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Maddie and Seth, y.o.
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Online Live Sex Chat rooms Maddie and Seth
Date: January 10, 2023
I don’t know about great, but I can tell you one rule that we stick to no matter what, and it has made a huge difference:
When one of us is upset with the other or just has a “bone to pick” let’s say, here’s the rule – THAT is the topic of conversation that evening! Neither of us are allowed to say, “well… What about that time that you (whatever)?!” Or “ I don’t see what, right you have to bring that up when we both know that you…(whatever)!”
Because only one of two things is going on there :
Someone is deflecting because they don’t want to either admit, or even discuss, the topic at hand. OR
Someone has been upset about something, or at least this issue has been rattling around in their head, for quite some time. Coincidentally, they’ve chosen NOW to bring it up!
You don’t get to sit on a “get out of jail, free card”. She mentioned that I caught her doing this couple of months ago, and I had forgotten about it actually. She tried to deflect, changing the subject of my behavior, and I responded with, “you might have an excellent point there!“ I can’t wait until tomorrow when that topic is no longer out of bounds according to our agreement.” To her credit, she not only knew that I was correct, she stopped in her tracks, and circled back to the conversation at hand. I think her for that and we have the entire issue wrapped up in about 15 minutes.
When you are truly more interested in being in a healthy relationship than you are in “winning” an argument, it’s amazing what you can accomplish !??♂️
I sound like I’m some “know it all” who has all the answers. I got divorced it 41 years old, and never had a mature, healthy relationship in my life until her. Neither had she before she met me. We’re figuring this out on the fly lol ?
Yes.
He thought they were “natural” before. But now he’s grossed out? & He loves looking at other women on social media, who have filters on & implants & botox & fake tans… but he doesn’t like his girlfriend who has implants?
He needs to pick a lane.
& He’s allowed his opinion… he is NOT allowed to belittle his girlfriend & body shame her. He’s allowed to have his preferences but he is NOT allowed to berate others cuz they don’t fit into it.
Your stepmother sucks but your dad sucks even more. Cut them both out. Nothing of value will be lost.