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Date: January 3, 2023
Alexa , ❤️, 20 y.o.
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I never thought about the consequences it could have on possible kids ty this gave me more insight. He explained why he had to wait 10 years to fight it he’s spoken to a lawyer (showed me proof of that) and explained that he wouldn’t be able to fight it due to him falling under Walsh he can fight to have ur expunged 10 years because it’s required for 15
They will eventually find out. Secrets like this eventually get out.
The “literal skin color” is pretty ambigious. And again, it exists in a world that predates ours, she isn't even really human if I understand correctly.
At a comic con, or whatever they are going to people will either not recognize which character she is playing, or they'll be so into Bleach that they'll understand exactly what the character is and isn't.
Also, from what I understand, at these events you can cosplay any character you want, as long as you don't alter your skin color. If said skin color is reflective of a human race. So anyone can be a smurf or an avatar.
She knows. You told her. She doesn’t care
It’s abuse
Leave
The job maybe temporary, but the experience and knowledge you get from this conference is invaluable. It’s time to work on your career and sometimes you have to have a life. There is nothing to apologize for and don’t feel badly
Do you think it means something that you’re a friend if you tell your parent your honest feelings they will laugh at you?
Where can you afford your own place at 23?
Leave him. You know you are being rational and you know at heart this is creepy as hell. Not only that, he proceeds to gaslight you about it? I saw you mention in a comment he finally admitted to taking the videos and he didn't know why. Sorry, but bullshit meters flying off the rails.
Just imagine that he is stalking a young teenage/woman around the store to get videos to jerk off too. Does that sound like something a level headed adult would do? Put yourself in this girls shoes and I'm sure you'd be severely creeped out–or better yet, hypothetically, what if you had a daughter this age being stalked by some guy at the supermarket doing this very thing?
I've scanned over your other posts and it's very clear this man does not respect you, nor is there any trust in this relationship. It is also quite concerning he started chatting with you at 19 whilst he was 28. Age gaps aren't inherently bad, but this plus him stalking young teenagers screams something more grotesque to me. I've always been told usually in these situations older man will aim for relationships with inexperienced women because women in their age groups are experienced/know enough to not put up with their shit.
Outside of this, he seems to have a pattern of gaslighting you, disregarding your feelings, and boundaries. Also redflags he has never been accommodating to you–you even mention he has not introduced you to his friends. Regardless, this guy is a creep, an asshole, and you should create a safe escape plan to get away from him.
I assume this isn't the first time he's done something like this, nor will it be the last. He will also likely try to get better at hiding it too, knowing you will be snooping his phone. In healthy relationships there is no need to search through each other's phones to look for incriminating evidence. It is exhausting and big signs that the trust is gone. Not saying you're wrong for this at all–you had a suspicion and you were right to; however, I notice you mentioned you have searched his phone several times: from his Facebook activity logs and his search history. This is exhausting enough and you should leave him.
Unaliving is not the answer. It’s your first relationship no one is surprised it’s not gonna be your forever one. She’ll recover and move on. Or she won’t that’s up to her.
And I’m saying that that’s not necessarily going to be her reaction based on several other elements and the fact that we actually don’t know her.
Can we not act like the breadwinner completely barring their partner from using any of their savings is financially abusive?
Literally. His income isn't just his, if it isn't 1% of their savings – surely for being the caretaker, she deserves access to 1% of the marriage money to potentially waste it on someone she chooses worthy?
What did we say about sticking it in crazy? Fun until it burns.
You know, dildos don't throw tantrums or harbor sexist views, a huge advantage over the guy in question…
“Your sister may be pretty in a magazine type of way, but you see that everywhere, and it's incredibly boring in a cookie cutter way to me. I much prefer your beauty and the fact that you have an absolutely incredible inside. Your sister made magazines, but that's all she is, and why she keeps trying to take what's yours. Your sister is insecure because 100% of her worth is entirely made up of what people today find beautiful, and that will fade as she ages. She knows she has no other qualities, and she knows you have the whole package, and she tears you down so you don't see it, because she needs to feel superior in some way.
He doesn't have a porn addiction. He's a 20 year old who jerks off to porn, like most guys his age. Nothing you've said here indicated a porn addiction. It indicates porn use which you're in your rights to not want in a relationship but… also you're being kinda hysterical about it. Like he stopped for three weeks because you had an issue with it and now you're assuming he's going to be violent with you because he watches porn??
“Porn addiction” isn't even real — it's Evangelical propaganda that got secularized and mainstreamed by people who wanted to make money as “porn addiction counselors” and further the Evangelical agenda of banning porn entirely.
You don't seem ready for an adult sexual relationship, frankly.
Came here to say it myself. Who tf cover's someone's mouth. Like, by what right
You’re a terrible person . You ain’t fixing shit
I’m going to get downvoted for this like I always do whenever this topic comes up but the reality is outside of health insurance and tax breaks everything else can be achieved without marriage
Marriage is simply a piece of paper that says you want to be with that person for the rest of your life because you love them
Thank you. ?
Fellow dog parent. You made the right choice. Anyone who would kick a dog is a piece of shit
What if she has a twin that uses her name for her stage name?
This is they way
Personally speaking from my experience as the person that shuts down. I had to learn to communicate that the situation truly was not a reflection of my partner doing anything wrong.
I know for me it would bring up trauma from being treated poorly and sexually abused. I was never loved or cared for so when my needs were being met, and every once and awhile I had to go without it brought up some weird feelings and emotions. I felt like a selfish person getting upset. However, it was a trauma response for having partners use me like a masturbation tool, and feeling like used trash again. I still get the feeling of being unloved or cared for even though I know I am in a healthy relationship. It had nothing to do with being let down or going without pleasure.
I know it is also extremely very hot to want to stay in the mood once I realize my partner already had their orgasm. Again this is the irrational response I have to work on.
I am not sure if your partner has had similar experiences, but from your description It sounds close to my experience. I hope it can help.
Again, you can say that about anything. People end up in abusive relationships so should you avoid relationships forever? People have discovered they’re dating their cousin, so do you DNA test every partner you have? Do you get STI screening every 6 months in a committed relationship? If you have nothing to hide why not just get it done? If you have nothing to hide can I search through your phone everyday?
Like I said in my original comment you have every right to request a test if you want one. Just don’t pretend like you’re not accusing your partner of lying and cheating and that’s fine. There would be benefits to mandatory testing sure, but that isn’t the reality we live! in.
What clarification do you want?
Is this casual sex, FWB, or is she looking for a relationship? I am in the dark here and swimming in the deep end of the pool. We talked for a couple of hours over dinner and a little at my house but nothing about what I am wondering about now.
When you are all together, maybe at dinner, have your bf tell her in front of everyone “ please do not open the door before knocking and wait for us to respond before opening it. We need to respect each other’s privacy” And put a lock on the door. Lock it every time to enter and exit the room.
I was ban because I re-signed up too fast and it was treated as a fake account. It's not sexist, Tinder just has very shady and stupid rules about ban.
if it was an aggressive cancer I'd at least follow the logic.
but T2 diabetes can be managed quite a bit and doesn't have to impact your life that much besides having an extra reason to be conscious of your food.
7 months is a long time to spend betraying you. I think the counselor could have helped in the very beginning, if he recognized his own behavior as being wrong and wanted to repair the issues that led to it and rebuild your trust. But I think he's only suggesting it now as a means of damage control to placate you. It sounds like he's trickle truthing, only divulging partial details when you confront him with what you know. You're right when you say it'd be better if he were transparent, at least then you would be able to make an informed decision about what to do next. But by not being transparent, he's continuing the deception and trying to avoid the consequences for his behavior.
I hope you will find the courage within yourself to leave this person. He has acted with complete disregard for you. This is not love, it is manipulation. He has been deceiving you about who he really is, and it is okay to mourn the loss of the relationship you thought you had. But I hope you won't fall prey to the sunk cost fallacy here. You did spend many years together, but you have many more years ahead to form new loving relationships in your life. You deserve so much better than this.
I've been tangentially involved in several legal cases usually as a 1st medic on scene, I've learned that muddying the waters is a defence lawyers best tactic and if the defence lawyers are any good then something like a signed letter of consent is enough that the case will never see a court room.