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Relationships like this sound exhausting. This is like roommates who have sex with each other.
We don’t online together, payments are about 50/50. He does a lot domestically. He says he really wants to, I will ask him what he would do, thank you.
Don’t have children with this woman. If she’s this terrible to you imagine how she’d treat a child.
I don’t see a future for you in this relationship.
I hear ya. My gf also gained a few pounds and it’s all straight to her belly. Kinda very hot to get turned on
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Trust isn't a thing you can just force because you want it, it's the culmination of two trustworthy people acting in trustworthy ways. She's not trustworthy though. You now know that you absolutely can't trust her. It's up to her to decide if she even wants to change that, but you don't have to stick around and find out.
No?
If you're not mad why would you want the internet to tell you to be? IMO, it's not his dad and if you didn't explicitly tell him that you needed him to be there with you he's allowed to make New Years plans with his friends. I love my bf, and I'd drop anything if he asked me to be there for him, but I don't know his dad that well – so unless my bf asked me to be there and available for him I'd probably keep living my life (and it's not that I don't care, I'm just also not about to try and force a relationship with his dad when he's got other things going on.)
Why do you let people on Reddit tell you whether or not you can feel disrespected?
I'll wager that you go back to sucking his sucks and you'll feel crap about it because you'll know he's looking down on you regardless of what he says afterwards. Please feel free to not listen and do that to yourself and proceed to feel like crap about yourself and worthless afterwards. I'm saying this bect I also love to suck dick but I would never let anyone talk to me that way especially in a sexually derogatory way.
You see a lot of messed up stuff and messed up people as you get older. At my age, dating is more difficult because a lot of us are carrying years of emotional baggage. It can be plainly obvious why some people are still single. You're still young and shouldn't have to hitch your wagon to anyone who has serious issues this early. You still have plenty of choice, enjoy it.
Sometimes it is easier to speak with a disinterested party but he has to go first. Plus an MD need to run full tests on him to diagnose medical causes for this.
8/10 she slept with that guy or is trying to sleep with that guy. 100% ok to walk away bro don't fall for 5th e sunk cost fallacy. She is not who you thought she was and that's ok.
No problem. Best wishes.
I'd recommend giving it a lot of thought, but ultimately, you should always do what is right for you in any relationship.
I'd advise you against it. Given your trouble with your partner randomly developing feelings for someone, I can't see how a separation will even remotely make that better (either you'll go overboard in response and hurt her, or she'll do something with someone and it'll feel a lot worse than a crush).
Some time apart, but still committed, might help while you get your head around things. If your brother is happy for you to use his apartment, perhaps a couple of weeks apart to process might be beneficial as you'll hopefully feel calmer.
Therapy, like you're already pursuing, is probably your best bet if you want the relationship to survive.
If you don't feel a relationship is worth fighting to keep, it might already be over, if you do then at least it sounds like your wife is on your team.
Whatever happens, best of luck.
Yeah I've never used the same pet name for anyone.
She may not use it because it reminds her of her ex.
You’re 23 and living with a 30 year old waste of space who wants nothing of substance for himself and feels right at home living in a bedbug infested hovel. If he’s not willing to marry you why would you think he’ll enter the commitment of home ownership with you. What you do is leave him where he is. You move out wait 30 to 60 days and check back in on him. I’d bet any amount of money that he’ll have another chick living and serving him in his bedbug shack. The only reason he’s still with you is because you haven’t left yet. Any man that values himself and his partner would do what’s necessary to be in the most comfortable environment they can afford. Your boyfriend isn’t operating like that because he doesn’t care and you’ll just accept whatever it is he gives you because you’re young and, in this moment and situation, extremely dumb. The wisest thing you can do for yourself is provide adequate housing for YOURSELF and leave him to his dilapidated trailer and junk cars.
If you got drunk and stayed around a woman flirting with you then went to their room and had sex even though “you didn't actually want to” how do you think she'd react?
Your check in msgs bore her to tears
What's the difference if you leave him? You're alone already. You'd just be able to find someone who wants you instead of neckbeards playing wow.
She sounds pretty selfish. Are you sure that her love is selfless or does she just fill her emotional voids with your companionship?
Doesn’t sound like she gives you the same respect you give her.
You allowed to feel anyway you want, it is your life. Break up or stay it’s totally your choice. Just remember some of the people on here giving you advice have made choices they feel guilty about, they may attempt to push you to stay. They are in the misery loves company category.
We were actually mid conversation when she left. We have seen each other 4/5 times since she cut me off and have only ever exchanged glances at each other, only last night I was standing with another girl I had just met (she works with family). Any possibility she was checking if I was talking to her, and she might’ve not reached out had I been myself like I normally am?
Probably sounds petty and makes no sense but she did post a photo today, should I maybe just like it and see if she reaches out again after that instead of directly messaging?
shut up and VALIDATE ME! Gosh, I wish you were a better partner….
You left out how long you've been dating or how serious of a commitment you already had.
Take a break from making a baby with a man who has barely grown up himself and reassess your priorities here. Your spouse wants to look good to people despite who he hurts in the process. Your excuse for him are utter shit, his behavior is garbage, and you need to wake up and realize what kind of a parent a man like that will be. Hell, you should be in the therapy or divorce stage, not bringing a damn child into the home of a man who can’t keep his fuckin trap shut. Do better, if not for yourself then for the sake of your future child. Jesus.
Change like that isn't an easy thing, it's much like building a new way of thinking about the world. It does take time and practice. It's also very different from person to person. My process is intellectual, my wife's is emotional. You're going to have to find what works for you. My best advice is this: failure is an event, not a person. Everyone must go through it and you likely will fail at this more than once. Don't let it hurt your drive, desire, or self.
God this is horrible. You both need to just break up.
I do stuff around the house, I make him lunches before work. I can be the best girlfriend but sexually there isn’t connections. We used to have sex 3x a month and then it went 2x a month to 1x month down to 0 these last 3 months…
You need to talk to her OB/GYN about PPD. Immediately.
That is correct. But, he and anyone else in your life are not required to accept that. You can't force it and apparently nothing you can say will fix it. You just gotta online with it
Unfortunately, you can only be so nice with something like this. Tell him that the joke is dead and, at this point, a turnoff for you. If he argues, tell him that persisting with middle school jokes isn't exactly attractive. I would also talk about his efforts to please you as it sounds a little one sided from your comments.
If I were moving to another city I would feel much more comfortable flatting with someone I already knew and trusted. You have this oppourtunity and it appears the only real issue is him being uncomfortable with you living alone with another guy. Understandable but at the same time if you lived with females, I mean technically the thing he's worried about could still happen….
Perhaps talk to him about your safety. Why would he be okay with you moving in with complete randoms who could do anything while you are there? Would it not make more sense to move with someone who you both already know?
She doesn’t respect you. She doesn’t respect your relationship. She is cheating or trying to cheat.
She does reciprocate. And them being together for 9 months despite us being together for 2 years really frustrates me. I don't know what to believe. I want to trust her.
Ew??
I’d generally say try therapy but this guy sounds awful. Move on….
She told me she never expected for me to tell her that and not to worry about it and that she accepts my feelings
You started dating him 3 months ago…3 months and already so much drama…you should really leave him
So your sister lied or someone lied to her and she decided to believe it.
My take: your sister has a friend that she wants to pair you with because she doesn't like your GF and thinks you'd look better with her friend.
That was a crazy cheating story, tho xDD. Straight outta pornhub or something lol
Humans have emotions and cry sometimes. If a girl loses attraction because you show emotion she ain’t it. Women do not lose attraction when guys show emotion if they’re fully functional adults. But this mindset you have probably comes with a bunch of other toxic male idealities so I hope you get away from these harmful ideas and into therapy brother because that’s not healthy way to online.
44 and told you he loved you within a week means that you unintentionally dodged a bullet and should consider yourself lucky.
yeah you wouldn't be happy about it, you wouldn't get back together with him I bet if it was reversed. This reminds me how one of my friends is always cheats on his partners, but if he was cheated on he would be pissed.
To mean it could also look like you already had someone in mind after that break up. But you really need to take a look at yourself and why youre using that a coping mechanism.
Except she dumped her boyfriend….he didn’t dump her. So it looks like she dumped him, just so she could have sex with this other guy and it not be considered cheating because they were broken up. I wonder if she always attended to get back together with him.
My partner is very similar. I feel you totally, I got so frustrated of nothing changing , not talking, just being ignored that it just turned into a well he doesnt care about anything that concerns me so why should I care about his feelings so I basically just said screw it and do what I want , come and go what ever . We hardly speak but its complete insanity the same complaints for years cant online that way anymore. There is so much resentment and no respect for each otherleft it's not a relationship when you cant communicate and when your words have no weight or meaning , it's like your in a relationship with yourself. It's like nothing matters. I feel like if I ask his favorite smell is air, his favorite taste is water and his favorite color is clear no participation, no ambitions, no Hope's, no dreams, no interest in anything that is important to me. It's like you said a wall a brick wall. It's not healthy
How does this not affect him? Maybe he doesn’t want someone to listen to him all night? His awareness of your fear/anxiety at the other end of the phone could legitimately prevent him from sleeping.
if you write this exact same paragraph and post it again are you desperately hoping someone will confirm what you want to hear?
Get help dude, like psychiatric help. It's weird and obsessive how much you post this exact paragraph.
Immature is judging someone on sexual history
It’s his job to check his pockets.
I doubt she has permission to share the recording from him, seems like a reasonable thing to report to the police for the revenge porn aspect
How do you know that?
What an ungrateful, hateful, insecure, disgusting excuse for a human being….what the hell do you even find attractive about this ass boil?
Do you feel the same if
A) there are thousand of hard photos online of your husband and father of your children (and he still continue to publish them everyday)
B) there are thousands of nude joyous live! of a person that you have sex with but you're not committed too
I don't. I understand that I don't want deep committed with her now that I now that she does this
Not your decision. Your mom will tell when she’s ready. Especially since they’re so close, do NOT get in between. Best wishes to your mother and hope she beats it quickly and easily!
We honestly had a chat where we said we might as well get married because our parents would approve. He has always joked that he’s lucky he has money or else he would never have been able to get a girl like me.
It's not a joke, its verbal abuse. He's trying to tare you down. The only way to stop it is to leave him.
I got drunk and bought a pack of condoms when we were not in good terms.Got drunk again and I was cocky about that to her .
To be honest this happens to me a lot but LOL at the day I have the guts to cheat and use this bullshit as an excuse to make some dude feel bad for me ffs
I had something similar to this—I (29F) started dating a guy (36M). He told me was still friends with his ex, but it was platonic. Whatever, didn’t love it, but who was I to put an end to his friendship that predated me.
Then I saw a notification from her on his phone that said “Always❤️” and I was like wtf. I should mention they talked everyday and he still had a photo of them on his IG where he referred to her as his girl—it was old, back when they dated.
I ended up snooping on his phone and saw how much they talked and a lot of it was about me—I saw them making jokes about me—“Does your gf still hate me and my dog ?” “yeah lmao”—so I lost it and told him two things: he could be friends with her or he could date me, but he couldn’t have both.
He ended up picking me and deleting the photo of them on IG and he deleted her off IG. I didn’t ask him to remove her from IG, but it’s nice that he did. He told her they couldn’t talk anymore and that was it.
Had he decided to remain friends with her, I would have exited the relationship. The only woman you should be second to in a relationship with a guy, is his mother. And even then, after due time, you should out prioritize his mother.
Dear op I love going down on my wife. Your bf doesn't deserve you. And sounds like he was extremly disrespectful to you.
If you don't feel like your not in a loving suportive relationship. It's because your not in a loving suportive relationship.
And that's not a good thing. You know what to do.
That would be fine and I would be happy to do that but I work on a different mine site and never visit hers so I will never meet these guys… I know exactly what kind of guys they are and it’s fine if she wants to go out and chat and do whatever but it’s their disrespect towards me, after her telling them she has a partner, that they carry on and I’m incapable of doing anything about it. So we are wondering if there’s something she can do, and I’m wondering if maybe she actually likes the attention
And give him permission to jump in a volcano! Scratch that, no child support or alimony if he did.
He pops up in all my social accounts but u are right:) I will just block him from everywhere and move on. I just don't wanna talk to him and go thro all the 'break up talk' again since he will just gaslight me. thank you
Put yourself first. Love yourself. If you cannot heal then you need to leave. Get space. Process what happened and heal.
This does sound pretty adhd. Impulsive reactions, not having time to arrange something. Excuses.
Here's his perspective; I'm so happy we're going on this trip! Then you get him gifts….oh shit, I thought about buying her something like ten times the past weeks, but other stuff interfered and I couldn't think of the right thing to buy. Now she has these great personal gifts and I look like shit again (this will have happened 100s of times through his life and it frustrates him enormously. He doesn't want to be like this) his emotions boil up and it becomes a very stressful situation so his lack of impulse control kicks in and anger is the outlet.
I have been down that path many times and knew I was failing my significant other every time. I loved Everyone I ever hurt with my inability to be attentive like normal people and have pushed people away.
With time (maybe medication for some) this will get better, but it's a skill that is very very hot to learn. His lack of attentiveness has nothing to do with his love for you, but offcourse is up to you to decide if you can online with that.
Trust your gut, i let my ex go on holiday too where someone would be she banged with before, and she assured me there wont be nothing…. and stupid as i am and wanted to be the non controlling trusting boyfriend i said ok, she went they banged, and i got a nice side portion of emotional trauma or PTSD or whatever. Its been 2 years since that and i still feel my gut wrenching thinking about that.
You need to wake up and smell the coffee.
You are being ABUSED. There is no “fixing” him. He wants you to be completely isolated with no friends, no family, and no money.
Why does he want this? Because then you are completely RELIANT on HIM. That means you will not be able to leave as easily, and you will have no outside support.
There is no explaining shit to him. He doesn't value you. He looks at you as inferior! Which means any word that comes out your mouth, he couldn't give a fuck about.
OP, I'm being as blunt as possible here. You need to understand that he does not care about you. He doesn't care that his behaviour is hurting you.
You need to snap out of your fairy tale delusions. Get whatever idea of him you have inside your head and look at him for the monster he truly is.
Gather your funds, and leave him.
I would bet that your bf controls other things in your life as well.
In my eyes, anyone who wants to control what you wear, do, say, dis/like, and BE is borderline abusive if not fully abusive controlling AH.
Change your phone number. Therapy to support your healing after the abuse. Restraining order and police report based on his terrifying behavior.
Do not under any circumstance go back to him.
Telling him to stop is, apparently, futile as well. He's abusive, so he didn't respect what you wanted then, he doesn't respect you now by harassing you, and hell never respect you in the future.
Change your phone number. Therapy to support your healing after the abuse. Restraining order and police report based on his terrifying behavior.
Do not under any circumstance go back to him.
Telling him to stop is, apparently, futile as well. He's abusive, so he didn't respect what you wanted then, he doesn't respect you now by harassing you, and hell never respect you in the future.
You tell your BF you cheated and face the consequences.
You leaned a life lesson to never cheat again. It could have been avoided by breaking up at the beginning. You didn’t need to cheat. Time to be an honourable person.
You tell your BF you cheated and face the consequences.
You leaned a life lesson to never cheat again. It could have been avoided by breaking up at the beginning. You didn’t need to cheat. Time to be an honourable person.
Why would it matter if he was “only talking to them” or not? He's been cheating on you.
Break up with him and get an STI test.
I second that last statement
No. He is an absolute creep who is in the process of grooming you to accept this behavior. If he wouldn't act this way with a superior or another man, he is being a creep.
She’s said she doesn’t know how much more she can take. She doesn’t need people saying ‘set yourself on fire to keep him warm.’ It’s not her job to fix him.
You are absolutely delusional.
Thank you so much for your perspective! I really appreciate your thoughtful advice!
Christ, is the bar really that low that the “decent” thing is to not cheat on your partner
He's buying her shoes? Thats a no from me.
Run. Fast. Away from this guy. One of two things will happen if you move in with him.
One, he will start expecting you to wait on him like his mother does. He obviously does not know how to love in a shared household and will most likely resent having to pull his weight because he's never had to do it.
Two, his mother will be an overbearing and constant thorn in your side of your try and get her 'baby boy' to function like a grown adult and actually contribute to the household chores.
Either scenario is a nightmare and you need to gtfo now while you can.
What a terrible sister. She’s using getting banged by your bully to bully you.
I mean you’ve got to start to learn to stand up for yourself right? It’s about time isn’t it? Either cut her off or come up with ways to insult her every time it gets brought up.
Could use a dental dam
Woah, what?! Damn…
I’m sorry, but you lost your Mom when she met Chris. Nothing is going to change at this point. I’m sorry.
What point is he proving? If he's talking to you, why keep the fake guy? ? start hitting on him and telling what a horrible guy your person is and see how he texts then. Use leading questions, push his buttons, block him. There's so many options. Sounds like y'all are a match made in a nut house, so long as y'all aren't hurting each other, do what you do, you know?
DON'T MARRY HIM!
Do not let others pressure you to get married just because it's close to the wedding day.
DO NOT MARRY HIM YOU WILL NOT BE HAPPY WITH HIM
Really? I got the exact opposite. Sounds like he’s doing his level best, if not going above and beyond, to make sure she cums first. Then he does what makes him cum after she gets hers.
Sounds more like a case of him being so consistently generous she’s grown to expect it and is taking it for granted. Then when he brings up that he’s not getting enough from her she gets defensive. When he doesn’t feel like getting her off/having sex she throws a fit.
The girl is a selfish lover but she doesn’t realize it because buddy is busting a nut when they have sex. He needs to keep talking to her until she understands the imbalance in effort that goes into their sex life
Ask her why she decided to do this. You can express discomfort, but you can't tell her to stop doing it as you can't control her actions; she's allowed to do what she wants with her body. However, you're allowed to not like those choices and end the relationship
I don't know exactly what you should do, but there's a pretty good chance that both excessive gaming and his lack of libido are both symptoms of something else, rather than one causing the other.
Is he depressed, overly stressed, anxious, physically ill or in chronic pain, something like that? I'd talk with him about that before going after the gaming directly.
Source- for me I've had periods where I've gamed like it was a full time job due to depression/burn out.
RemindMe!
Dudes on life support because of his own actions and issues. If he was pushed that easily it was bound to happen sooner or later. If he survives, transfer anything with you as a contact or POA out of your name. If you stay in contact because of y’all’s kid then establish solid boundaries and make him get medical/mental treatment through the courts as a requirement for seeing your kid. He’s this irrational you can’t guarantee he won’t do it again or he won’t hurt you or your child.
The fact that you’re not comfortable with your WIFE knowing where you are is a big red flag. What are you doing that you need to keep from her? The more transparent and open you are, the less she will feel the need to track you.
My partner and I have been together nearly 7 years and have never gone through each other's phones. Their fingerprint can unlock my phone, but only because I have medical emergencies that render me unconvinced so they need access to my contacts sometimes. Any misuse of that could get me fired.
I have private client information on my phone which I've signed a contract to protect. I would also feel violated if a friend's partner looked through our conversations, and would never do that to my friends or my partners friends.
Why do you feel the need to go through their phone if you trust them?
As for your last bit, op is 24yo. You skipped forward from mum dying at 14, going to college at 18, to meeting/marrying (?) wife at 21, now, 3 years after that, wife is pregnant.
Mmmm…. It depends. We’re you exclusive initially? Im usually not exclusive off the bat I think it’s a bad idea to put all your eggs in one basket before you really know them. Dating etiquette can be confusing but if this happened before you had the exclusive conversation then yeah it’s hurtful but not cheating.
And having insane chemistry like that doesn’t mean anything… like you can have really great sex with someone super toxic. Sometimes it’s because that person is toxic. Her saying she wasn’t ready for a relationship yet (with you) is pretty normal imo you need to get to know someone to commit.
Also, it’s way easier for women to get dates. Don’t ever assume someone isn’t dating around in the beginning unless you have a conversation about it.
Move on! We all need someone we have to hold back, not push forward.
“Your breath is terrible, but less so if you are freshly brushed. I am also noticing your fingers are not always clean and I don't want you putting them on me, and certainly not in me.
When we dated, you were attentive to your hygiene . What changed? Why do you not pay attention to your hygiene as much? It is a sexual turnoff, but more than that, is something that seems to get worse and not better. What can we do about this? Telling me not to nag is not a solution. If I had funk like you do, I would do everything in my power to address it and not minimize the impact my funk has on you.”
You do realize that if she was having an emotional affair with her ex, and she went to visit him multiple times, that there is zero chance it wasn't a physical affair as well? Adults just don't work that way, my friend. You need to treat this as what it is: a full-blown affair.
I would have had mine on the phone before the dude was even out of earshot. This isn’t something you did wrong. It’s something that happened to you, and something your husband should know about, especially considering this guy is in your social circle.
I’m convinced me truly are the densest creatures. So what if your didn’t want your eardrum bust by a screaming baby? That’s totally valid and normal. And he can take over if it bothers him so much