everything brings me pain and anxiety. and i don’t know how to communicate properly anymore
The gentle thing is to let him know now so he has time to prepare. Leading him on as if you guys will be together and he can keep depending on you then drop a bomb on him is kinda fucked. Assuming he doesn’t react badly.
Go with her on some of these swimmings, or first go just you two – and skinny dip. Really in this day & age – in a western country, in secluded places, being prudish about skinny dipping – life’s too short to spend it being uncomfortably anxiously prudish about human bodies, and never having enjoyed skinny dipping. If they’re not wagging & waving their private parts around indecently & bumping uglies in public, wtf why does it matter. It’s not exhibitionist it’s just couldn’t be fucked making sure taking swimsuits everywhere or bothering about it. See water, nude day – swim!
Sure, if folk are incompatible then that’s that, no worries.
Online your life unchained from prudish old learned childhood habits – learn some new ones, have adventures. Take it to next level – visit Japan or Sweden & go to very hot springs and/or nudie nature spots. Are you gonna be proud to tell your grandkids – NOPE, me i never did do those evil scary skinnydipping nudie things, and i even hassled some ex gf about doing it. Ffs mate, Mad Max it up!
OP you should definitely do it.
People have different ideas about nudity – for some it's sexual, for some it's just a natural state of existence.
You are not wrong to feel this way – and she is not wrong to be very hot around her friends either. It's just that your ideas are different. It has a lot to do with your upbringing and what you were taught.
But the thing is, your ideas can change. If you have a first hand experience of their dynamic, a dynamic where nudity is completely normal, you might change your mind. You don't have to, but I always believe that you should give everything a chance. So go do it. Even try swimming nude with them.
Tell her to bring some money in case she gets hungry.
Lol “I didn't cheat on you with this ugly girl” is a fun new defense. It's also not “no, I'm trustworthy, and I'm sorry these texts crossed a line.”
I fail to see how this supersedes in any way OP's ethical obligation to keep his word to his girlfriend.
Keep the baby. Get rid of your husband. Hire a kick ass attorney and make sure your son is taken care of.
Odds are he’ll walk anyway so take control of your life.
And my girlfriend knows these
It would be a deal breaker for me. It's extremely manipulative to pretend you're okay with your partner's future plans, when you're not. Would you have pursued a relationship with him, if he told you he doesn't want to have a dog ever back then? If not, you have your answer.
(Side note: Idk, if you've ever owned dogs or have experience with dog training, but if not, German Shepherds can be a handful. Yeah, they're extremely smart and trainable, but they're not what I would call an “easy” breed. If you're a beginner, who doesn't know what they're doing, it can easily end up with a dog who's the “head” of the pack and doesn't respect you.)
Wow I mean…wow! Both of them sound horrible. Granted calling names isn’t exactly going to get you on their nice list, but you were constantly being pestered and then you were beaten and had cold water tossed on you? And now they want to talk about feelings? Nah, screw them. If they weren’t mature enough to talk about their feelings before beating the snot out of you then why would they be mature enough after? If you were to open up and be truthful (meaning not telling them what they wanna hear) you may very well just get beat again for your honest opinion.
I know what I'd make of it:
This is setting the scene for future excuses.
If I have 30 ppl flirting with me and I commit to a relationship I either cut them out or if i still have to see them I can put the no flirting boundary.
He can't be nice both to you and them at the same time.
Your BF had no reason to say anything to him at all. But then he threatened someone who did nothing wrong.
Your BF sounds like trouble.
The thing is, I don't get how he'd even have time if they're seeing each other every day and sleeping over a lot?
This would bother me.
The thing is, I don't get how he'd even have time if they're seeing each other every day and sleeping over a lot?
I suspect that if you broke up now, you'd be dodging a major bullet. It's an extremely rare couple that doesn't argue, but most don't yell and sound threatening to the point where the landlord notices. Definitely not notice to a level where it becomes a reason for eviction.
An emotionally mature person wouldn't “feel inadequate” about moving into a place where the other partner is already signed on to. If you're both paying equal on rent and bills, “inadequate” becomes redundant. He's 37, this crap shouldn't still be normal behaviour.
Everyone has a right to come home to a place where it's a sanctuary, not a war zone. Keep your peace at home and don't look back
The last time the three of us were together, she wasn't able to drive home, so I offered to buy her an Uber, which she refused. After taking some time to herself, she came back in the room where my boyfriend and I were laying in bed, she got into bed with us, and ended up sleeping there
That's when you go, “hey, wtf, get out?!”
No way’ I fucked tons of drunk bitches… it’s fun’
They “don’t shit where you eat” is classic survivorship bias. Only the ones who’ve been burnt by this will say it. Those who have had very successful relationships by dating colleagues never say it. I know plenty of people who married coworkers…
Thanks, you’ve solidified my decision. I mean I love her to death but she can not and will not help me whatsoever. She even called me spiteful because I don’t want to help her and we’re not together. I’ve helped her and her family a lot in the past 2 years. That’s how I’m able to still online with her grandparents while she’s not here.
She also treats porn as cheating.
If it helps, she doesn't use social media, is a kindergarten teacher, very conservative, very insecure or jealous because she said her last 3 bfs cheated on her (one time caught them in the act), but also super loyal and kind.
Did they CHEAT on her cheat on her? Or did she find Big Toddy Goth Girl in their search history?
Make your own food and don't worry about him. Genuinely. Why are you mothering your bf, this is his issue he can fucking deal with it. What a child. He will either get on board or you get a real good glimpse into what the rest of the relationship will be
Have you met and spent time with him in IRL? How long have you dated?
He just wanted to hook up. I'm sorry some people are just vile.
Yeah wasn’t sure, it might just be my specific social circles too.
I think there’s some hope, have seen it a lot in some of the younger men I work with and younger male relatives.
Some other odd cultural quirks (I won’t go on my old man rant lol) sure but lots of consideration and emotional intelligence with a lot of them.
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Yes I’m breaking up with him
Because women think they can be friends with men, until he makes a move.