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Very different places in life.
Being in different places in life can be wonderful in a relationship.
But she’s not saying “I love you” because the phrase she’s using in Spanish isn’t a direct equivalent – it’s broader and used in many more ways.
I don’t know if you speak any other language but if you do then you must know that sometimes the English translation just doesn’t work in exactly the same way as using the same/closest phrase in English, because languages have nuance that doesn’t come across as easily, especially when you spend some time in that country and start to understand all the cultural context that comes from using a particular expression.
“it doesnt bother me, I trust you”
You said it, now on-line by it.
If not, you shouldve never said it, now you look like the villian if you bring it up again. Next time be truthful, and stop telling people what they want to hear, if thats not how you feel; thats why were you are in this situation now.
Alcohol, bed with opposite sex, BF says its cool im fine with it. And here we are, BF wasnt cool with it and said it for whatever reason to please GF who slept with another man in his bed after a night of drinking.
grow a backbone and communicate properly. Dont just tell people what they want to hear if thats now how you feel truly.
Thanks. I think his anxiety is in turn making me anxious, ugh! I’m usually more swift and firm with these situations where it isn’t working out but there is usually at least some level of mutual acknowledgment from the other person.
Look into sexsomnia and see if that sounds like what happened. If so, possibly speak to a therapist or doctor about it more in detail.
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it’s really messing with my progress
Block him so you don't have to try to figure him out. It isn't worth the effort.
And lots of men's been sorry
The fact that he might have mental health issues doesn't obligate OP to stay in an obviously unhealthy relationship that's run its course. You can encourage someone to get medical care without necessarily being in an intimate relationship with them.
And you can, but lots of folks don't because constantly nudging someone is more aggravating than ignoring it.
Leave this poor guy alone lol.
As long as he’s working with you and talking to you about work stuff, and being pleasant enough and not directly hostile, leave the guy alone ?♀️ it’s up to him who he wants to share his personal life with and stuff. You’re not entitled to his life.
She didn't experience trauma, she was not abused. She's witnessing her friend being in a painful situation. Wildly different things.
Women have to be courted. Treat her like you did when you first started dating. Hold her hand, rub the back of her hand with your thumb. Kiss her for no reason other than to kiss her. Come up behind her & wrap your arms around her. Kiss the back of her neck. Don't try to have sex with her. Court her. She will turn on as you stop trying to make it all about sex. Make it about connecting emotionally, physically w/o sex.
It's Sunday night here but trash goes out every fortnight.
Green waste though every week so she may fit in with that.
Sounds like she's already emotionally cheating on you with her friend if she hasnt already physically cheated.
There's a reason why a popular advice for people new to threesomes and polygamy is that the third person should be someone outside of your friend group
That is a very useful advice, thank you! This is what I am doing right now. Again, yesterday I noticed that he is a bit closed off, and I hd a terrible night with nightmares due to that.. nothing happened between us, he even called me and told me that he loves me, wishing a good night. He was just a bit tense, but that was enough for me. I will also ask him to show me some kind of a sign for me to be able to let that go.
None of this is required. It is none of your business who her friends are and the same goes for her.
Obviously neither one of you should be physically intimate with anyone else, nor should you ever prioritize anyone else over your partner. You should both consider the other when making decisions, and recognize that both people need other social relationships.
You don’t get to make rules as to what can and can’t be said to each other’s friends. You are just going to have to trust each other’s judgement.
You need to rewire your brain. Every time you think of her, think of it as a reminder that she proves you were a better person than her. Feel sorry for her that she threw a good thing like you away. Tell yourself that the best she can do now is a guy who makes her be a worse person.
You may not be able to atop thinking about her. Don’t fight that. Just change how you think about her.
Give yourself compassion. All you did was try to be a good person. You didn’t fail.
People can change. People can also easily change back.
Use protection for their sake.
OP, I’m sorry to hear about this difficult time you’re going through. Relationships can be as joyous as they are painful. First off, grant yourself some grace. You’re young and, based on your age, this was essentially your first long term relationship. You learned the very hot way the first cardinal rule of relationships, it takes effort by BOTH people. Certainly, there will be times that one person takes and the other gives, but it’s unhealthy when it’s only one sided and the other person has mentioned their wants/needs and it’s completely ignored. You’ve learned a very hot lesson and hurt someone you very much care about. Forgive yourself, but don’t forget the lesson you’ve learned. This is how you move on.
My only advice for you towards your ex is to sit down and write to him. Acknowledge his feelings and frustrations. Admit your behavior and how you erred. Talk about what you’re doing to “fix” yourself. Then tell him all the nice things you really appreciate about him. Finally, tell him you understand about needing space and wish him all the happiness in the world. Apologize once again while asking for his forgiveness. Tell him that if he’s ever ready to talk, you’re door is always open to him.