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Date: January 4, 2023
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If you want to continue to be friends with them you need to STFU about and it and pretend it never happened
Instead, he thinks l'm cheating on him with the vibrator.
I assume this guy has yet to discover that he's a fucking moron.
…uh. no, probably not. Idk if this is just a joke or a very immature situation between a 35 & 40 year old tbh.
The reason why he can't buy himself a gun is the reason why you need to get out of there fast.
Please take a deep breath because I'm going to ask you to do something large.
It is time that you reframed what is happening here.
YOU HAVE OUTGROWN HIM.
So what if he has 'logical' arguments? So what.
Anyone who actually is very smart will listen to your opinions and value your feedback. He is incapable of doing this.
Anyone who actually is very smart does not feel the need to belittle others because they realize that people are complex and that everyone brings something different to the table.
Someone who is smart does not spend ANY time comparing their partner to others because they realize that everyone has different backgrounds and starting points.
Someone who truly is intelligent doesn't feel the need to argue and jab at you to make you feel LESS THAN.
Your partner has the emotional maturity of a 12 year old child.
He's so crappy at social imteraction that you need to give one word answers to his questions just to MAKE HIM STOP.
You have to realize that being 'logical' is often used like the phrase “I'm just being honest” as a way to be mean to other people.
My background is in technical work and the sciences. I am often told I am very logical… but I am smart enough not to treat my partner poorly.
He doesn't want an equal partner. He needs to feel superior to you.
You're way more mature than he is.
Time to just tell him you are done and walk away. He will get upset and cause you problems because his inferior partner cannot possibly consider him to 'not be enough'.
If you are not yet sure, find an excuse to go stay in a hotel or AirBnB or family for a week. Make up an excuse like a sick person or work.
I will bet that in one week all you will feel is RELIEF that he isn't around.
the fact that you think she broke up with you for setting a boundary and are now shocked that she actually stuck by her own word is wild. good for her, i would do the same if i had to beg someone to comfort me when i’m sick and then they lash out cuz they’re annoyed.
“Dating advice” is probably trying to get her to talk about her sexual life. This guy is giving me creeps as I remember so many older men who would give “advice” who really wanted to know details on what kind of sex I was having… because I’m an adult and this is how adults talk… it’s fucking gross.
Chances are there is a lot more going on that OP doesn’t know about or doesn’t want to hear.
He already told her that it's not working for him. He doesn't need to compromise to make her happy, that's what boundaries are, and asking someone to compromise their boundaries in order to suit your need… is manipulation.
Please don't follow this advise if you want the actual truth. Talking only works is she is a terrible lier or she is innocent. If she actually is cheating this will just start the lies and gaslighting.
Check her phone when she is asleep or when possible, I know this is intrusive but anything on the phone will be gone after the first accusation.
Okay, two things.
She 100% was having an emotional affair with Elmer, and part of her concern about this is her projecting on you.
And you are not working on this with your wife. You describe her as nagging, and not as a team member. Regardless of whether or not you’re having an emotional fair, you’re being driven away from your wife.
If you want to save your marriage, I would tell Edwina you need to stop seeing her while you salvage your relationship with your wife. And I would insist that you do marriage counseling with your wife.
Do not leave the house.
A good partner doesn't end up in situations with a hard woman in front of him unless he is a complete idiot.
Tell her directly how you fell ,and that if she is going to spend less time on you than on her friends, then all you can't continue your marriage.
Perhaps that's for the best, she was miserable with you, she is happy back there. Reality should be taken for what it is, even if it is bitter.
She won't man up, she'll woman up.